Those latches often don't make much audible noise, but that isn't the point. If you are seating them, you can keep a finger gently on the latch to feel when it's latched, or you can test it.
GN video shows clear evidence on the damaged user cable they received, that it wasn't remotely close to being seated, let alone latched, and they said you can see similar witness marks on other damaged connectors.
This means, most likely it was a haphazard effort at best. Not everyone installing a GPU really has much clue about what they are doing, or the importance of seating connectors.