18, can my parents tell me where i can stay?!

[Gyrene]

Originally posted by: chin311

Originally posted by: dtyn

Originally posted by: chin311
so yeah, they are trying to tell me where i can stay the night and where i cant, lol

i laugh, im still gonna stay wherever...i dont see how they can tell me that, even if i am living under 'their roof'

im 18, dont pay rent, would if they wanted it, but they havent asked sooo yeah.

i pay all my own bills, (insurance, phone, etc.)

what could they do if i dont 'listen' to them?

comments?


*awaits the AT flood of "their house, their rules" responses*

The very fact that your are thinking about not listening to them, and not respecting what they say, shows that you aren't mature enough to live whereever you want and do whatever you want. Learn to respect them, talk over the decision, and try to show them your point of view. They gave birth to you , supported you, and raised you, show them some decent respect by listening to what they say.

please, im sure you would do the same thing.

wanna know where i cant stay? MY BROTHERS HOUSE. why? because their was another GIRL there...and it was a "CO ED sleepover", funniest thing ive evar heard. its retarded, not like their are crack heads sitting around doing lines of coke, then i would listen.

No, I wouldn't do the same thing. I was in a similar situation. I'm 19, I wanted to move in with my fiance, but my parents said no, that's not a good idea, and gave me reasons. Granted, they were reasons I didn't agree with, but I'm financially independant from them, and I respected their decision to postpone the move in until we're married. I'm engaged to this girl, totally independant, and yet I still listed to my parents and respected them.

 

[TMPadmin]

Here is the deal. You are living there for free. They are providing you with a roof over your head and I'm sure they don't kick you out when dinner times comes. You are 18 big Fvcking deal! You are still a child, YES, you are a child. Don't take that the wrong way. I was 18 and thought I was king $hit and knew it all. Well, I didn't.

Anyway before I get too deep into my old man rant. Your parents are looking out for you. They do know better than you, they might be over-protective but it's because they love you. Do you know that your father probably stood over your bed thinking of how many ways you will make him proud through the years? He sat watching your play or a sport or when you showed him something on the computer and thought that you have exceeded his expectations. They are looking out for your best interests. They might be wrong but they are trying to do what is going to be the best to keep you safe. Bottom line is that they care. Show them the respect they deserve for raising you. On their end they should be comfortable in the way they brought you up. They should have confidence in you because of the lessons they taught you thought the years. Your decision should be consistent with their upbringing. There are extreme cases but if you are normal and they are normal there should be similar choices. Don't disappoint them.

Old man rambling off. I feel I am in a unique situation I'm only 31 I still feel 18 but have the responsibility of someone who is 40. I see both sides.

 

[mrCide]

i'm buying a place in a couple months but i still get grief.. though i've got my freedom, i still hear 'i don't like that you're staying up late when you have work' 'i'm never late am i?' 'no but it may effect your work'..

being a sys admin i'm not too concerned but it's annoying to be lectuered at the age of 21.


edit; you should still respect them, but explain to them that they shouldn't worry and you can take care of yourself, though if you just turned 18 or something, stop whining, you're still a kid.. hell IM still a kid.

 

[chin311]

Originally posted by: dtyn

Originally posted by: chin311

Originally posted by: dtyn

Originally posted by: chin311
so yeah, they are trying to tell me where i can stay the night and where i cant, lol

i laugh, im still gonna stay wherever...i dont see how they can tell me that, even if i am living under 'their roof'

im 18, dont pay rent, would if they wanted it, but they havent asked sooo yeah.

i pay all my own bills, (insurance, phone, etc.)

what could they do if i dont 'listen' to them?

comments?


*awaits the AT flood of "their house, their rules" responses*

The very fact that your are thinking about not listening to them, and not respecting what they say, shows that you aren't mature enough to live whereever you want and do whatever you want. Learn to respect them, talk over the decision, and try to show them your point of view. They gave birth to you , supported you, and raised you, show them some decent respect by listening to what they say.

please, im sure you would do the same thing.

wanna know where i cant stay? MY BROTHERS HOUSE. why? because their was another GIRL there...and it was a "CO ED sleepover", funniest thing ive evar heard. its retarded, not like their are crack heads sitting around doing lines of coke, then i would listen.

