8 Year Old boy charged for sexual conduct with 14 year old babysitter

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EyeMNathan

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Originally posted by: EvanGn
Originally posted by: EyeMNathan
Originally posted by: EvanGn
Originally posted by: Eli
WTF?

...

WTF?

/reads article

Well, they droped the charges.. What's the problem?

Edit:

Guys, read the article. They were playing truth or dare. The girl dared the kid to touch her breasts.

The girl is fscked up.


The girl is a pedophile and should be charged.

Nothing would come of it. Girl is just confused. If you ask me, someone should look at her home situation, and see if maybe something is wrong there. She's just a kid.


Hello wake up. There are pedophiles that are under 18. Thats why you have to be so careful in this world. I bet thats how some of them even started. A pedophile can be anyone. Doesn't matter if its male or female, you know them, you trust them with your life, etc. They can still be a pedophile.

You are assuming this 14 year old girl is any smarter than the 8 year old when it comes to what sex is, and isn't.

Where do you draw the line? What if she was 9? 10? 11? Is there some hard and fast age limit that determines when people are sexually mature enough to know better?

We don't know this girl. We don't know what level of maturity or common sense she has.

If you want to start making blanket statements, then go for it. But it'll still be a bunch of big-talk from someone who doesn't know any of the backstory.

This is why we have a legal system, psychologists, and other experts. So that we don't average Joe Q. Stupid passing judgement on everyone from afar and without any training.
 

Viper GTS

Lifer
Oct 13, 1999
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Originally posted by: EvanGn
Hello wake up. There are pedophiles that are under 18. Thats why you have to be so careful in this world. I bet thats how some of them even started. A pedophile can be anyone. Doesn't matter if its male or female, you know them, you trust them with your life, etc. They can still be a pedophile.

I define a pedophile as someone who has reached sexual maturity wanting to fvck those who haven't.

I don't think this meets that requirement.

IT IS NORMAL FOR KIDS/TEENS TO EXPERIMENT.

Playing doctor? I'll show you mine if you show me yours?

We all did this sh!t to one degree or another. This isn't much different.

Should it have happened? No. Should there be repercussions for the girl? Yes. Should she be in a position of authority over children? Not right now.

There is absolutely no reason to ruin this girls life over stupid kid sh!t. She dared a kid to feel her up, how that makes her a pedophile is beyond me.

Viper GTS
 

EvanGn

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Jul 26, 2005
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Originally posted by: EyeMNathan
Originally posted by: EvanGn
Originally posted by: EyeMNathan
Originally posted by: EvanGn
Originally posted by: Eli
WTF?

...

WTF?

/reads article

Well, they droped the charges.. What's the problem?

Edit:

Guys, read the article. They were playing truth or dare. The girl dared the kid to touch her breasts.

The girl is fscked up.


The girl is a pedophile and should be charged.

Nothing would come of it. Girl is just confused. If you ask me, someone should look at her home situation, and see if maybe something is wrong there. She's just a kid.


Hello wake up. There are pedophiles that are under 18. Thats why you have to be so careful in this world. I bet thats how some of them even started. A pedophile can be anyone. Doesn't matter if its male or female, you know them, you trust them with your life, etc. They can still be a pedophile.

You are assuming this 14 year old girl is any smarter than the 8 year old when it comes to what sex is, and isn't.

Where do you draw the line? What if she was 9? 10? 11? Is there some hard and fast age limit that determines when people are sexually mature enough to know better?

We don't know this girl. We don't know what level of maturity or common sense she has.

If you want to start making blanket statements, then go for it. But it'll still be a bunch of big-talk from someone who doesn't know any of the backstory.

This is why we have a legal system, psychologists, and other experts. So that we don't average Joe Q. Stupid passing judgement on everyone from afar and without any training.

True but its still wrong.
 

EvanGn

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Jul 26, 2005
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Originally posted by: Viper GTS
Originally posted by: EvanGn
Hello wake up. There are pedophiles that are under 18. Thats why you have to be so careful in this world. I bet thats how some of them even started. A pedophile can be anyone. Doesn't matter if its male or female, you know them, you trust them with your life, etc. They can still be a pedophile.

I define a pedophile as someone who has reached sexual maturity wanting to fvck those who haven't.

I don't think this meets that requirement.

IT IS NORMAL FOR KIDS/TEENS TO EXPERIMENT.

Playing doctor? I'll show you mine if you show me yours?

We all did this sh!t to one degree or another. This isn't much different.

