Routan, welcome.
I've made the point occassionaly, that I tend to discuss 'one side' of issues more because I'm tending to respond to people who are wrong from one side.
I'm going to take advantage of your post for arguing the 'other side' from the side I've usually been arguing, that agrees with the points you've made.
This isn't inconsistent - it's issues that haven't come up as much.
While we agree on what you did post, I'd like to comment on a few things you haven't.
These are 'things common in Islamic society'; of course not all Muslims fit them, and they're not the usual examples of extremist behavior most Muslims oppose.
First, let's talk about gays. We have bigots in the Democratic party. We have a lot more bigots in the Republican party. We have high rates of bigotry among religious people - the Catholics and Mormons were big donors for discrimination here in California last election - and religious blacks seem to have even more bigots. But my impression - not carefully confirmed - is that anti-gay views may be higher than any of these groups among Muslims.
Certainly, we have issues with gay inequality in multiple Muslim nations - exceeding the sort of inequality of 'no gay marriage' up to even lashings and reportedly execution.
Now, we in the US are hardly perfect - it was only in 2003 laws ended allowing imprisonment for gay sex, and it wasn't by vote, but by the court.
But this seems to be a real and signifigant problem in the Islamic world IMO.
I wouldn't be surprised if you oppose the discrimination, but I think it needs mention in a discussion of 'Muslim issues'.
Second, the Islamic world has a lot of countries where the law and culture seems pretty tolerant of a 'religious nation', where the merging of the religious and the law and state aren't seen as dangerous but as good, where preferential treatment for Islam seems to be well accepted and preferred.
Why is it that there isn't wider support for secular government allowing the free practice of Islam and other religions equally, over the state support for Islam?
That, too, seems to be an issue with Islam.
And again, we in the US have a substantial minority with a similar problem, who would prefer a 'religious state' here, but we're not close to their getting their way.
We may have an unofficial taboo on a Muslim becoming president - despite it being legal and possible in theory - but we still have a generally secular system.
Take Afghanistan, and let me say up front I'm ignorant about what I'm about to ask. The Taliban there have reportedly never had more than single digit support among the population - and yet they seem to get power all too readily. I wonder if this doesn't imply some level of tolerance for their extremist fundamentalist views, even if not shared, as part of why they're able to get power? In the US, our 5% support groups are nowhere near able to get control of the country for a radical agenda.
(Our 25% radical groups, ya. 5 of our supreme court justices are pretty radical, and the W and Reagan administrations did some radical things, for example. But it's far from something like the Taliban gaining power. Perhaps our biggest minority group gaining power are 'the rich', and our nation is suffering a lot from their doing so, and we seem powerless to use our votes to reign them in, but it's not a pervasive cultural repression like the Taliban).
Why is a country like Afghanistan seemingly so unable to have its majority keep power over the Taliban? I understand the Taliban are more brutal and organized - but it that it?
Next, a question - Muslims tend to more observant of behavioral rules in their religion than the west, IMO. Sexual, substance use, and a variety of other areas, Muslims seem to 'practice what they preach' more than the large majority in the west - and I hear them decry the western practices of substance abuse, pornography, and other things.
In ways, this behavioral difference is admirable - and in others, a bit scary.
I'll admit the logical problem common in the west where 'it's their choice' is inadequate to try to address many problems - but we are wary of authoritarian measures to limit people's choices, especially from religion. My question is, would Muslim majorities be prone to use the law to enforce their religious-based views on society, even if 'for a good cause' like reducing smoking? We do that to a mild extent - advertising that reduces smoking, high taxes - but still have a big problem.
I think the idea they would rubs a lot of people the wrong way. The repeal of prohibition here is pretty popular - even while tens of thousand a year are killed by drunk drivers.
There are other issues to discuss, but I think these are some that should be added to a discussion of 'Islam issues for the US'.
Your opening post did sound a bit defensive; I won't defend some of the terrible people here, but predicting you will get banned and such I think is way too much.
One final thing - Abismal, snicker. Teasing you, Hyabusa.