No, I wouldn't do the same thing. I was in a similar situation. I'm 19, I wanted to move in with my fiance, but my parents said no, that's not a good idea, and gave me reasons. Granted, they were reasons I didn't agree with, but I'm financially independant from them, and I respected their decision to postpone the move in until we're married. I'm engaged to this girl, totally independant, and yet I still listed to my parents and respected them.

awww, thats sweet. what a good boy :tear;

jk...thats good...but im sure they were good, valid reasons.

 

[RossMAN]

Originally posted by: notfred

Originally posted by: chin311
but who would kick a kid out because he stays somewhere you dont want him to?? haha, thatd be funnay.

You're right, I'd laugh hysterically if I saw you post a thread tomorrow entitled "Crap! My parents kicked me out of their house and I have nowhere to stay!"

Kinda reminds me of this thread by EnragedPC who has been MIA since posting that thread

 

[Gyrene]

No more good reasons then you're parents. My point is to respect your parents, they're the only one's you'll ever have. You'll realize that when you lose/almost lose one.

 

[ivol07]

Originally posted by: chin311

Originally posted by: ivol07

Originally posted by: amcdonald

Originally posted by: MacBaine
You're an idiot. You're living there, you are dependant on them. Listen to them, stop being a bitch.

You're an ungrateful, spoiled, punk who thinks he's bigger and badder than he actually is. Just remember, they buy the toilet paper that you use to wipe your spoiled a$$.

please, you dont even know me

im far from that. and spoiled? you must be crazy, everything i have, ive bought.

kthxdie.

First of all, you're ungrateful because after everything your parents have done for you (at the very least put a roof over your head) you can't give them the respect to obey their wishes. And you're spoiled because you don't pay rent. That is just my opinion, some people will disagree with me, but that's how I feel.

And how long have you been buying your own things? You're only 18, you could only have been working for around 2 years. Don't act like you're making great money and you're doing them a favor by staying there.

 

[Jzero]

Originally posted by: RossMAN

Originally posted by: notfred

Originally posted by: chin311
but who would kick a kid out because he stays somewhere you dont want him to?? haha, thatd be funnay.

You're right, I'd laugh hysterically if I saw you post a thread tomorrow entitled "Crap! My parents kicked me out of their house and I have nowhere to stay!"

Kinda reminds me of this thread by EnragedPC who has been MIA since posting that thread

I was JUST thinking of that!

 

[zixxer]

Originally posted by: chin311
so yeah, they are trying to tell me where i can stay the night and where i cant, lol

i laugh, im still gonna stay wherever...i dont see how they can tell me that, even if i am living under 'their roof'

im 18, dont pay rent, would if they wanted it, but they havent asked sooo yeah.

i pay all my own bills, (insurance, phone, etc.)

what could they do if i dont 'listen' to them?

comments?


*awaits the AT flood of "their house, their rules" responses*

i pay all my own bills, (insurance, phone, etc.)

riiiggghtt... tell me.. god that must be hard. insurance (prolly on a car your parents BOUGHT you..) and phone.
wow. what bills.. how do you manage?

I recommend not moving out until your testicles drop.

 

[Jzero]

Originally posted by: chin311

Originally posted by: ivol07

Originally posted by: amcdonald

Originally posted by: MacBaine
You're an idiot. You're living there, you are dependant on them. Listen to them, stop being a bitch.

You're an ungrateful, spoiled, punk who thinks he's bigger and badder than he actually is. Just remember, they buy the toilet paper that you use to wipe your spoiled a$$.

please, you dont even know me

im far from that. and spoiled? you must be crazy, everything i have, ive bought.

kthxdie.

Real mature. I can see that you are ready to make it on your own and your parents are way off base about your level of maturity.

I remember when I was 18 and knew everything....

