My first girlfriend and I broke up a month ago. We were together for a year and during that time we went around the world together to 17 countries. The major problem was that we are both community college transfer students on a different year of college and I am going to university this semester while she is probably not going until next Fall at least. Even then she probably won't go to the same school as me.
We lived together for that year and really got infatuated with one another. For the last couple days we've had hours long conversations on AIM, sometimes getting into analyzing our relationship but mostly just asking how things are going. I really feel no desire to get back together with her and she dumped me so I doubt she wants me back either.
In a couple of days I was planning on stopping by our old place, where she lives on her own now, to temporarily install my hard drive on her computer to get some files off. My computer broke and I got a new laptop, and she also wants the pictures from our trip transferred over. We also have a few items left to exchange. This would be the first test if our friendship can transfer over from instant messages to real life.
Am I wasting my time with this? I really do enjoy talking to her because of the memories we shared on the trip, but at the same time I know the common thought is that friendship with exes never works. She was my first girlfriend so I have no experience with this.
We lived together for that year and really got infatuated with one another. For the last couple days we've had hours long conversations on AIM, sometimes getting into analyzing our relationship but mostly just asking how things are going. I really feel no desire to get back together with her and she dumped me so I doubt she wants me back either.
In a couple of days I was planning on stopping by our old place, where she lives on her own now, to temporarily install my hard drive on her computer to get some files off. My computer broke and I got a new laptop, and she also wants the pictures from our trip transferred over. We also have a few items left to exchange. This would be the first test if our friendship can transfer over from instant messages to real life.
Am I wasting my time with this? I really do enjoy talking to her because of the memories we shared on the trip, but at the same time I know the common thought is that friendship with exes never works. She was my first girlfriend so I have no experience with this.