18/15...to young?

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rudeguy

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Originally posted by: SethK28
If there is grass on the field play ball, if there aint no grass play in the mud.

you just might get trout smacked for that one
 

rudeguy

Lifer
Dec 27, 2001
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on a related note...lets say oral sex is illegal in your state...who gets in trouble? the one giving or receiving? Both?
 

Vette73

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You 18 or older, then you ONLY date 18 or older. If not it will not end very well, and yes it will end. Once you hit 18, there is NO looking back, period.
 

Isla

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it's not a matter of too young as much as it is TOO FERTILE.

My daughter is almost 16 and her boyfriend is almost 18. They have been taking things veeeeerrrrrry slowly because they are smart kids and realize how easy it would be to screw up both of their lives.

I don't think it's too young to date, but it is too young to deal with the responsibilities/potential consequences of being sexual active.
 

Zanix

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Feb 11, 2003
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Originally posted by: oniq
Originally posted by: rudeguy
Originally posted by: Zanix
Originally posted by: pray4mojo
Just don't take her out until 1 am. If you do, be prepared to be wacked by a plastic firetruck by her father.

haha



my cousin was about 17 when she was 15. and if you're about 16 when you're 18, her pops might not mind = (he doesn't think you're trying "the funny business")

so I'm saying, I think it's cool that two people can stand each other long enough to like each other...

huh?

double huh?


Ook ok.. I relize I don't make alot of sence. I mean, Maturity wise. I mean, I'm 22 years old, but I'm really about 19~20 in the brain. damnit... does anyone understand?
 

UglyCasanova

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Originally posted by: Zanix
Originally posted by: oniq
Originally posted by: rudeguy
Originally posted by: Zanix
Originally posted by: pray4mojo
Just don't take her out until 1 am. If you do, be prepared to be wacked by a plastic firetruck by her father.

haha



my cousin was about 17 when she was 15. and if you're about 16 when you're 18, her pops might not mind = (he doesn't think you're trying "the funny business")

so I'm saying, I think it's cool that two people can stand each other long enough to like each other...

huh?

double huh?


Ook ok.. I relize I don't make alot of sence. I mean, Maturity wise. I mean, I'm 22 years old, but I'm really about 19~20 in the brain. damnit... does anyone understand?


No, stfu and go back to school. You suck at life.
 

zippy

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Nov 10, 1999
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Originally posted by: Marlin1975
You 18 or older, then you ONLY date 18 or older. If not it will not end very well, and yes it will end. Once you hit 18, there is NO looking back, period.
I'm 18, my girlfriend is 17. I have a few friends in the same situation. There's nothing wrong with it.

BTW, 18/15 is a toss up - especially since she's just about 16. For some people it's not a problem, for others it is. I, personally, would not go out with a 15 y/o, though I wouldn't even go out with a 16 year old at 18. I feel that there is a big gap there in life experience and maturity. I remember when I was a sophomore in high school, I've come a long way since then and I just don't think I could go out with a girl at that point. As the years progress, the gap becomes less and less and pretty soon 2 years is nothing. However, to me, personally, 2 years is a lot in high school. To others it's nothing.
 

Zanix

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Feb 11, 2003
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Originally posted by: UglyCassanova
Originally posted by: Zanix
Originally posted by: oniq
Originally posted by: rudeguy
Originally posted by: Zanix
Originally posted by: pray4mojo
Just don't take her out until 1 am. If you do, be prepared to be wacked by a plastic firetruck by her father.

haha



my cousin was about 17 when she was 15. and if you're about 16 when you're 18, her pops might not mind = (he doesn't think you're trying "the funny business")

so I'm saying, I think it's cool that two people can stand each other long enough to like each other...

huh?

double huh?


Ook ok.. I relize I don't make alot of sence. I mean, Maturity wise. I mean, I'm 22 years old, but I'm really about 19~20 in the brain. damnit... does anyone understand?


No, stfu and go back to school. You suck at life.



Die, Ugly.
 

nick1985

Lifer
Dec 29, 2002
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Originally posted by: zippy
Originally posted by: Marlin1975
You 18 or older, then you ONLY date 18 or older. If not it will not end very well, and yes it will end. Once you hit 18, there is NO looking back, period.
I'm 18, my girlfriend is 17. I have a few friends in the same situation. There's nothing wrong with it.