 

[chin311]

Originally posted by: se7enty7

Originally posted by: chin311
so yeah, they are trying to tell me where i can stay the night and where i cant, lol

i laugh, im still gonna stay wherever...i dont see how they can tell me that, even if i am living under 'their roof'

im 18, dont pay rent, would if they wanted it, but they havent asked sooo yeah.

i pay all my own bills, (insurance, phone, etc.)

what could they do if i dont 'listen' to them?

comments?


*awaits the AT flood of "their house, their rules" responses*

i pay all my own bills, (insurance, phone, etc.)

riiiggghtt... tell me.. god that must be hard. insurance (prolly on a car your parents BOUGHT you..) and phone.
wow. what bills.. how do you manage?

I recommend not moving out until your testicles drop.

hahahaa, thats so funny.

anyway, i buy everything i have...and no my parents didnt buy me a car, they didnt even HELP, mmmmkay?

and i didnt make a thread to try and prove to anyone that im not spoiled and ungrateful. im not and thats that...

now if you want to post something reflecting the orginal post, feel free.

 

[Hoober]

Originally posted by: Jzero

Originally posted by: chin311

Originally posted by: ivol07

Originally posted by: amcdonald

Originally posted by: MacBaine
You're an idiot. You're living there, you are dependant on them. Listen to them, stop being a bitch.

You're an ungrateful, spoiled, punk who thinks he's bigger and badder than he actually is. Just remember, they buy the toilet paper that you use to wipe your spoiled a$$.

please, you dont even know me

im far from that. and spoiled? you must be crazy, everything i have, ive bought.

kthxdie.

Real mature. I can see that you are ready to make it on your own and your parents are way off base about your level of maturity.

I remember when I was 18 and knew everything....

You, too?

Your parents have every right to tell you what to do. Move out if you don't like it.

 

[RossMAN]

Originally posted by: Jzero

Originally posted by: RossMAN

Originally posted by: notfred

Originally posted by: chin311
but who would kick a kid out because he stays somewhere you dont want him to?? haha, thatd be funnay.

You're right, I'd laugh hysterically if I saw you post a thread tomorrow entitled "Crap! My parents kicked me out of their house and I have nowhere to stay!"

Kinda reminds me of this thread by EnragedPC who has been MIA since posting that thread

I was JUST thinking of that!

This case isn't as severe though but it totally reminds me of that thread.

 

[chin311]

Originally posted by: Jzero

Originally posted by: chin311

Originally posted by: ivol07

Originally posted by: amcdonald

Originally posted by: MacBaine
You're an idiot. You're living there, you are dependant on them. Listen to them, stop being a bitch.

You're an ungrateful, spoiled, punk who thinks he's bigger and badder than he actually is. Just remember, they buy the toilet paper that you use to wipe your spoiled a$$.

please, you dont even know me

im far from that. and spoiled? you must be crazy, everything i have, ive bought.

kthxdie.

Real mature. I can see that you are ready to make it on your own and your parents are way off base about your level of maturity.

I remember when I was 18 and knew everything....

lol...

i knew it was immature when i wrote it. but meh, oh well.

it was only the "kthxdie" that made it immature...but thats what i get from reading forums. ha.

 

[filmmaker]

Originally posted by: RossMAN

Originally posted by: Jzero

Originally posted by: RossMAN

Originally posted by: notfred

Originally posted by: chin311
but who would kick a kid out because he stays somewhere you dont want him to?? haha, thatd be funnay.

You're right, I'd laugh hysterically if I saw you post a thread tomorrow entitled "Crap! My parents kicked me out of their house and I have nowhere to stay!"

Kinda reminds me of this thread by EnragedPC who has been MIA since posting that thread

I was JUST thinking of that!

This case isn't as severe though but it totally reminds me of that thread.

Ditto. But in this case, I don't think the guy realizes how good he's got it.

