19 year old Nephew knocks up a 16 year old

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PingSpike

Lifer
Feb 25, 2004
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Originally posted by: Citrix
Originally posted by: thehstrybean
Pics of girl?

I'd have shot him...

i have pics from the party but im not posting them because she is a minor, and i dont have her permission. If i did post them all you e-nerds would be killing kittens because she does have a pretty nice rack.

Sounds like you're just jealous you aren't boning teenagers these days to me.



Seriously, announcing it at the party was pretty bad judgement on his part but that sounds like its par for course with this kid.
 

PingSpike

Lifer
Feb 25, 2004
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Originally posted by: 151528
Originally posted by: LolaWiz
Yikes, talk about inconsiderate. That was not right at all.
I feel bad for your little girl. It was her birthday and he took it right away from her.

I'd be ****** pissed if someone did that at one of my Bday's!

Actually, I'd be laughing my ass off...because that horrible situation is happening to some one other then me and I love laughing at other people's misfortunes.
 

LordNoob

Senior member
Nov 16, 2003
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Originally posted by: reverend boltron
Originally posted by: LordNoob
Originally posted by: iwantanewcomputer
Originally posted by: SP33Demon
I've knocked up a 17 yr old, who the hell cares? You do stupid sht when you're young. At least he's being a man about it and taking responsibility...

WTF...marrying the girl is not responsibility when he can't take care of her, the baby, or himself. and they will probly be divorced in a few years, making them both miserable.


Exactly. Bringing a child into the world that you cannot take care of with someone you got 'stuck with' is not the responsible thing. Some might have a moral problem with abortion, but if you don't, it seems the more 'responsible' choice in this type of situation.

I really don't think that murder is the more responsible choice there. Adoption though, that's a great choice. But having a 16 y/o girl get an abortion is going to mess with her head on so many levels. Even the 19 y/o nephew, as much as he might have messed up already, an abortion for him would just enable him to continue to live in a reckless way, because then there are no consequences except for what seems like a $500 penalty fee for getting a girl preggo. Also, neither of them need to carry around the guilt that will come later. It is hard to forgive yourself for things like that.


Notice how I said, "if you don't... have a moral problem with abortion"...
Thank you for your opinion that abortion is wrong. However, I was speaking to responsible choices if you believe abortion is an alternative.

I am not pro-life as you appear to be. I am in fact pro-choice, and that would seem to make you anti-choice. I don't think abortion is a good thing. All I do in fact believe is that whether or not it is right or wrong in a universal sense as you believe, it is for each person to decide, should, God forbid, they ever have to make that decision.
 

JulesMaximus

No Lifer
Jul 3, 2003
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Originally posted by: reverend boltron
Originally posted by: LordNoob
Originally posted by: iwantanewcomputer
Originally posted by: SP33Demon
I've knocked up a 17 yr old, who the hell cares? You do stupid sht when you're young. At least he's being a man about it and taking responsibility...

WTF...marrying the girl is not responsibility when he can't take care of her, the baby, or himself. and they will probly be divorced in a few years, making them both miserable.


Exactly. Bringing a child into the world that you cannot take care of with someone you got 'stuck with' is not the responsible thing. Some might have a moral problem with abortion, but if you don't, it seems the more 'responsible' choice in this type of situation.

I really don't think that murder is the more responsible choice there. Adoption though, that's a great choice. But having a 16 y/o girl get an abortion is going to mess with her head on so many levels. Even the 19 y/o nephew, as much as he might have messed up already, an abortion for him would just enable him to continue to live in a reckless way, because then there are no consequences except for what seems like a $500 penalty fee for getting a girl preggo. Also, neither of them need to carry around the guilt that will come later. It is hard to forgive yourself for things like that.

How do you know this? Speaking from experience?
 

SP33Demon

Lifer
Jun 22, 2001
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Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Originally posted by: reverend boltron
Originally posted by: LordNoob
Originally posted by: iwantanewcomputer
Originally posted by: SP33Demon
I've knocked up a 17 yr old, who the hell cares? You do stupid sht when you're young. At least he's being a man about it and taking responsibility...

WTF...marrying the girl is not responsibility when he can't take care of her, the baby, or himself. and they will probly be divorced in a few years, making them both miserable.


Exactly. Bringing a child into the world that you cannot take care of with someone you got 'stuck with' is not the responsible thing. Some might have a moral problem with abortion, but if you don't, it seems the more 'responsible' choice in this type of situation.

