Yes, the victims of gun violence should blame people that want less guns. The logic is flawless.
You are imprisoned in the cage of duality having not seen that thought has created your reality. You can't escape the notion of innocence and guilt because your feelings of guilt are deeply repressed but leak out in everything that you see. There is no one you can blame for anything least of all yourself. You are running a deeply embedded program. Can you see that. When I speak to you of my thoughts I can use words and concepts that exist nowhere else but in our associations and imaginations. The common reality we share over those two things makes it possible for us to communicate, a powerful tool that makes possible the transmission of things like what is dangerous without having to learn that fact by inividual experience.
But what happens when I tell you that God is good and you are a worthless sinner unfit for life but I can lift that curse for say some donation in proportion to your crime. How is that bit of graft possible without the prior presence and inner feeling of guilt. We use blame to mold and control our children and leave those scars. We have all been through a concentration camp and could not have survived with constant awareness of that pain. But all that pain creates a price. We want to do the same to others, to make them hurt and suffer as we did.
One of the targets you chose is people who own guns. The victims of gun violence blame because they have to. They do not want to know the real cause of their pain, that they are part of the great conspiracy to deny their own violence within and blame others for it. What you are saying is that you are entitled to your own outrage, that you can point and fire it like a gun. You can't forgive. You will use force to trample on my right of self defense, someone who knows at a deeper level than you do that acting out with violence by gun or otherwise is only my own self loathing denied and directed outwardly out of vengeance. Not going to happen. I have felt the hatred for myself within me and survived. We live in a capsized boat and the only way out is to swim down in the direction of our fears.
I offer you opinions I doubt you will hear anywhere else. What you do with them is up to you.