BTW, 18/15 is a toss up - especially since she's just about 16. For some people it's not a problem, for others it is. I, personally, would not go out with a 15 y/o, though I wouldn't even go out with a 16 year old at 18. I feel that there is a big gap there in life experience and maturity. I remember when I was a sophomore in high school, I've come a long way since then and I just don't think I could go out with a girl at that point. As the years progress, the gap becomes less and less and pretty soon 2 years is nothing. However, to me, personally, 2 years is a lot in high school. To others it's nothing.

thing is she is going to be a junior. i think she is the youngest person in her grade, so she is deffinately mature. and there is DEFFINATELY no plans for sex. no way. bad bad bad idea at this age. i dont wanna end up on jenny jones sayin "IT AINT MINE!"
 

zer0burn

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U turning 19 this year???

If you are its wrong for sure. 18/15 is wrong although I think 18/16 is fine just wait a bit maybe???

Im 21 my gf's 19 we've been going out for 2 years now...
 

kevinthenerd

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If you don't mind, I'll cross-post:

When I was a senior in high school, all the guys joked that our classmate's sister was hot. (He was a senior too.) She was a freshman. They were just joking, but I was seriously infatuated with her. I honestly wanted to date her and have a meaningful relationship with her. I couldn't stop thinking about her for quite some time.

You'll probably get over it. Just fight it until you do.

Girls in that young teenage age-level dress sexy these days. That's half the problem. I've even seen 12-year-olds try to dress like 18-year-old sluts in malls and stuff. Sometimes, they pull it off quite well. Our male hormones are trained to go after girls who are mature enough to bear children and young enough to live long enough to raise them, but every woman outside of that perfect age tries to look 20.

You're normal. Just stay away from the kiddie porn and stuff, and you'll be ok. You haven't given us enough evidence to be labeled as a molester. Your attractions are one thing, but what you do with them is what really counts. Example: Every straight guy is attracted to women, but how many of them rape them? Very few. Likewise, I'm sure many men with younger tastes fight them.

Oddly enough, my two deepest dating relationships were with girls older than me. One was a HS junior when I was a HS freshman. The other was a college senior when I was a college freshman. My two most unsuccessful dating attempts were with girls younger than me. One was a HS freshman when I was a HS senior, and the other was a HS freshman when I was a HS junior. It sucks to be rejected by a girl three years younger than you are.

 

nick1985

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Originally posted by: zer0burn
U turning 19 this year???

If you are its wrong for sure. 18/15 is wrong although I think 18/16 is fine just wait a bit maybe???

Im 21 my gf's 19 we've been going out for 2 years now...

her b-day is in august. im in feb. so about 2.5 years
 

zippy

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Originally posted by: nick1985
Originally posted by: zippy
Originally posted by: Marlin1975
You 18 or older, then you ONLY date 18 or older. If not it will not end very well, and yes it will end. Once you hit 18, there is NO looking back, period.
I'm 18, my girlfriend is 17. I have a few friends in the same situation. There's nothing wrong with it.

BTW, 18/15 is a toss up - especially since she's just about 16. For some people it's not a problem, for others it is. I, personally, would not go out with a 15 y/o, though I wouldn't even go out with a 16 year old at 18. I feel that there is a big gap there in life experience and maturity. I remember when I was a sophomore in high school, I've come a long way since then and I just don't think I could go out with a girl at that point. As the years progress, the gap becomes less and less and pretty soon 2 years is nothing. However, to me, personally, 2 years is a lot in high school. To others it's nothing.

thing is she is going to be a junior. i think she is the youngest person in her grade, so she is deffinately mature. and there is DEFFINATELY no plans for sex. no way. bad bad bad idea at this age. i dont wanna end up on jenny jones sayin "IT AINT MINE!"
Hrm. When a friend of mine was a junior in HS he had a girlfriend that was a freshman in college (I know, weird, it's usually the other way around). It's kinda sketchy, but not too bad. You're like 2.5 years older than her? If she was a sophomore I would say it's not cool, but in this case it's really your call - if you really like her and want to try it, go for it, but if you're just in it for the booty (which you don't seem to be) then it would be a really crappy idea.

