Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
I've been in a relationship for 6 years so I haven't been really able to even try to get close to girls.. But I've always been surrounded by them... I guess I'm the understanding guy they always go to for advice and to talk... It's more annoying than anything - I had this one friend, underwear model at that, who would always complain about men to me and how no one understands her - i'd always want to scream "I understand you, goddammit!" but I don't think that she or any of my other friends really considered me a guy, as uncool as that sounds...
Take advantage of that situation (I am not saying take advantage of the woman though, that's just never necessary unless you are a sexual predator/offender)....if you 'know' what you are doing that is . I have gotten the 'you are such a great guy to listen to me, I hope you find a nice girl one day' a few times and a few we have ended up in bed. It's a matter of seizing the opportunity, once that 'nice guy' line is out, I reply something like 'yeah I am tired of the bad ones...fun for the moment, they want to keep it going, but there's nothing there for you'....when she says 'I didn't think you dated much/at all' or anything along those lines, just tell her you date enough, but don't really care to 'kiss and tell, women think I won't be a good friend and men just think you are lying' ....usually prompts the next event as 1) she's pissed or upset since she needed a shoulder cry on/ear to vent to 2) you just admitted you are discrete 3) she's now curious that you are turning down women that are implied to be ready and willing.
This does backfire though ....
This is a story about another guy who was a total dork/nobody/loser (I am not saying you are any of these, just that how it really doesn't matter what 'most' women look at you as) that used this tactic and how I learned about it's 'value' :
I was dating (high school nonsense, movie and making out in a car or in another room while constantly listening for her parents to check on us) a girl that had a circle of 5 friends and they all had this one guy 'friend' that never had good luck with anything, but is *just* a friend....I knew this 'friend' was doing one of the girls in this group and it was a secret (I couldn't be sure it was actual intercourse, but at a party I saw them sneaking feels and later disappeared into a bedroom)....anyways long story short, turns out he was having sex regularly with not only that one friend, but all of the girls in the group and they all thought it was their secret.
I did really like this girl (looking back I don't know why), but she would pull the 'I don't do that yet' thing (we were young so it was still a valid response).....we had regular dates and make out time but nothing progressed....
Then she brought this guy up one day before I came to pick her up...told me it was over between them (she found out his sob story and the reason she gave in to him was fake) and that I could expect a 'different date' (or something like that) tonight, but she wanted to talk about it. However my reaction was telling her don't get cold waiting for me to arrive, why did she 'stop' me with the excuse she was still a virgin and had the nerve to tell me she was considering me her 'first' and I then asked her if she knew that this guy was sleeping with her friend too (I didn't know he was actually sleeping with all of them though, I only knew that this guy and one of her friends were at least getting naked together).
She brought this up with her friend in front of the other girls. I can't even imagine the shock of each of them as they realized this idiot nailed them all. She and her friend called me up to tell me about this and wanted me to beat the guy up for them and I could name the price (this is why I didn't date much in high school, but *again* looking back I passed up a potential threesome, I had no clue about girls early on.).
All I know is it worked and I have always had this as a movie idea.
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