8 partners @ 19 years old

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exdeath

Lifer
Jan 29, 2004
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Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: exdeath
Originally posted by: TGS
Still the trend exists. A man who sleeps with many partners is a stud. While women who sleep with many partners is a whore.

Get over yourself, mister yeah I'd hit it, but she's still the whore. When people, especially other men will realize that by doing the same actions you are just a man-whore. Though for some reason our society respects the man-whore idea. Who are these guys having flings with? Other men?! Last time I checked if a man is having sex with a women, it also requires a women to be present. Thus when a women is participating in "whore-like" activities, there IS A MAN ON THE OTHER END.

Cripes on a stick guys. Wheres the vilification of the men that participate in the activities women are getting labelled with?

For point of reference, my wife at the time we were dating told me that she had more partners. The point really isn't the numbers but the reality that no man is going to go out into the "Real world" and find some 18 year old virgin that he can swoop down and marry. Reality suggests you will find someone with prior intimate experience. If the number of prior experiences scares you, than walk away because you probably aren't ready to handle the fact people have had intimate relationships long before you even thought about them.

Heh see my post a few back regarding equal treatment of both sexes in the breeding pools.

Guy or girl matters not in my view. It's the focus on sex sex sex sex sex sex sex football beer sex sex sex sex TV sex sex sex in our society that annoys me. I'm not saying you shouldn't do it at all, but damn, there is more to life than 24/7 beer and sex. And on college campuses, I find chit chat amongst my own age group, about nothing but "banging chicks", absolutely repulsive. For starters shave and get a fvcking hair cut.

The size -2 stick bit*h fad is finally going out of style. I don't know about anyone else here but I prefer a woman with meat and some body, someone that can handle a .45 as well as I can, not just a skeleton with fake tits. You know, someone that you CAN have sex with without breaking them like a barbie doll.


No offense but if you have been dating 6 years and have a next year marriage, you seem to be presenting a lot of EXCUSES why.

In college it's about banging chicks/guys for most people. Deal with it or pick a religious-based college, if you 'rents can afford it. In your 30's and single it doesn't change. Social people somehow sort of like to bang the opposite sex. To them chatting with some person over IM several months is a pasttime, not a nighttime.

Personally I find your post BS, I see big girls, small girls and the OMG!'s out there.

TV is not reality, and if you see only that in reality, you are with the wrong chick if you find it a problem.

good game though.

TV? No, I do have a 106" screen and no tuner, I don't care for TV.

As far as reality, just go walk around a college campus and look at all the meat walking around. About 90% of the girls at the college campuses here have 3" shorts up their arse and a cell phone glued to their head. Almost always their parents are paying their way (including brand new cars), and think "John Kerry :heart:" items are trendy. And take business or lib arts to avoid any real acedemic math. I bet they make their parents proud. Hell, some of them even buy their slut daughters boob jobs at 16. You want to talk about people not ready for hard cold reality, damn.

These are not the kind of people I look forward to becoming voting citizens capable of influencing the direction of American society.

I'm sorry I shouldn't judge people like that. Can't expect everybody to grow up after highschool just because I did.

Why do I care? Because people like that vote, spend money, and do various other things that effect the society around me. I don't like ignorant masses of 80 IQ 16 year brains in 20-30 year old bodies with nothing but sex and beer on their mind influencing social policies.

As an unrelated example of how the masses of sheep effect others, look at computer cases. It's harder to find serious nice looking classy computer cases anymore (like some of the discountinued Coolermaster stuff for example), everything has to be flashy epilepsy inducing alien skull shaped LED riddled raver bullsh*t, because thats what the mass bling sheeple think is "dope" and that's the way they are pushing the market.
 

DoctorCarta

Senior member
Mar 7, 2004
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if you honestly care for her and have strong emotional feelings then looking past her immature mistakes shouldnt be a big deal?thats my two cents, and my friend is dating a girl and they've both had more then 7+ partners in the past and plan on getting married next year,currently this is their 3rd year as a couple. no offense but its not hard to get a 19 year old when ur 25...girls like the older men.
 

