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Red Dawn

Elite Member
Jun 4, 2001
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Your wife sucked another man's dick and you don't care?
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No. Why should I?
Man I hope she brushed her teeth and use Lavorus afterwords before she kissed you. Just think, the next time you kiss her you could be tasting some other guys... Yuck!
 

HiveMaster

Banned
Apr 11, 2002
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Edit: She was drunk, but she knew what was going on and this went on all night. That is as far as it went, rubbing her shoulders, touching her legs, kissing her neck, and one guy put his head on her lap. Two seperate guys, two seperate nights over a week apart. I am stunned.

Dude, that was all she admitted to...you can bet it went a LOT further than that. Women always tell you less than what really happened, men will always exaggerate the truth.

There is serious crap going on in the marriage, buddy. Get thee to a therapist. Oh, and I would go back to treating her like someone you just met when it comes to sex: barrier protection from you until she comes back clean with the aids tests and you see NO evidence of herpes.

Does that sound paranoid? You bet your ass. Could it save your life????? YOU BET YOUR ASS!!!

(Edit)NO I DID NOT READ 173 REPLIES so if this has been said...just add my name to the list.
 

Electric Amish

Elite Member
Oct 11, 1999
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Originally posted by: Johnlee
Dude, your wife is HOT!

Thanks!

For those of you that think you want a shot at her, think Red Dawn with mommy parts.

You guys wouldn't stand a chance against her.

As for her looks, she's most likely not up to the specs most guys post around here. She actually has breasts and a curvy body.
amish
 

Pliablemoose

Lifer
Oct 11, 1999
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Just ran the scenario by my wife, she gave me the "If you ever pulled that crap on me, you're history." look, followed by the lecture of same.
 

EvanGeliSt

Golden Member
Jun 24, 2002
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Originally posted by: bonk102
Originally posted by: DAPUNISHER I'd tell her that was mild compared to what I did to her best friend while she was gone Muhahahahahahahahahahaha.
hahahhaha rofl

Rofl... but seriously, you had better clarify this matter with her. Whether she was drunk or not, it just isn't the correct thing to do.. especially on 2 separate occasions...
:disgust:
 

SuperSix

Elite Member
Oct 9, 1999
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Originally posted by: justint
What if your wife had been away for a few months on business and told you that she had been drinking with people from work and let two seperate guys rub her shoulders, touch her legs and kiss her neck on two seperate occasions?

Do you think that crosses the line into innapropriate? How would you react?

Edit: She was drunk, but she knew what was going on and this went on all night. That is as far as it went, rubbing her shoulders, touching her legs, kissing her neck, and one guy put his head on her lap. Two seperate guys, two seperate nights over a week apart. I am stunned.

EDIT: Anyone who is married. Please note that in your response. I would like to hear from married folks. On a scale of 1 to 10, how serious is this?


If she admits to that much, she probably did much more..

Sorry..
 

RossMAN

Grand Nagus
Feb 24, 2000
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I'm married, this is very serious but also a hilarious thread.

My wife would never let co-workers touch her in this manner, whether it be single or taken men or women.
 

Stark

Diamond Member
Jun 16, 2000
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Most people who say crap like this are closet gays or closet serial killers or closet adulterers or closet... The louder they shout the more they need to look into the mirror.
 

SuperSix

Elite Member
Oct 9, 1999
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Originally posted by: Electric Amish
It's obvious to me that most of you people have never been truly in love.

amish

"morally bankrupt" really describes you.. Or you are in your marraige for the convenience
 

SuperSix

Elite Member
Oct 9, 1999
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Oh, and you can pretty much believe that anything she told you about the incident and WILL tell you about the incident is bullsh!t.. Unless there's proof, she's stringing you along..
Remember:

"There's no such thing as free pussy"
 

NeoV

Diamond Member
Apr 18, 2000
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I think that hell freeze is over...

I'm more with P.Gold (still trailing me in the ATOT fantasy baseball league BTW) and Amish on this one...if she is going to do it, do it in front of me or on videotape though!! For every guy she does this with, she has to do the same with a woman, or bring one home for me!

If she didn't care for you, she would have just kept it to herself...or maybe it is her way of telling you that she wants to explore some new stuff sexually WITH you, hence her telling you...


For those of you saying "I would have the divorce papers in hand when she gets home", what the heck? What happens when you guys get in a really bad fight? What happens if she spends money behind your back? What happens if she lies to you about something? Where do you draw the line of what does and does not automatically end your marriage?

 

BoberFett

Lifer
Oct 9, 1999
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  1. <LI>Morals are relative.

