1) Apple uses the equivalent of either the Kingston V+100 128GB (Toshiba-based) or the Samsung 470. It does NOT matter that the optical bay in the new MBP is only SATA 3Gb because both of theses drives are only capable of 3Gb/s operation.
2) You won't notice too much of a battery drain. It will be somewhere between having a single 5400/7200 RPM HDD and your current single SSD. I have both a 7200 RPM hard drive for User data and mass storage and a 60GB SSD for Applications and OS and my battery life is still adequate, though I have lost some life.
3) As TheStu points out, Intel drives use multiple of 10 for their NAND devices, so the closest would be 160GB. (See point 1)
Hope everything works out for you. If you want, just pop off the bottom, see what SSD you have, and then buy the equivalent Kingston or Toshiba. Make sure you get either the iFixit optical-to-HDD bay, the OWC DataDoubler, or the Optibay. They're all rather expensive, but I chose the cheaper route and bought a cheaper "compatible with Unibody" model, and it didn't fit properly. I had to shave it down and it still can't fit all the screw mounts.