Yeah my property taxes are also high, but this city is pretty nice where I'm at (~$7k on a $350kish property).
As far as salary, I stopped chasing a higher one (for now) as there is nothing I feel I am lacking at this point. You get to a point where there are better things to worry about (although it took me a bit to realize it) as a real life change due to salary is just way far out, and you have to decide if it's important to you.
We earn enough to max out our retirement and pretty much buy the things we want. I would only need a higher salary if I decide to start wanting more expensive things, which isn't me thankfully. I think the only thing that might change my mind is deciding to retire earlier, but right now I have no desire to quit working either. Since we max out retirement accounts though, I imagine I will have a lot of flexibility in that area later in life anyway.