18, can my parents tell me where i can stay?!

[chin311]

Originally posted by: se7enty7

Originally posted by: chin311

Originally posted by: Jzero

So the bed that you sleep in, the desk that your computer sits on, the computer itself, the clothes on your back, the food that you eat....you bought all this yourself, eh?
Riiiiiight.

Let's put it this way:
If you were as wise and mature as you make yourself out to be, you wouldn't even be here posting this thread. You'd either respect your parents' wishes or have the balls to move out instead of banking on them not kicking you to the curb when you defy them.

whoa, your good.

like i said EVERYTHING, k? bought my computer, my desk, my clothes, and all my meals except for some dinners when my mom cooks.

you must be psychic.

im posting this thread because i thought someone might have been in the same situation and would have some useful advice, man i guess i was horribly wrong

I call B.S.

I think your some hissy fit punk ass teenager who thinks he knows what he's doing. You don't. Move out, so you can come dragging your ass behind you on your way to your parents front door, to continue using THEIR food THEIR water THEIR car, and everything else.

lol, that is funny. oh well, i dont need to prove to you what i buy and dont buy...so moving on...

 

[TMPadmin]

Originally posted by: ivol07

Originally posted by: Jzero

Originally posted by: chin311

Originally posted by: se7enty7

Originally posted by: chin311
so yeah, they are trying to tell me where i can stay the night and where i cant, lol

i laugh, im still gonna stay wherever...i dont see how they can tell me that, even if i am living under 'their roof'

im 18, dont pay rent, would if they wanted it, but they havent asked sooo yeah.

i pay all my own bills, (insurance, phone, etc.)

what could they do if i dont 'listen' to them?

comments?


*awaits the AT flood of "their house, their rules" responses*

i pay all my own bills, (insurance, phone, etc.)

riiiggghtt... tell me.. god that must be hard. insurance (prolly on a car your parents BOUGHT you..) and phone.
wow. what bills.. how do you manage?

I recommend not moving out until your testicles drop.

hahahaa, thats so funny.

anyway, i buy everything i have...and no my parents didnt buy me a car, they didnt even HELP, mmmmkay?

and i didnt make a thread to try and prove to anyone that im not spoiled and ungrateful. im not and thats that...

now if you want to post something reflecting the orginal post, feel free.

So the bed that you sleep in, the desk that your computer sits on, the computer itself, the clothes on your back, the food that you eat....you bought all this yourself, eh?
Riiiiiight.

Let's put it this way:
If you were as wise and mature as you make yourself out to be, you wouldn't even be here posting this thread. You'd either respect your parents' wishes or have the balls to move out instead of banking on them not kicking you to the curb when you defy them.

Or the electricity that is flowing thru the computer, the water that he uses to take a shower, the soap that he washes with, the heat that keeps his room warm at night, the sheets on his bed, the laundry detergent to wash the sheets. He doesn't even realize how much these people do for him.

Well, Chin311, do you realize!? DO YOU, HUH HUH HUH?

Because it is all true. You sunk yourself into this one. This thread proves that you should be grounded and not allowed anywhere until you are 21. And your computer taken away from you.

Kids will be kids. You are no different. You will and probably already have disobeyed your parents. It doesn't make you a bad kid, just realize what they did and will do for you. Respect their experience in life. Respect them for who they are. They are your parents, and will give the shirt off their back or the underwear off their a$$es for you. Talk to them. "Listen mom, dad. Why don't you want me to stay here or there? You raised me, you should trust that when a situation comes up, I (your son) will make the correct decision. The decision you would make". But follow through with that attitude. Show them that you actually are growing up and maturing and those 18 years of upbringing were not going to waste.

 

[oLLie]

If you bought all that stuff already, then it should be real easy once you move out, all your furniture and accessories type stuff will be already bought right?

I agree w/ the sentiment expressed by most of the people in here, but I gotta wonder why you're not allowed to sleep at your brother's house? I'm thinking it doesn't have to do w/ a girl being there too, did your brother and your parents have a falling out or something?