TGS

Golden Member
May 3, 2005
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More important than any other questions before. Does she work for UPS or at a Sandwich shop?
 

Chaotic42

Lifer
Jun 15, 2001
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In the same way that it's not wrong for her to have 8 partners, it's also not wrong for you not wanting to date her because of it. If it even enters your mind now, it will bother you at some point.

Do what you feel is best, you're not a better or worse person because you don't want someone with so many partners.
 

Deeko

Lifer
Jun 16, 2000
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:roll::roll::roll::roll::roll::roll::roll::roll::roll::roll::roll::roll::roll::roll::roll::roll::roll::roll::roll::roll: at everyone saying "god shes a slut" or "man thats way too many" or "she MUST have an STD". Realize that you're a fvcking AT'er, you don't get ass, the rest of the world does. 8 at 19 isn't THAT bad, I've heard of much worse.
 

alkemyst

No Lifer
Feb 13, 2001
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Originally posted by: exdeath

TV? No, I do have a 106" screen and no tuner, I don't care for TV.

[snip]

These are not the kind of people I look forward to becoming voting citizens capable of influencing the direction of American society.

I'm sorry I shouldn't judge people like that. Can't expect everybody to grow up after highschool just because I did.

grow up, sounds like you went right to AARP....

Originally posted by: exdeath

Why do I care? Because people like that vote, spend money, and do various other things that effect the society around me. I don't like ignorant masses of 80 IQ 16 year brains in 20-30 year old bodies with nothing but sex and beer on their mind influencing social policies.

Actually ummm I hate to break this to you, most of the young people do not vote. If they did the country would be a lot different.

I have met a few chicks loving partying and making 6 figures in a professional job (outside the skin trade) or in major research (chemistry/pharmacy), problems I had with them is it was either their work or the bedroom. No time for anything in between.

Originally posted by: exdeath
As an unrelated example of how the masses of sheep effect others, look at computer cases. It's harder to find serious nice looking classy computer cases anymore (like some of the discountinued Coolermaster stuff for example), everything has to be flashy epilepsy inducing alien skull shaped LED riddled raver bullsh*t, because thats what the mass bling sheeple think is "dope" and that's the way they are pushing the market.

hmmm where are you shopping the 'sheep effect' local chains? I can find just about any case I want online within 15 minutes.

I use an addronics 7896A, pretty simple. Just bought my dad last year a INWIN X710, nice professional looking case (I hate doors though, my dad wanted one).

How much you batting over a 80 IQ?
 

alkemyst

No Lifer
Feb 13, 2001
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Originally posted by: 91TTZ
Exactly. I found someone that I get along with and that I can trust, so I'm not going to go after anyone else while things are working with us. I like loyalty. If she's loyalty to me, I'll be loyal to her.

my problem was with this line:
Originally posted by: 91TTZ
The size -2 stick bit*h fad is finally going out of style. I don't know about anyone else here but I prefer a woman with meat and some body, someone that can handle a .45 as well as I can, not just a skeleton with fake tits. You know, someone that you CAN have sex with without breaking them like a barbie doll.
doesn't make sense. Sizes below 3 are still hard to find for most chicks that size. 5-7-9-10-12-14 seem real popular to me. Some girls stand out but around them are the rest.

I know more than one chick with a hammerless 45 Taurus in her purse, they are tiny things. Both the gun and the girl.

I have had more problems with bigger chicks complaining about being hurt than smaller ones.

My problem though is you seem to be talking a lot about the others and not why you like your's.

Now maybe you are happy and just I misunderstood, but in my experience (I am 34 now), those that love their women usually only drop details about them. Like I said usually, not always.