 

[Jzero]

Originally posted by: chin311

Originally posted by: se7enty7

Originally posted by: chin311
so yeah, they are trying to tell me where i can stay the night and where i cant, lol

i laugh, im still gonna stay wherever...i dont see how they can tell me that, even if i am living under 'their roof'

im 18, dont pay rent, would if they wanted it, but they havent asked sooo yeah.

i pay all my own bills, (insurance, phone, etc.)

what could they do if i dont 'listen' to them?

comments?


*awaits the AT flood of "their house, their rules" responses*

i pay all my own bills, (insurance, phone, etc.)

riiiggghtt... tell me.. god that must be hard. insurance (prolly on a car your parents BOUGHT you..) and phone.
wow. what bills.. how do you manage?

I recommend not moving out until your testicles drop.

hahahaa, thats so funny.

anyway, i buy everything i have...and no my parents didnt buy me a car, they didnt even HELP, mmmmkay?

and i didnt make a thread to try and prove to anyone that im not spoiled and ungrateful. im not and thats that...

now if you want to post something reflecting the orginal post, feel free.

So the bed that you sleep in, the desk that your computer sits on, the computer itself, the clothes on your back, the food that you eat....you bought all this yourself, eh?
Riiiiiight.

Let's put it this way:
If you were as wise and mature as you make yourself out to be, you wouldn't even be here posting this thread. You'd either respect your parents' wishes or have the balls to move out instead of banking on them not kicking you to the curb when you defy them.

 

[Jzero]

Originally posted by: chin311

Originally posted by: Jzero

Originally posted by: chin311

Originally posted by: ivol07

Originally posted by: amcdonald

Originally posted by: MacBaine
You're an idiot. You're living there, you are dependant on them. Listen to them, stop being a bitch.

You're an ungrateful, spoiled, punk who thinks he's bigger and badder than he actually is. Just remember, they buy the toilet paper that you use to wipe your spoiled a$$.

please, you dont even know me

im far from that. and spoiled? you must be crazy, everything i have, ive bought.

kthxdie.

Real mature. I can see that you are ready to make it on your own and your parents are way off base about your level of maturity.

I remember when I was 18 and knew everything....

lol...

i knew it was immature when i wrote it. but meh, oh well.

it was only the "kthxdie" that made it immature...but thats what i get from reading forums. ha.

It was also the "You don't know me." You know who says that? The little girls on Jenny Jones and Jerry Springer.
"WHATEVA! YOU DON'T KNOW ME! WHATEVA!"

 

[TMPadmin]

Originally posted by: chin311

Originally posted by: se7enty7

Originally posted by: chin311
so yeah, they are trying to tell me where i can stay the night and where i cant, lol

i laugh, im still gonna stay wherever...i dont see how they can tell me that, even if i am living under 'their roof'

im 18, dont pay rent, would if they wanted it, but they havent asked sooo yeah.

i pay all my own bills, (insurance, phone, etc.)

what could they do if i dont 'listen' to them?

comments?


*awaits the AT flood of "their house, their rules" responses*

i pay all my own bills, (insurance, phone, etc.)

riiiggghtt... tell me.. god that must be hard. insurance (prolly on a car your parents BOUGHT you..) and phone.
wow. what bills.. how do you manage?

I recommend not moving out until your testicles drop.

hahahaa, thats so funny.

anyway, i buy everything i have...and no my parents didnt buy me a car, they didnt even HELP, mmmmkay?

and i didnt make a thread to try and prove to anyone that im not spoiled and ungrateful. im not and thats that...

now if you want to post something reflecting the orginal post, feel free.

Sounds like you are not going to listen to them ever again no matter what they tell you. My suggestion is to move out! Get out as soon as you can because sooner rather than later you will end up resenting them and something bad will happen.

 

[jyates]

Either respect your parent's wishes or deal with the consquences of your actions.

 

[chin311]

Originally posted by: Jzero

So the bed that you sleep in, the desk that your computer sits on, the computer itself, the clothes on your back, the food that you eat....you bought all this yourself, eh?
Riiiiiight.

