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[pontifex]

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[NikPreviousAcct]

Men?

 

[spidey07]

"Hi" tends to work wonders.

being serious

 

[JS80]

Are you ugly?

 

[pontifex]

Originally posted by: JS80
Are you ugly?

probably

 

[edro]

Pics of self.

 

[pontifex]

Originally posted by: Nik
Men?

no thanks

 

[pontifex]

Originally posted by: spidey07
"Hi" tends to work wonders.

being serious

well, i can do that. its the parts after that that i screw up on or don't know what to do

 

[Cooler]

Do you have pic you may not be that Attractive .
Are these women out of your leage?
Find out what she is into and talk about it small talk can do wonders also say how nice she looks ect.

 

[pontifex]

Originally posted by: edro
Pics of self.

i'd prefer not to have my pics on an internet forum. was done once and the end results were not good.

 

[KarenMarie]

you ask where to meet girls. it takes more than just to meet a girl.

i notice that you say that you are shy and not vry self confident. Here is a hint. Shy is cute... no self confidence comes across as desperation for many women. bad thing. There is a nice little pocket between confident and cocky and women love that.

if you are not... fake it till you make it.



oh and trial and error too.

 

[atiyeh]

Originally posted by: Nik
Men?

He's not from Oregon, so that would probably rule that option out.

 

[Taggart]

Have you tried myspace or online dating?

 

[ISAslot]

Wow. I'm not alone! I'm interested as well. I'm also 25.

 

[zoiks]

You should try and go to social events more such as parties, weddings etc. Chances are that you would get hooked into one.

 

[pontifex]

Originally posted by: Cooler
Do you have pic you may not be that Attractive .
Are these women out of your leage?

thats a good question. i don't even know what my league is...i don't go after the super hot, model like women. i tend to like girls who are naturally cute without all the makeup and sh!t like that. i stay away from the girls who seem like high maintenance or who seem shallow.

thats another thing. i like to kind of get to know a girl a little before i ask her out. like at work its easy because you could see how they act and stuff like that.

 

[Cooler]

Originally posted by: pontifex

Originally posted by: Cooler
Do you have pic you may not be that Attractive .
Are these women out of your leage?

thats a good question. i don't even know what my league is...i don't go after the super hot, model like women. i tend to like girls who are naturally cute without all the makeup and sh!t like that. i stay away from the girls who seem like high maintenance or who seem shallow.

thats another thing. i like to kind of get to know a girl a little before i ask her out. like at work its easy because you could see how they act and stuff like that.

That puts you on the "friends ladder" 1/2 the time.

 

[bsobel]

Originally posted by: pontifex

Originally posted by: edro
Pics of self.

i'd prefer not to have my pics on an internet forum. was done once and the end results were not good.

Well, we are going to need pics, sorry. Need to determine if this is just a self confidence issue, or you scare the hell out of people Don't worry, it's probably the former.

Remember, guys fall in love with woman they are attracted to. Girls become attracted to guys they are in love with.

As someone else posted, try saying 'Hi'. Your very unlikely to have a woman make the first move especially when I suspect your throwing off an extreme shy vibe.

Quite honestly, if you ask 10 girls out, statistically most guys will get at least one yes. Perhaps in your case it's 1 in 20 (or 1 in 5, you never know). You just need to get comfortable talking with women and do it as often as you can. Practice on woman you are not interested until you get more comfortable.

Bill

 

[pontifex]

Originally posted by: ISAslot
Wow. I'm not alone! I'm interested as well. I'm also 25.

you're in the same boat as me? i figure there's probably lots of guys like me who are afraid to ask for help i guess. i dunno, i could be wrong too.

 

[BriGy86]

Originally posted by: Cooler
Do you have pic you may not be that Attractive .
Are these women out of your leage?
Find out what she is into and talk about it small talk can do wonders also say how nice she looks ect.

don't even think if "leagues" he's trying to up his confidence

the OP could do what every other successful guy does to get women

be a dick, unrespectful, and overly sexual... most women seem to flock to that sort of thing, then when you 2 get close enough, abuse and beat her, then she'll never leave

aren't women odd?

 

[bo0]

first of all, GET OUT OF THE HOUSE!! Girls will not fall on your lap while you try to
get to level 60 on WOW.
I normally meet girls through friends or friends of friends.

 

[Skunkwourk]

"i'm shy, not very self-confident"

thats your biggest problem. If even you can't see your self worth, why or how would any girl?

 

[pontifex]

Originally posted by: zoiks
You should try and go to social events more such as parties, weddings etc. Chances are that you would get hooked into one.

well, having very few friends as i mentioned and the type of friends (married, with kids, etc) kinda slows that down a bit. most of my friends are older than me too, like in their 30s.
plus i hate doing stuff like that by myself.

 

[EatSpam]

Originally posted by: pontifex

Originally posted by: JS80
Are you ugly?

probably

That's the problem. Women like self confidence. I've known some horribly ugly guys who have girlfriends. One guy in my fraternity was like 300lbs and fat and he always had a girlfriend. Believe in yourself, be confident, and just talk to them. And don't ever sound desperate, ever.

 

[BriGy86]

Originally posted by: Cooler

Originally posted by: pontifex

Originally posted by: Cooler
Do you have pic you may not be that Attractive .
Are these women out of your leage?

thats a good question. i don't even know what my league is...i don't go after the super hot, model like women. i tend to like girls who are naturally cute without all the makeup and sh!t like that. i stay away from the girls who seem like high maintenance or who seem shallow.

thats another thing. i like to kind of get to know a girl a little before i ask her out. like at work its easy because you could see how they act and stuff like that.

That puts you on the "friends ladder" 1/2 the time.

http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html SFW