I really don't think that murder is the more responsible choice there. Adoption though, that's a great choice. But having a 16 y/o girl get an abortion is going to mess with her head on so many levels. Even the 19 y/o nephew, as much as he might have messed up already, an abortion for him would just enable him to continue to live in a reckless way, because then there are no consequences except for what seems like a $500 penalty fee for getting a girl preggo. Also, neither of them need to carry around the guilt that will come later. It is hard to forgive yourself for things like that.

How do you know this? Speaking from experience?
He is right to a certain degree in my case, I know my ex was pretty messed in the head mentally from it. She'd see baby ghosts at night, or call me years later wondering if she had made the right decision. I think it was mainly because the clinic showed her pics of it before she had it done and told her it'd probably be a boy. Overall, it depends on the girl though.
 

rh71

No Lifer
Aug 28, 2001
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I wish I was never a teenager so that I could make fun of all the stupid teenagers who thought they knew everything.
 

amddude

Golden Member
Mar 9, 2006
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Originally posted by: Queasy
Ages 16-22 are known for their boundless stupidity.

I think that could be a tad harsh. There are plenty of people I've met who are well-aged that have all sorts of stupidity problems.
 

DrPizza

Administrator Elite Member Goat Whisperer
Mar 5, 2001
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www.slatebrookfarm.com
LMAO at this thread... one of the best I've read in a while.
Completely derailed in two directions, yet it still managed to get back on topic...

1. How'd he get an engagement ring (or didn't he have one.)

2.
work in a very high profile arena,
McD's cashier??
You yourself said you're 1 in 5000. The number of people with full arm tattoos is certainly higher than 1 in 5000. I think you proved the point that those types of tattoos are a hindrance to higher level employment.

 

Jules

Lifer
Oct 9, 1999
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just like my dumbass sister and her dumb ass boyfriend.

my dad ends up pay all the bills to support there kid. Asswhooping coming soon me thinks
 

TomKazansky

Golden Member
Sep 18, 2004
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Originally posted by: SP33Demon
I've knocked up a 17 yr old, who the hell cares? You do stupid sht when you're young. At least he's being a man about it and taking responsibility...

not at his cousin's 13 yr. old bday party, douchebag.

btw, plan B or RU-486 is a much better choice than having the baby.
 

SP33Demon

Lifer
Jun 22, 2001
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Originally posted by: TomKazansky
Originally posted by: SP33Demon
I've knocked up a 17 yr old, who the hell cares? You do stupid sht when you're young. At least he's being a man about it and taking responsibility...

not at his cousin's 13 yr. old bday party, douchebag.

btw, plan B or RU-486 is a much better choice than having the baby.
Read the entire thread, dipsht, I agreed that it wasn't the right place. And pushing your views on abortion to people is a big sign of intelligence, lol.

 

Fritzo

Lifer
Jan 3, 2001
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Originally posted by: amddude
Originally posted by: Queasy
Ages 16-22 are known for their boundless stupidity.

I think that could be a tad harsh. There are plenty of people I've met who are well-aged that have all sorts of stupidity problems.

It's mostly consolidated in the 16-22 range though. Trust me, I was one of them.
 

TomKazansky

Golden Member
Sep 18, 2004
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Originally posted by: SP33Demon
Originally posted by: TomKazansky
Originally posted by: SP33Demon
I've knocked up a 17 yr old, who the hell cares? You do stupid sht when you're young. At least he's being a man about it and taking responsibility...

not at his cousin's 13 yr. old bday party, douchebag.

btw, plan B or RU-486 is a much better choice than having the baby.
Read the entire thread, dipsht, I agreed that it wasn't the right place. And pushing your views on abortion to people is a big sign of intelligence, lol.

You should've left the thread ages ago, loser.

And abortion ftw!
 

SP33Demon

Lifer
Jun 22, 2001
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Originally posted by: TomKazansky
Originally posted by: SP33Demon
Originally posted by: TomKazansky
Originally posted by: SP33Demon
I've knocked up a 17 yr old, who the hell cares? You do stupid sht when you're young. At least he's being a man about it and taking responsibility...

not at his cousin's 13 yr. old bday party, douchebag.

btw, plan B or RU-486 is a much better choice than having the baby.
Read the entire thread, dipsht, I agreed that it wasn't the right place. And pushing your views on abortion to people is a big sign of intelligence, lol.

You should've left the thread ages ago, loser.

And abortion ftw!
hahaha. Nice retort, it was the equivalent of a bonobo taking the SAT's for the first time.

