Pliablemoose
Lifer
- Oct 11, 1999
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Honestly, I'd be hiring a divorce lawyer, life's too short for that crap. If she respected you & your relationship, it wouldn't have happened.
I'm on 2nd marriage, we've been together for 5 years & I wouldn't consider feeling up another woman, or kissing one.
She's using the drinking as an excuse for her behavior, and that's not good either. (If she's had enough to drink, extramarital sex is ok cuz she was drunk?)
There seems to be some hair splitting over sexual behavior & sex, if you're in a relationship and you're discussing sexual behavior with another party, there is no difference.
I'm also concerned that it happened with 2 different guys. How old are you-all? How long have you been married? Sounds like she's working up to having sex with someone else in the near future, if she hasn't already.
Rule of thumb, if you're not a loon and you suspect your partner is fooling around, they prob are...
Morals about sex & sexuality are highly individual, you need to make some choices about what yours are.
On a 0-10 scale, I give it a 9.99, 10 being sex. I'd hire a lawyer @ 8.
I'm on 2nd marriage, we've been together for 5 years & I wouldn't consider feeling up another woman, or kissing one.
She's using the drinking as an excuse for her behavior, and that's not good either. (If she's had enough to drink, extramarital sex is ok cuz she was drunk?)
There seems to be some hair splitting over sexual behavior & sex, if you're in a relationship and you're discussing sexual behavior with another party, there is no difference.
I'm also concerned that it happened with 2 different guys. How old are you-all? How long have you been married? Sounds like she's working up to having sex with someone else in the near future, if she hasn't already.
Rule of thumb, if you're not a loon and you suspect your partner is fooling around, they prob are...
Morals about sex & sexuality are highly individual, you need to make some choices about what yours are.
On a 0-10 scale, I give it a 9.99, 10 being sex. I'd hire a lawyer @ 8.