 

nick1985

Lifer
Dec 29, 2002
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Originally posted by: zippy
Originally posted by: nick1985
Originally posted by: zippy
Originally posted by: Marlin1975
You 18 or older, then you ONLY date 18 or older. If not it will not end very well, and yes it will end. Once you hit 18, there is NO looking back, period.
I'm 18, my girlfriend is 17. I have a few friends in the same situation. There's nothing wrong with it.

BTW, 18/15 is a toss up - especially since she's just about 16. For some people it's not a problem, for others it is. I, personally, would not go out with a 15 y/o, though I wouldn't even go out with a 16 year old at 18. I feel that there is a big gap there in life experience and maturity. I remember when I was a sophomore in high school, I've come a long way since then and I just don't think I could go out with a girl at that point. As the years progress, the gap becomes less and less and pretty soon 2 years is nothing. However, to me, personally, 2 years is a lot in high school. To others it's nothing.

thing is she is going to be a junior. i think she is the youngest person in her grade, so she is deffinately mature. and there is DEFFINATELY no plans for sex. no way. bad bad bad idea at this age. i dont wanna end up on jenny jones sayin "IT AINT MINE!"
Hrm. When a friend of mine was a junior in HS he had a girlfriend that was a freshman in college (I know, weird, it's usually the other way around). It's kinda sketchy, but not too bad. You're like 2.5 years older than her? If she was a sophomore I would say it's not cool, but in this case it's really your call - if you really like her and want to try it, go for it, but if you're just in it for the booty (which you don't seem to be) then it would be a really crappy idea.

thanks. good advice :beer:
 

WinkOsmosis

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Originally posted by: nick1985
Originally posted by: zippy
Originally posted by: Marlin1975
You 18 or older, then you ONLY date 18 or older. If not it will not end very well, and yes it will end. Once you hit 18, there is NO looking back, period.
I'm 18, my girlfriend is 17. I have a few friends in the same situation. There's nothing wrong with it.

BTW, 18/15 is a toss up - especially since she's just about 16. For some people it's not a problem, for others it is. I, personally, would not go out with a 15 y/o, though I wouldn't even go out with a 16 year old at 18. I feel that there is a big gap there in life experience and maturity. I remember when I was a sophomore in high school, I've come a long way since then and I just don't think I could go out with a girl at that point. As the years progress, the gap becomes less and less and pretty soon 2 years is nothing. However, to me, personally, 2 years is a lot in high school. To others it's nothing.

thing is she is going to be a junior. i think she is the youngest person in her grade, so she is deffinately mature. and there is DEFFINATELY no plans for sex. no way. bad bad bad idea at this age. i dont wanna end up on jenny jones sayin "IT AINT MINE!"

That's what condoms are for.
 

RU482

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Originally posted by: dullard
So there is basically 2.5 years between you. Big deal. When you are 90, she will be 88. What a cradle robber.

By the way, I'm 2.5 years older than my wife. We started dating when I was 17, she was 15. That was 9 years ago and things are going quite well.

But of course wait for any heavy dating - just a movie here or there is what you should start out with. You don't want to cause yourself any problems.


whoa, me too. That's weird
been married almost 3 years
 

amcdonald

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Originally posted by: pray4mojo
Just don't take her out until 1 am. If you do, be prepared to be wacked by a plastic firetruck by her father.
I just want to point out that not only is this guy funny, but his name is so much better than any of yours.
And thread-starter, go for it, but don't "go for it".
 

Ladies Man

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Originally posted by: Isla
it's not a matter of too young as much as it is TOO FERTILE.

My daughter is almost 16 and her boyfriend is almost 18. They have been taking things veeeeerrrrrry slowly because they are smart kids and realize how easy it would be to screw up both of their lives.

I don't think it's too young to date, but it is too young to deal with the responsibilities/potential consequences of being sexual active.

Yeah you think they are going very slow...
Smart kids like sex too... they are just smart enough to hide it from mom
 

nick1985

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Originally posted by: PsychoMantis
jail bait

can we ban the effing n00b? he has 5 posts, and ive only seen 2 and both of them were really dumb and asking for a ban
 
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