Should it have happened? No. Should there be repercussions for the girl? Yes. Should she be in a position of authority over children? Not right now.

There is absolutely no reason to ruin this girls life over stupid kid sh!t. She dared a kid to feel her up, how that makes her a pedophile is beyond me.

Viper GTS


If she knew what that meant then she obviously knows better and therefore knew exactly what she was doing. She took advantage of a child and now has messed him up for the rest of his life. She is a pedophile because she knew what she was doing.
 

Originally posted by: EvanGn
Originally posted by: Viper GTS
Originally posted by: EvanGn
Hello wake up. There are pedophiles that are under 18. Thats why you have to be so careful in this world. I bet thats how some of them even started. A pedophile can be anyone. Doesn't matter if its male or female, you know them, you trust them with your life, etc. They can still be a pedophile.

I define a pedophile as someone who has reached sexual maturity wanting to fvck those who haven't.

I don't think this meets that requirement.

IT IS NORMAL FOR KIDS/TEENS TO EXPERIMENT.

Playing doctor? I'll show you mine if you show me yours?

We all did this sh!t to one degree or another. This isn't much different.

Should it have happened? No. Should there be repercussions for the girl? Yes. Should she be in a position of authority over children? Not right now.

There is absolutely no reason to ruin this girls life over stupid kid sh!t. She dared a kid to feel her up, how that makes her a pedophile is beyond me.

Viper GTS


If she knew what that meant then she obviously knows better and therefore knew exactly what she was doing. She took advantage of a child and now has messed him up for the rest of his life. She is a pedophile because she knew what she was doing.

WTF? Messed him up the rest of his life? Where did you pull this one out of? The girl deserves punishment, but not in terms of the courts or any law enforcement system. That would harm more than help anyone. Messed him up for life, talk about a knee jerk reaction.
 

EyeMNathan

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Feb 15, 2004
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Originally posted by: EvanGn
Originally posted by: Viper GTS
Originally posted by: EvanGn
Hello wake up. There are pedophiles that are under 18. Thats why you have to be so careful in this world. I bet thats how some of them even started. A pedophile can be anyone. Doesn't matter if its male or female, you know them, you trust them with your life, etc. They can still be a pedophile.

I define a pedophile as someone who has reached sexual maturity wanting to fvck those who haven't.

I don't think this meets that requirement.

IT IS NORMAL FOR KIDS/TEENS TO EXPERIMENT.

Playing doctor? I'll show you mine if you show me yours?

We all did this sh!t to one degree or another. This isn't much different.

Should it have happened? No. Should there be repercussions for the girl? Yes. Should she be in a position of authority over children? Not right now.

There is absolutely no reason to ruin this girls life over stupid kid sh!t. She dared a kid to feel her up, how that makes her a pedophile is beyond me.

Viper GTS


If she knew what that meant then she obviously knows better and therefore knew exactly what she was doing. She took advantage of a child and now has messed him up for the rest of his life. She is a pedophile because she knew what she was doing.

How do you know she knew what she was doing? Were you EVER a teenager? She doesn't have to know what something meant to dare someone to do it. You just don't seem to know anything about being a child or a young teenager.

That's the problem here. You are jumping to conclusions, pretending to have all the facts, and thinking in terms of only absolutes. Black, white, yes, no.

Sorry son but that's not the real world.
 

EvanGn

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Jul 26, 2005
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Originally posted by: FallenHero
Originally posted by: EvanGn
Originally posted by: Viper GTS
Originally posted by: EvanGn
Hello wake up. There are pedophiles that are under 18. Thats why you have to be so careful in this world. I bet thats how some of them even started. A pedophile can be anyone. Doesn't matter if its male or female, you know them, you trust them with your life, etc. They can still be a pedophile.

I define a pedophile as someone who has reached sexual maturity wanting to fvck those who haven't.

I don't think this meets that requirement.

IT IS NORMAL FOR KIDS/TEENS TO EXPERIMENT.

Playing doctor? I'll show you mine if you show me yours?

We all did this sh!t to one degree or another. This isn't much different.

Should it have happened? No. Should there be repercussions for the girl? Yes. Should she be in a position of authority over children? Not right now.

There is absolutely no reason to ruin this girls life over stupid kid sh!t. She dared a kid to feel her up, how that makes her a pedophile is beyond me.

Viper GTS


If she knew what that meant then she obviously knows better and therefore knew exactly what she was doing. She took advantage of a child and now has messed him up for the rest of his life. She is a pedophile because she knew what she was doing.

