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- Feb 13, 2001
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Originally posted by: Marlin1975
Originally posted by: ILoveLamp
Such a double standard. I'm 19 and I've been with 6 guys, does that make me a slut? Then again if it was a guy who was the same age and had been with 10 girls no one would think twice of it.
If you're gonna be a pussy about it and arent able to have a relationship because of your psycho opinions, then don't drag her in to begin with.
Sorry but if you are 19 and already slept with 6 guys, you got problems. And yes as I and others have said, some women even have standards and will not date a guy that has been with a lot fo people. So the double standard is not holding to strong with time.
You need to get with the times. Let me ask you a question. Say the average chick is now having sex for the first time around 14-15...is she supposed to now get married right away too?
For the average dater, you see a few people a month...then you focus in a couple of them or dump them all...once you get to the third date or so, sex usually happens if you are in an adult relationship and not some wannabe fairy tale where you spent the first 6 months online chatting how you two were meant to be.
Having only two partners a year since 15 would put you easily at 8 partners by 19, a totally low average number in my opinion.
However, in these sort of things people tend to project their own lives onto the debate and since 'they have' only been with 3-4 people, they want to feel that is normal. Then they say things like 'I turned down at least a dozen or so+' (I can't remember all the chicks I have been with, yet alone who I turned down and turned me down).
Fact of the matter is if one was so virtuous as they claimed when it came to lack of nooky, they probably wouldn't be here.