    <LI>Every person is unique, and when you put two of them together that relationship is even more unique. The same two people in different relationships can have entirely different chemistry. So it's silly to ask other people for advice in relationships. You already know the answers, you're just looking for approval. You might be angry and confused which makes it hard to see the answers. Take some time to cool down, and after you have do what your heart tells you to do.
 

JJWalker

Senior member
Feb 15, 2001
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You've got the word "groping" this week......next week it may be "airtight".


Where are you going to draw the line?
 

MrDudeMan

Lifer
Jan 15, 2001
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first of all i want an update. i read this whole thing and got no update. omg.

second of all, not to jump to any conclusions, but that is just horsesh!t man. how can you let a woman toy with your heart that way. that is seriously shady.

no, im not married, but everyone has emotions and generally everyones emotions are hurt in somewhat the same way. in amish's case, its different. at first i thought he was a lunatic and a moron, but now i understand his point. i dont completely agree with it, because i would never have sex with another woman if i was married, but i do understand and if thats how he wants it, then its cool by me.

but, this would never fly with me. i would have so much anger inside that she could do something that terrible to me, TWICE, that it would never work. i dont see how any of you men could feel any differently. it just boggles my mind that people do this to each other. it almost makes me want to double check my girlfriend even though i know she has been completely loyal to me and i would never do anything to hurt her that way.

maybe our relationship is just progressing inside of digressing and that could be a potential problem? i dont know....


you can never understand someone elses relationship. things always happen that no one knows about but those two people. im sure we dont know 1% of what is going on, but most people react to most situations in roughly the same manor. we are shocked, then pissed, then heartbroken. not always in that order or containing all aspects, but ya know, i mean when it comes to cheating.

and jerboy, i have been mean to you before, and now i know why. people like you are the scum of the earth.

"Messing around is fun."

once a cheater, always a cheater. bastards that cheat on women and b!tches that cheat on men should just die. its the worst thing you could ever do and everyone should just know not to do it. omg it makes me so mad to know and see that people do this to each other and at the same time hoping it never happens to me.

sorry i am venting my thoughts and this thread is helping me to do so
 

Shockwave

Banned
Sep 16, 2000
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Amish....
You've REALLY got me thinking on that. On one hand, your leagues above everyone else here. By that i mean you have a definate seperation between physical and emotional, not something thats easy to do by ANY means.
On the other hand, your leagues below everyone else here. By that I mean, your emotions for one dont dictate your actions, ie. , you say you love her but find satisfaction with another.

Now, be sure I'm not critizing you in ANY way. Everyone must lead their own lives. But, also be sure you've given me ALOT to think about, for which I'm grateful. i like to make myself a better person, constantly striving for it. Its interesting to see how you can seperate the fleeting physical pleasures from the long term emotional ones. Very interesting indeed. Not sure if I agree with you or not, as I said, I have alot to think about.....
 

MrDudeMan

Lifer
Jan 15, 2001
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yeah i have been thinking a lot about that to. amish you really got me going this time.


i know in my last post i said i understand but dont totally agree, which i am sticking to right now, but still, you got that whole thought process stimulated. thanks.


justint you should probably read what amish has to say. if you look a little deeper it is good advice.


but, everyone else is also giving great advice...not trying to play favorites
 

Skyclad1uhm1

Lifer
Aug 10, 2001
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Unless you have talked about it and agreed you both do not mind the other having a sexual relationship outside the marriage I'd say this is 'not done'.

I would mind very strongly, and would not want a relationship where I cannot trust my wife. You both made vows to be true to eachother, and if you cannot abide to those vows you should make clear in advance.

It's like working for the US government and at the same time selling information to al Qaida. If the US government found out they'd kick your ass rather than saying 'as long as he still works for us it's fine!'
 

Renob

Diamond Member
Jun 18, 2000
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Dude the trust is gone, I dont think I could EVER trust her again.......

I would of moved out that day, and start the divorce ball a rollin.
 

MrDudeMan

Lifer
Jan 15, 2001
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Originally posted by: Skyclad1uhm1
Unless you have talked about it and agreed you both do not mind the other having a sexual relationship outside the marriage I'd say this is 'not done'.

I would mind very strongly, and would not want a relationship where I cannot trust my wife. You both made vows to be true to eachother, and if you cannot abide to those vows you should make clear in advance.

It's like working for the US government and at the same time selling information to al Qaida. If the US government found out they'd kick your ass rather than saying 'as long as he still works for us it's fine!'


good analogy
 
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