WTF? Messed him up the rest of his life? Where did you pull this one out of? The girl deserves punishment, but not in terms of the courts or any law enforcement system. That would harm more than help anyone. Messed him up for life, talk about a knee jerk reaction.

The kid will be emotionally scared for life.
 

Eli

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Oct 9, 1999
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Originally posted by: Viper GTS
Originally posted by: EvanGn
Hello wake up. There are pedophiles that are under 18. Thats why you have to be so careful in this world. I bet thats how some of them even started. A pedophile can be anyone. Doesn't matter if its male or female, you know them, you trust them with your life, etc. They can still be a pedophile.

I define a pedophile as someone who has reached sexual maturity wanting to fvck those who haven't.

I don't think this meets that requirement.

IT IS NORMAL FOR KIDS/TEENS TO EXPERIMENT.

Playing doctor? I'll show you mine if you show me yours?

We all did this sh!t to one degree or another. This isn't much different.

Should it have happened? No. Should there be repercussions for the girl? Yes. Should she be in a position of authority over children? Not right now.

There is absolutely no reason to ruin this girls life over stupid kid sh!t. She dared a kid to feel her up, how that makes her a pedophile is beyond me.

Viper GTS
Agreed.

I'm pretty sure we'd all be locked up for life if we were held accountable for what we did when we were children in that regard. I know I would. :Q

Like you all haven't played truth or dare.. lol
 

Kadarin

Lifer
Nov 23, 2001
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Originally posted by: EvanGn
Originally posted by: FallenHero
Originally posted by: EvanGn
Originally posted by: Viper GTS
Originally posted by: EvanGn
Hello wake up. There are pedophiles that are under 18. Thats why you have to be so careful in this world. I bet thats how some of them even started. A pedophile can be anyone. Doesn't matter if its male or female, you know them, you trust them with your life, etc. They can still be a pedophile.

I define a pedophile as someone who has reached sexual maturity wanting to fvck those who haven't.

I don't think this meets that requirement.

IT IS NORMAL FOR KIDS/TEENS TO EXPERIMENT.

Playing doctor? I'll show you mine if you show me yours?

We all did this sh!t to one degree or another. This isn't much different.

Should it have happened? No. Should there be repercussions for the girl? Yes. Should she be in a position of authority over children? Not right now.

There is absolutely no reason to ruin this girls life over stupid kid sh!t. She dared a kid to feel her up, how that makes her a pedophile is beyond me.

Viper GTS


If she knew what that meant then she obviously knows better and therefore knew exactly what she was doing. She took advantage of a child and now has messed him up for the rest of his life. She is a pedophile because she knew what she was doing.

WTF? Messed him up the rest of his life? Where did you pull this one out of? The girl deserves punishment, but not in terms of the courts or any law enforcement system. That would harm more than help anyone. Messed him up for life, talk about a knee jerk reaction.

The kid will be emotionally scared for life.

Ok, you are trolling here, and making statements based on no evidence that you cannot back up. You need to shut the fvck up.
 

EvanGn

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Jul 26, 2005
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Originally posted by: Eli
Originally posted by: Viper GTS
Originally posted by: EvanGn
Hello wake up. There are pedophiles that are under 18. Thats why you have to be so careful in this world. I bet thats how some of them even started. A pedophile can be anyone. Doesn't matter if its male or female, you know them, you trust them with your life, etc. They can still be a pedophile.

I define a pedophile as someone who has reached sexual maturity wanting to fvck those who haven't.

I don't think this meets that requirement.

IT IS NORMAL FOR KIDS/TEENS TO EXPERIMENT.

Playing doctor? I'll show you mine if you show me yours?

We all did this sh!t to one degree or another. This isn't much different.

Should it have happened? No. Should there be repercussions for the girl? Yes. Should she be in a position of authority over children? Not right now.

There is absolutely no reason to ruin this girls life over stupid kid sh!t. She dared a kid to feel her up, how that makes her a pedophile is beyond me.

Viper GTS
Agreed.

I'm pretty sure we'd all be locked up for life if we were held accountable for what we did when we were children in that regard. I know I would. :Q

Like you all haven't played truth or dare.. lol

I never have.

 

Viper GTS

Lifer
Oct 13, 1999
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Originally posted by: EvanGn
She took advantage of a child and now has messed him up for the rest of his life. She is a pedophile because she knew what she was doing.

