a classic eakers situation. im conflicted.

[eakers]

so this really shy boy who is in a relationship keeps asking me to do stuff with him. i know his girlfriend and she is really really sweet and i love her to death.
and i dont like him at all but i find myself flirting with him because i like the attention hes giving me because i love going out for dinner and to the movies and hes a great guy so he makes a great friend but im so not attracted to him furthermore, his girlfriend is so sweet, i could never hurt her that way so i just play dumb like we are friends but i know he wants more.

last night he told me he has a lot of feelings for me and is breaking up for his girlfriend for me and i told him that it wasnt him i just dont want a boyfriend right now (which is honestly the truth, im tired of dating and boys and am just waiting for someone i really like before i get interested right now). and now he is mad because he has put in so much time and money and i dont want him
so then i guilt tripped him by saying that he was basically cheating now and why would i want a boy like that?

and now hes pissed off cuz i let him date me, knowing his intentions but playing dumb czu i didnt like him back and hes saying he likes me so much he cant be friends with me because it hurts so bad to be around me. that makes me sad.

so now, hes back with his girlfriend and im suddenly feeling guilty and im thinking of coming clean to her and letting her know her boyfriend is a jackass.

*kat. <-- conflicted.

 

[Ih8canada]

follow what your animal instinct says...go on the prowl kitty kat.

~meow!!!

 

[Spooner]

a typical woman playing her typical games

 

[Paulson]

I'd say a swift kick in the balls would do this "boy" well...

Then, after you do that, tell his girlfriend, and maybe it can be a 2 for one deal...

 

[bunker]

IMHO you were the jackass in this one. You knew he was trying to hook up and you let him think he was getting somewhere.

 

[Evadman]

LOL @ paulson.

Evadman + women = evadman no $$. I am thinking of turning gay so I do not have to spend all my $$ on someone

 

[Transition]

Originally posted by: Spooner
a typical woman playing her typical games

Why do you have to talk about yourself from a third person view?

 

[Nitemare]

So this guy buys you dinners, wines and dines you, spend time with you..even wants to break up with his girlfriend for you..

and you want to tell his girl just to get him in trouble...


jeeshhhh..no wondor you are solo now

 

[krystalogik]

Originally posted by: Paulson
I'd say a swift kick in the balls would do this "boy" well...

Then, after you do that, tell his girlfriend, and maybe it can be a 2 for one deal...

That way it's a HOT DEAL!

I can't believe i just did that.

 

[UberNeuman]

you say attention whore like its a bad thing

 

[SSP]

Originally posted by: Ih8canada
follow what your animal instinct says...go on the prowl kitty kat.

~meow!!!

^ What he said.

Do what you think is right.

 

[Paulson]

Originally posted by: bunker
IMHO you were the jackass in this one. You knew he was trying to hook up and you let him think he was getting somewhere.

It's his fault for falling for it... I don't get why you didn't tell him you didn't like him in the first place eakers... that was bad of you... very bad kitty

Personally.. I just find women to be one big game where they think they can win at everything and leave us confused and empty (money and emotionally wise)

Maybe that's why I should be happy I can't get a gf

 

[Spooner]

Originally posted by: Transition

Originally posted by: Spooner
a typical woman playing her typical games

Why do you have to talk about yourself from a third person view?

that's about as clever as a bucket of dried feces

 

[aphex]

and now hes pissed off cuz i let him date me, knowing his intentions but playing dumb czu i didnt like him back

Sorry babe, but your just as much to blame in this one as he is.....

 

[aphex]

Originally posted by: Spooner

Originally posted by: Transition

Originally posted by: Spooner
a typical woman playing her typical games

Why do you have to talk about yourself from a third person view?

that's about as clever as a bucket of dried feces

flaming dried feces?

 

[Ih8canada]

w00t i got quoted!!!

~girl you'll be a woman soon....lalalala

 

[Geekbabe]

so now, hes back with his girlfriend and im suddenly feeling guilty and im thinking of coming clean to her and letting her know her boyfriend is a jackass

you went out with a friend's man because you like attention and now that he knows you were using him
and went back with her, you're gonna "come clean" about him being a jackass ? :Q

Imho,you've got a whole lot to learn about relationships Kat... and that includes what friendship means.
and I'm saying this as nicely as I can.

 

[joohang]

Originally posted by: Transition

Originally posted by: Spooner
a typical woman playing her typical games

Why do you have to talk about yourself from a third person view?

Because people tend to judge others based on a reflection of themselves.

 

[JC]

Originally posted by: bunker
IMHO you were the jackass in this one. You knew he was trying to hook up and you let him think he was getting somewhere.

Ditto. Sorry kat, you'll get no sympathy from me on this one.

JC

 

[BigPotato]

Originally posted by: baffled2

so now, hes back with his girlfriend and im suddenly feeling guilty and im thinking of coming clean to her and letting her know her boyfriend is a jackass

you went out with a friend's man because you like attention and now that he knows you were using him
and went back with her, you're gonna "come clean" about him being a jackass ? :Q

WELL SAID.

 

[Nitemare]

So you seduce this nice girls boyfriend and now you want to hurt both

He's a jackass for falling for it..and you are a sad example of a female for playing the guy, you are even sadder because you want to cause more misery by telling the woman and breaking them up again..

 

[Aquaman]

Originally posted by: Paulson

Originally posted by: bunker
IMHO you were the jackass in this one. You knew he was trying to hook up and you let him think he was getting somewhere.

It's his fault for falling for it... I don't get why you didn't tell him you didn't like him in the first place eakers... that was bad of you... very bad kitty

Personally.. I just find women to be one big game where they think they can win at everything and leave us confused and empty (money and emotionally wise)

Maybe that's why I should be happy I can't get a gf

That's what dating is all about when your younger dude You gotta learn somehow Not all women are in it for the money You just have to be careful

Cheers,
Aquaman

 

[eakers]

Originally posted by: baffled2

so now, hes back with his girlfriend and im suddenly feeling guilty and im thinking of coming clean to her and letting her know her boyfriend is a jackass

you went out with a friend's man because you like attention and now that he knows you were using him
and went back with her, you're gonna "come clean" about him being a jackass ? :Q

yeah i know im horrible. but i kept it on the level the whole time with him and while i flirted i made clear that nothing was going to happen between us cuz of the girl.

shes not my friend but my friends friend. (my friend being the guy)

i just make bad decisions when it comes to boys.

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

copied from mIRC about this thread...

<eakers> i made this all up

I've said it before, but I don't think I have to say it agian.

nik

 

[Mustangrrl]

Good grief -- you need attention that bad? Poor you

~robyn