Originally posted by: Skiguy411
I'll make this is as short as I can....
So the fair has come to town for two weeks and my GF wants to go this weekend since she is going out of town next week. So I said well thats fine, but there is a football game (going to football games, especially in front row of the student section, is very close to the top of things i love to do) at noon on Saturday. I suggested that she go with one of her friends during the football game and that I would meet up with them after the game and stay the rest of the night with her. That would give us about 7 and 1/2 hours at the fair. I thought that was pretty reasonable right?
Wrong.
She wants me to not go to the football game at all and spend the entire day at the fair with her because she loves the fair and it only comes once a year. She said I never make sacrifices for her and that me going to the game means that she is worthless to me. I suggested that if 7 and 1/2 hours wasn't long enough for her that we could also go Sunday morning (she doesn't want to go all day Sunday because she has an exam on Monday) which she also rejected. I also offered to buy her a ticket to the game so we could go together, but she didn't like that idea.
So I ask ATOT, am I being unreasonable?
Cliffs:
-Fair and football game on same day
-GF wants to go the entire day and have me miss the game instead of going with a friend part of the day and with me the other part.
-If I go to the game, that tells her that I view her as worthless.
Originally posted by: MisterJackson
Doesn't matter if she's unreasonable or not. As long as she has what she does between her legs, and as long as you want it, she could tell you that you're goat and that'd be reasonable.
As soon as she looses that power over you then petty crap like this matters....but it also means you've gone gay.
Originally posted by: BlancoNino
"I'm trying to make a fair compromise, you're not. Shows how much YOU care."
Originally posted by: mpitts
I think the most important part of the equation is WHAT college football team you are going to see.
If it's North Carolina, go to the fair..
Originally posted by: MisterJackson
Doesn't matter if she's unreasonable or not. As long as she has what she does between her legs, and as long as you want it, she could tell you that you're goat and that'd be reasonable.
As soon as she looses that power over you then petty crap like this matters....but it also means you've gone gay.
Originally posted by: BlancoNino
"I'm trying to make a fair compromise, you're not. Shows how much YOU care."
Originally posted by: arcas
I'd call her bluff go to the game. Your offers were reasonable (7 hours at the fair is a hell of a long time...how big is it?). She's testing you. If you cave and follow her around the fair like a puppy dog all day, she'll do it again.
Originally posted by: Skiguy411
I think she is also in shock because this is the first time in 2 years I have really put my foot down and didn't give in.
Originally posted by: Skiguy411
Originally posted by: mpitts
I think the most important part of the equation is WHAT college football team you are going to see.
If it's North Carolina, go to the fair..
Haha, no not North Carolina...North Carolina State. If you have seen the past couple of games, you know how exciting these game are. Please ignore the first three game however.
Originally posted by: arcas
I'd call her bluff go to the game. Your offers were reasonable (7 hours at the fair is a hell of a long time...how big is it?). She's testing you. If you cave and follow her around the fair like a puppy dog all day, she'll do it again.
Originally posted by: Feldenak
I'm glad I'd never have this kind of arguement with my wife. She started planning tomorrow's tailgate for the Florida game last week.