I don't know about you dude but when I was about 8 my parents hired the daughter of a friend (probably 17 or 18 at the time) and I'd have given anything for her to let me feel her up. She was hot as hell in my little 8 year old mind.

It definitely shouldn't have happened (and didn't in my case, dammit), but it wouldn't have screwed me up for life.

I would have a completely different argument if this had been a 20 something, that's a totally different game.

Viper GTS
 

EyeMNathan

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EvanGn is just blatantly trolling at this point. Zero evidence, and keeps insisting on his claims despite the fact that we've pointed out he has no evidence to support his claims.
 

kogase

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Pedophilia:

"sexual perversion in which children are the preferred sexual object"

Until you're a psychologist who has done a thorough in-person analysis of this girl and her sexuality, you may kindly shut the #$@! up about her sexual orientation. Thanks.
 

BigJ

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Originally posted by: EvanGn
Originally posted by: Eli
Originally posted by: Viper GTS
Originally posted by: EvanGn
Hello wake up. There are pedophiles that are under 18. Thats why you have to be so careful in this world. I bet thats how some of them even started. A pedophile can be anyone. Doesn't matter if its male or female, you know them, you trust them with your life, etc. They can still be a pedophile.

I define a pedophile as someone who has reached sexual maturity wanting to fvck those who haven't.

I don't think this meets that requirement.

IT IS NORMAL FOR KIDS/TEENS TO EXPERIMENT.

Playing doctor? I'll show you mine if you show me yours?

We all did this sh!t to one degree or another. This isn't much different.

Should it have happened? No. Should there be repercussions for the girl? Yes. Should she be in a position of authority over children? Not right now.

There is absolutely no reason to ruin this girls life over stupid kid sh!t. She dared a kid to feel her up, how that makes her a pedophile is beyond me.

Viper GTS
Agreed.

I'm pretty sure we'd all be locked up for life if we were held accountable for what we did when we were children in that regard. I know I would. :Q

Like you all haven't played truth or dare.. lol

I never have.

imtim83, is that you?
 

EvanGn

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Originally posted by: Viper GTS
Originally posted by: EvanGn
She took advantage of a child and now has messed him up for the rest of his life. She is a pedophile because she knew what she was doing.

I don't know about you dude but when I was about 8 my parents hired the daughter of a friend (probably 17 or 18 at the time) and I'd have given anything for her to let me feel her up. She was hot as hell in my little 8 year old mind.

It definitely shouldn't have happened (and didn't in my case, dammit), but it wouldn't have screwed me up for life.

I would have a completely different argument if this had been a 20 something, that's a totally different game.

Viper GTS

How is it different when someone is 18 or over? You do realize a lot of pedophiles start as miniors right?
 

Eli

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Originally posted by: EvanGn

The kid will be emotionally scared for life.
LOL.....

It is possible.

It doesen't sound like he's taken it very hard, though. As most normal 8 year old males would not.

At 8, you at least understand a little. You understand that touching a girl is something that is "naughty". When you start playing games with said girl, and she invites you to touch her in a dare... you're going to do it. She didn't grab his hand and make him do it.

I don't know about you, but I was well aware of the differences between boys and girls at the age of 8, and quite curious...

I remember playing "I'll show you mine if you'll show me yours" at 6.....

My friend at the time told her parents and they yelled at me... That sucked. I didn't go over there for like a week.. lol
 

Originally posted by: EvanGn
Originally posted by: Viper GTS
Originally posted by: EvanGn
She took advantage of a child and now has messed him up for the rest of his life. She is a pedophile because she knew what she was doing.

I don't know about you dude but when I was about 8 my parents hired the daughter of a friend (probably 17 or 18 at the time) and I'd have given anything for her to let me feel her up. She was hot as hell in my little 8 year old mind.

It definitely shouldn't have happened (and didn't in my case, dammit), but it wouldn't have screwed me up for life.

I would have a completely different argument if this had been a 20 something, that's a totally different game.

Viper GTS

How is it different when someone is 18 or over? You do realize a lot of pedophiles start as miniors right?

The hell are you talking about? Do you even know the psychological profile of a pedophile or are you making more things up as you go along?
 

aidanjm

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it's pretty disgusting the automatic response of authorities is to charge the male, even when he is 6 years younger than the female. Actually, tho, no-one should be charged, turning this into a criminal scenario is going to do more harm than good.
 

OutHouse

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OMG!!!! kids playing Truth or Dare and a boob got touched!!! CALL THE COPS!!!!

:roll: :roll:
 
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