:beer:
 

AEnigmaWI

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Jan 21, 2004
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<< inserting repeat of comments about who cares/why does it matter/social programming/can't believe you'd air it on a forum or hold it against someone >>

be as picky as you like, just don't involve everyone else in your pickiness. no one has that much trouble getting laid if they lower their standards far enough, so being able to "get girls" is rather unimportant information. i'm more interested in the thing about it being "special" etc etc. sex is animal nature, what makes it special is adding humanity to it. it can be "special" at time 50 or time 2 depending on how you approach it. the number is irrelevant. STD's can be tested for if you're worried about it. go with her while you're at it and get tested yourself. a majority of men carry HPV.

~covers his head~
 

alkemyst

No Lifer
Feb 13, 2001
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Originally posted by: AEnigmaWI
go with her while you're at it and get tested yourself. a majority of men carry HPV.

I don't know many chicks that would agree to have you come to the doctor with them while just dating, esp before sex has happened.

Also getting tested is not as easy as most think if you want to cover all the bases. Some need to involve a swab...

My thoughts are get tested for the ones that will kill you, in case you can try to take care of problems early on. Don't worry about tests on others, just practice safe sex if you are worried and hope for the best.

I will say those that do have sex aren't always safe, the biggest is when it comes to oral sex. Most don't bother doing anything.
 

totalcommand

Platinum Member
Apr 21, 2004
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Originally posted by: GrantMeThePower
If you started dating a chick and she told you (after a bunch of dates) that she'd been with 8 dudes (and she's only 19 years old) what would you do?

This is a gnarly situation for me. Its hard for me to respect her. I've been with 5 girls (i'm 25, though, and lost my virginity at 14) but I've turned down at least another 6 or 7, most of whom were really smokin', but I said no because I want to keep it as a special thing. (no comments on the stupidity/lamness of that. Getting girls isn't a problem for me, so i'd rather be picky).

This girl is cute and fun, but I'm really having trouble with this. I can't really even touch her let alone kiss her. I've been able to hide these feelings from her thus for because I don't want to hurt her feelings. Just because I choose the way I do, doesn't mean that I expect everyone to, so I don't want her to think I'm saying that she's an awful person- I just don't know if I personally can deal.

What do you guys think? Its pretty slutty, right?

Oh yeah, and she also said that she felt "guilty" and "embarrassed" but that really doesn't change much for me.

Cliffs-
Cute girl is ninteen and has had sex with 8 dudes. Seems messed up to me. What do you think?


25 - 19 = not good.
 

VIAN

Diamond Member
Aug 22, 2003
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I don't think you should be so quick to judge her. Find out who she is and then make your decision. Physical is physical, you know you'd bang 8 chicks if you had the chance. I wouldn't blame her for that.
 

KarenMarie

Elite Member
Sep 20, 2003
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What difference does it make how many guys she has slept with? It is not anyone else's business but her own. Who is to decide how many is too many? Only she can determine that. Everyone is different and their standards differ, too. 20 partners at 19yrs old may be fine to a million ppl and be too many for another million ppl.

Her mistake was telling anyone else.

This should not be about whether she is a slut or not. Or if she is a good person or bad. This is about whether the OP can handle being with someone who is not pristine.

It should not be a reflection on her morals. Everyone has different standards.
 

Turtle 1

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Sep 14, 2005
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Originally posted by: Ketteringo
The past is the past, as long as she's clean who gives a rat's ass? If you like her go for it, it's not like it's something that you can change.

What he said
 

Novercalis

Senior member
Aug 5, 2005
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thats more of your personal thing... it doesnt bother at me..
first i was more fixitated with girls all being virgins... im just 22... at first I didnt like the fact if the girl had only sex 1 time b4 me.. it would bother me.. bu than I realize im being a hipocrit for all the encounters I been in.
so when I do want to settle... I will need to realize, who ever my partner is, already had many guys b4 me.


hell, lets use the kiss as an example.. she only had 8 guys she slept, but she kissed a hell of alot more than that! It used to bother me.. now it doesnt.. grow out of it.
 

sniperruff

Lifer
Apr 17, 2002
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Originally posted by: infestedgh0st
only such a thread like this would exist on ATOT

you guys are pathetic, let this thread die already.

you just bumped it up 7 hours later idiot.
 
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