 

Bonesdad

Platinum Member
Nov 18, 2002
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Originally posted by: SP33Demon
Originally posted by: TomKazansky
Originally posted by: SP33Demon
I've knocked up a 17 yr old, who the hell cares? You do stupid sht when you're young. At least he's being a man about it and taking responsibility...

not at his cousin's 13 yr. old bday party, douchebag.

btw, plan B or RU-486 is a much better choice than having the baby.
Read the entire thread, dipsht, I agreed that it wasn't the right place. And pushing your views on abortion to people is a big sign of intelligence, lol.



I didn't see anyone pushing anything...RU486 is a legitimate alternative.
 

Theb

Diamond Member
Feb 28, 2006
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So Sat we had the family and friends over for my daughters 13th bday party. My Wifes brother and his family gets there and his 19 year old son brought his new girlfriend. well after the presents and cake & ice cream thing, my nephew announces to the whole family and friends who dont even know who he is that his girlfriend is 2 months pregnant and then drops to one knee and proposes to her of which she say says yes.
:laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh:
:laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh:


Thanks. I was getting kind of grumpy towards the end of the day and I needed a good laugh.



Originally posted by: 0roo0roo
well u gotta give him something for standing by her its not exactly like he knocked her up and ran.
Give him a couple months.

 

Injury

Lifer
Jul 19, 2004
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Originally posted by: SP33Demon
I've knocked up a 17 yr old, who the hell cares? You do stupid sht when you're young. At least he's being a man about it and taking responsibility...

No, I'm pretty sure that trying to go and finish school and finding a job would be him being a man... or even getting some vocational school training in 9 months before every dime he has goes to supporting a child. Putting a ring on the finger won't put food on the table, clothes on the back and a roof over the head... It just means that instead of one of them being fscked, they are fscked together.

I mean, she'd probably be able to get better government aid if she was on her own.
 

BlancoNino

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Oct 31, 2005
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Originally posted by: Injury
Originally posted by: SP33Demon
I've knocked up a 17 yr old, who the hell cares? You do stupid sht when you're young. At least he's being a man about it and taking responsibility...

No, I'm pretty sure that trying to go and finish school and finding a job would be him being a man... or even getting some vocational school training in 9 months before every dime he has goes to supporting a child. Putting a ring on the finger won't put food on the table, clothes on the back and a roof over the head... It just means that instead of one of them being fscked, they are fscked together.

I mean, she'd probably be able to get better government aid if she was on her own.

If that were true...my goodness, what a terrible incentive. But hey, that's just the beaurocrats hard at work!
 

dxkj

Lifer
Feb 17, 2001
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Originally posted by: 6StringSamurai
Originally posted by: Citrix
Originally posted by: 6StringSamurai
Originally posted by: Citrix
So Sat we had the family and friends over for my daughters 13th bday party. My Wifes brother and his family gets there and his 19 year old son brought his new girlfriend. well after the presents and cake & ice cream thing, my nephew announces to the whole family and friends who dont even know who he is that his girlfriend is 2 months pregnant and then drops to one knee and proposes to her of which she say says yes.

WTF!!! Dont do that sh*t at my house on my daughters bday!!! take your statuatury rape ass someplace else. :| :| :|

I guess bro inlaw told the girls prents yesterday, and took the news well. :disgust:


Edit: Nephew is a scumbag, stupid F*cker quit high school with only one semester left. has no job, lives with mommy and daddy and looks like a bum. scraggy half ass beard/peachfuzz, full sleeve tatto on his left arm. baggy clothes.... so welcome to the world of medicide, WIC, Welfare, Foodstamps...

Oh noes!! It's the tattoo's. Only lower class trash have tattoo's, if she was to date someone without tattoos none of this ever would have happened. Tattoos = bum, yeah that must be it.

Note: I am not advocating his or her actions, they are disgusting, I will give you that. I do however take offense that in your attempt to portray him as a scumbag, you felt that mentioning that he had tattoos helped further your definition of a bum.

So I say to you. ..|.. and that finger is attached to an arm thats attached to a body with 10 tattoos.

yea he is a bum with a full sleeve tattoo, it just adds to his image. News flash for you, people ARE judged on their appearence so get over it.

Wow, so now my tattoos have made me ignorant to the fact that I am judged on my appearance too? So if I were to look at you and say you are an "ignorant tool" because you dress like a yuppie, does that make me cool too? Oh no wait, I can't see you, but I am cool because I can stroke my e-penis on a message board and make broad random generalizations about people.


Yup! Maybe you should have thought a bit longer before you got that tat... or waited until you got thicker skin
 
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