Let's put it this way:
If you were as wise and mature as you make yourself out to be, you wouldn't even be here posting this thread. You'd either respect your parents' wishes or have the balls to move out instead of banking on them not kicking you to the curb when you defy them.

whoa, your good.

like i said EVERYTHING, k? bought my computer, my desk, my clothes, and all my meals except for some dinners when my mom cooks.

you must be psychic.

im posting this thread because i thought someone might have been in the same situation and would have some useful advice, man i guess i was horribly wrong

 

[ivol07]

Originally posted by: Jzero

Originally posted by: chin311

Originally posted by: se7enty7

Originally posted by: chin311
so yeah, they are trying to tell me where i can stay the night and where i cant, lol

i laugh, im still gonna stay wherever...i dont see how they can tell me that, even if i am living under 'their roof'

im 18, dont pay rent, would if they wanted it, but they havent asked sooo yeah.

i pay all my own bills, (insurance, phone, etc.)

what could they do if i dont 'listen' to them?

comments?


*awaits the AT flood of "their house, their rules" responses*

i pay all my own bills, (insurance, phone, etc.)

riiiggghtt... tell me.. god that must be hard. insurance (prolly on a car your parents BOUGHT you..) and phone.
wow. what bills.. how do you manage?

I recommend not moving out until your testicles drop.

hahahaa, thats so funny.

anyway, i buy everything i have...and no my parents didnt buy me a car, they didnt even HELP, mmmmkay?

and i didnt make a thread to try and prove to anyone that im not spoiled and ungrateful. im not and thats that...

now if you want to post something reflecting the orginal post, feel free.

So the bed that you sleep in, the desk that your computer sits on, the computer itself, the clothes on your back, the food that you eat....you bought all this yourself, eh?
Riiiiiight.

Let's put it this way:
If you were as wise and mature as you make yourself out to be, you wouldn't even be here posting this thread. You'd either respect your parents' wishes or have the balls to move out instead of banking on them not kicking you to the curb when you defy them.

Or the electricity that is flowing thru the computer, the water that he uses to take a shower, the soap that he washes with, the heat that keeps his room warm at night, the sheets on his bed, the laundry detergent to wash the sheets. He doesn't even realize how much these people do for him.

 

[Regs]

You don't screw with your parents when you turn 18 . You are worse off now then when you where the age 5. If you want a roof over your head until you find a way to support yourself, you follow the rules of the house.

And for fawk sake, learn how to write out a constructive thought. I could hardly understand that babbling post. Did you mean you want to move out or did you mean you want to hang with some friends over night?

Either way, they know what's best for you as of right now. You can't support yourself, except for maybe car insurance, therefore you still live under your parent's wings. You missed the rebellious age by a few years bud.

 

[waggy]

hmm. while i agree you are an adult in age you still need to do some growing up.

just your attitude shows that. IF i was you i would sit down and talk to them. if you still dont like it then threaten to join the army! that will show them! if they still refuse join up! at least then you will grow up.

 

[zixxer]

Originally posted by: chin311

Originally posted by: Jzero

So the bed that you sleep in, the desk that your computer sits on, the computer itself, the clothes on your back, the food that you eat....you bought all this yourself, eh?
Riiiiiight.

Let's put it this way:
If you were as wise and mature as you make yourself out to be, you wouldn't even be here posting this thread. You'd either respect your parents' wishes or have the balls to move out instead of banking on them not kicking you to the curb when you defy them.

whoa, your good.

like i said EVERYTHING, k? bought my computer, my desk, my clothes, and all my meals except for some dinners when my mom cooks.

you must be psychic.

im posting this thread because i thought someone might have been in the same situation and would have some useful advice, man i guess i was horribly wrong

I call B.S.

I think your some hissy fit punk ass teenager who thinks he knows what he's doing. You don't. Move out, so you can come dragging your ass behind you on your way to your parents front door, to continue using THEIR food THEIR water THEIR car, and everything else.

 

[chin311]

im sure my posts sound crappy and my attitude as well...im really tired from a long serious conversation with a girlfriend of mine last night... so yeah, dont really take it into account.