 

[SagaLore]

Originally posted by: chin311
so yeah, they are trying to tell me where i can stay the night and where i cant, lol

i laugh, im still gonna stay wherever...i dont see how they can tell me that, even if i am living under 'their roof'

im 18, dont pay rent, would if they wanted it, but they havent asked sooo yeah.

i pay all my own bills, (insurance, phone, etc.)

what could they do if i dont 'listen' to them?

comments?


*awaits the AT flood of "their house, their rules" responses*

It's obvious you already know this answer. Can't you post something insightful?

 

[XZeroII]

I would kick your ungrateful butt out on the street

 

[zixxer]

Originally posted by: XZeroII
I would kick your ungrateful butt out on the street

 

[Jzero]

like i said EVERYTHING, k? bought my computer, my desk, my clothes, and all my meals except for some dinners when my mom cooks.

I call shenanigans on this statement.

you must be psychic.

im posting this thread because i thought someone might have been in the same situation and would have some useful advice, man i guess i was horribly wrong

You've gotten plenty of good advice that all boils down to:
Obey your parents or move out.

Don't be bitter because all of ATOT didn't kowtow to you and tell you what you wanted to hear.

 

[zixxer]

When I turned 18 I moved out.

You should too. The only problem is that you are not mature enough.

 

[SithSolo1]

Well, you can do one of two things.

1) Do what they say. This will lead to better things later in life.

2) Don't do what they say/Move the fvck out. You're on your own until the day you die.

 

[JEDI]

Originally posted by: chin311



*"their house, their rules"*

 

[Wuffsunie]

Originally posted by: chin311
but who would kick a kid out because he stays somewhere you dont want him to?? haha, thatd be funnay.

Happened to a friend of mine, actually. Kicked to the curb after failing his first year of college. Literally, stuff moved outside the house. Ended up living in a real dump with two other roomies. They kicked his sorry a$$ out several months later, as they felt their pot business was more important than him. Again, his stuff was waiting outside for him. Well, the stuff they didn't keep. Lost track of him after that.

Anyway, I do hope your folks get tried of your crap. And I would love to see the look on your face when you recieve that wake-up call. :evil:

-- Jack

Nothing seems impossible for the man who doesn't have to do it himself.

 

[ElFenix]

i think they should kick you out for a couple of months just so you realize how much you were getting

 

[Frdm51472]

Originally posted by: TMPadmin
Old man rambling off. I feel I am in a unique situation I'm only 31 I still feel 18 but have the responsibility of someone who is 40. I see both sides.

How do the responsibilities of a 40 year old differ from that of a 31 year old?

 

[Wuffsunie]

Originally posted by: Frdm51472

Originally posted by: TMPadmin
Old man rambling off. I feel I am in a unique situation I'm only 31 I still feel 18 but have the responsibility of someone who is 40. I see both sides.

How do the responsibilities of a 40 year old differ from that of a 31 year old?

30s you're still young enough to believe you've got a good chunk of life ahead of you, and you're still young enough to live some dreams. 40s you begin to realize how old you're getting and realize that your life is at best half over, and you're going to die soon.

 

[Saulbadguy]

Chin311, don't listen to these guys..and dont take the crap they say personally. The whole "their house their rules" thing is total BS. You have a right to complain if they arent treating you fairly, such as not letting you go to a friends house for the night, etc. I'm not taking anything away from the fact that they are supporting you, and you should appreciate that, but just because they support you doesn't mean they have the right to control you. Most of the people who spout off "their house their rules live with it" are just older people who are bitter about the whole "respect" thing. I don't live with my parents anymore, but I understand your predicament.

 

[thraashman]

ok, I'm sorry. but reading this thread makes me realize how stupid alot of you are. Alot of you are saying that just because he lives in their house they can tell him what to do. That's such total BS. There's a reason that we have freedom in this country. They can tell him certain people that aren't allowed in their house. They can tell him things he can't do inside their house. But once he walks out that door, even if he still lives there, they can't say anything. He's 18, and can make his own choices. Whether or not he lives at home. He's not their property. And those of you who seem to think so need to learn to pull your heads outta your asses a bit before you talk.

 

[imported_Papi]

There is a catch, what is it?

Why don't they want you staying at a paticular place?

 

[ivol07]

Originally posted by: thraashman
ok, I'm sorry. but reading this thread makes me realize how stupid alot of you are. Alot of you are saying that just because he lives in their house they can tell him what to do. That's such total BS. There's a reason that we have freedom in this country. They can tell him certain people that aren't allowed in their house. They can tell him things he can't do inside their house. But once he walks out that door, even if he still lives there, they can't say anything. He's 18, and can make his own choices. Whether or not he lives at home. He's not their property. And those of you who seem to think so need to learn to pull your heads outta your asses a bit before you talk.

FIGHT THE POWER!

 

[Saulbadguy]

Originally posted by: thraashman
ok, I'm sorry. but reading this thread makes me realize how stupid alot of you are. Alot of you are saying that just because he lives in their house they can tell him what to do. That's such total BS. There's a reason that we have freedom in this country. They can tell him certain people that aren't allowed in their house. They can tell him things he can't do inside their house. But once he walks out that door, even if he still lives there, they can't say anything. He's 18, and can make his own choices. Whether or not he lives at home. He's not their property. And those of you who seem to think so need to learn to pull your heads outta your asses a bit before you talk.

Amen to that.

 

[chin311]

Originally posted by: yayo
There is a catch, what is it?

Why don't they want you staying at a paticular place?

i stated it on the first page.

because there were 'guys and girls' staying at the same place.

 

[zixxer]

If your parents are paying for you, and you are over 18, you either have to deal with their rules or leave. It isn't their responsibility to ''let you do want you want OR kick you out"

I hope you do move out. If it works out then good for you. I recommend not going out partying until you move out, and don't move out until you mature a little bit.

 

[imported_Papi]

Originally posted by: chin311

Originally posted by: yayo
There is a catch, what is it?

Why don't they want you staying at a paticular place?

i stated it on the first page.

because there were 'guys and girls' staying at the same place.

Oh, well, as usual I didn't read the full page harhar

Hmm sounds like they are old fashion. How did they find out both sexes would be there?

Tell them you are a homophobic womanizer.

 

[chin311]

Originally posted by: yayo

Originally posted by: chin311

Originally posted by: yayo
There is a catch, what is it?

Why don't they want you staying at a paticular place?

i stated it on the first page.

because there were 'guys and girls' staying at the same place.

Oh, well, as usual I didn't read the full page harhar

Hmm sounds like they are old fashion. How did they find out both sexes would be there?

Tell them you are a homophobic womanizer.

because she stopped by my brothers the next day when everyone was there and was like "OMG ALL YOU GUYS STAYED HERE?!" blah blah, as i laughed. oh well...im working on moving out as we speak, may move in with my brother..or my dad, ill see what happens...

 

[Ryan]

Originally posted by: LordJezo
If you live with them they pwn j00. Until you move out you have 0 say.

Smart workds - I agree.

 

[imported_Papi]

Originally posted by: chin311

Originally posted by: yayo

Originally posted by: chin311

Originally posted by: yayo
There is a catch, what is it?

Why don't they want you staying at a paticular place?

i stated it on the first page.

because there were 'guys and girls' staying at the same place.

Oh, well, as usual I didn't read the full page harhar

Hmm sounds like they are old fashion. How did they find out both sexes would be there?

Tell them you are a homophobic womanizer.

because she stopped by my brothers the next day when everyone was there and was like "OMG ALL YOU GUYS STAYED HERE?!" blah blah, as i laughed. oh well...im working on moving out as we speak, may move in with my brother..or my dad, ill see what happens...

Is your brother wild through your mothers eyes?

Perhaps she doesnt want you to end up like he did, not that he ended up bad, just as she didn't want him to though.

Don't stress over it, kiko.