A question to everyone, concerning appearance.

[SuperGroove]

Everytime I go out with my buds, I always hear them go, "Oh my...she's so HOT, I gotta get her number man!". Meanwhile, I'm blushing as a more natural looking gal walks by and smiles at me. When I tell the guys what had just happened I get, "WOOF WOOF, man she's a dawg!". They have high standards yes, but here's my question. Do any of you ever get tired of seeing perfectly sculpted women? I get more turned on by a more natural looking woman. By natural I mean, she has some blemishes, she doesn't have a size 3 waste, and her chest doesn't look like two watermelons with a tight shirt over them.

Maybe it's just me. Anyways...Drew Barrymore. She's very pretty to me

Paul

 

[drboogie]

What's so unnatural about a 'perfectly sculpted women' with 'watermelons' on their chest?

I could never tire of looking at that!

 

[Prodigy^]

mmm I dunno.....I can't get tired of looking at them, but I certainly am not shooting to end up with one.....usually, they've been much more around and are more "loose", so a more relaxed girl doesn't hurt. I don't at all mind smaller boobs, although something like size A is a biiiit too small...I think B is good too, although for good reasons I'm not an expert on breast sizes

 

[chipbgt]

I dont know...I hate to regulate anyone to the status of just "eye candy" but in this society thats what some people strive for. Screw your buddies go after the drew barrymore type if you like...and how old are your friends? It might just be your a little more mature than they are and you realize what to really go for....

and yeah, I dig the natural.

 

[compuwiz1]

Once some of them get older (your buddies), they will figure out there is much more to a woman than outward appearance. Some of the absolute worst people I've met very good looking, but missing that something special inside. In the end all that matters is what makes you happy.

 

[thirdkind]

Forget your friends. As soon as they have their hearts stomped on a few times because they were too superficial to truly get to know these women, they'll come around.

The bottom line is always what you find attractive, not your friends.

I'm more into natural women myself, meaning women who avoid the time-consuming and costly ritual of excessive makeup application and hair styling. I'm really just looking for a T-shirt and jeans kinda girl.

And horny. Never forget horny. Get a girl who's horny.

Seriously horny.

 

[KaBudokan]

"usually, they've been much more around and are more "loose", so a more relaxed girl doesn't hurt."

Wow... So girls with big breasts are more "loose." THAT'S an intelligent statement. (I assume you were talking about girls who "flaunt" their bodies, but even so, your statement is pretty bad.)

Compuwiz, you got the right idea. The old cliche about "judging a book by it's cover" is a cliche because it's true. SuperGroove, go out with whoever you want, but keep in mind that good people (women AND men) come in all shapes sizes and styles.

Ok, done with my lecture.

 

[SuperGroove]

This is why I love anandtech, respectable men and women speaking their mind. I love it.

I was once was romantically engaged with the epitome of what a lot of men hate. A skinny, flat chested gal. The first time I ever talked to her, I was wearing pretty loose slacks. I had just performed at a concert, and she had finished up her little display too. Well...things kept getting interesting as the conversation, and when time came to stand up, well I was kinda caught My friends never would let me forget. Anyways, the gal and I continued to speak, but we agreed that if we decided to see each other on a more intimate basis, it'd cause an uproar for the both of us. I'm not exactly "hot", and well, the people she hung out with demanded perfection...much like my friends. Too bad I was too immature to realize that maintaining a popular image is stupid. Meh...

Everytime my friends go out hooters, it's always me whining about how bad the food is. They counter by saying, "The food isn't why you go to hooters". Umm...then what is? So it's always me saying, "Paying $10.00 for a subpar meal just to see beautiful women get harassed to the point where they're just plain rude? Don't get me wrong, I understand why they're rude, but I'll take my business else where, and flirt with one of the waitress' over at place that'll better suit me."

We end up not going to hooters anymore My friends realize they're pretty fugly, and that they have no chance in hell to get one of the Hooter girls' number.

Anyways...talk amongst yourself...I'll give you a topic...do you find Martina Hingis cute? talk amongst yourselves...*cough cough*

Paul

 

[Ulfwald]

<Once some of them get older (your buddies), they will figure out there is much more to a woman than outward appearance. Some of the absolute worst people I've met very good looking, but missing that something special inside. In the end all that matters is what makes you happy>


ditto Compuwiz

 

[Prodigy^]

KaBudokan I meant that very good-looking women in general are more loose which IS true

 

[Crysla]

compuwiz is pretty hot...and think he is kinda loose. Must be something in the water.

Princess

 

[KaBudokan]

Well Prodigy, I would STILL have to argue about that.

You can't generalize about that sort of thing. Plus, part of this discussion is about how different people are attracted to different things.

Anyway... regardless of what you consider a &quot;good looking woman,&quot; you can't generalize and say they are more or less &quot;loose.&quot;

 

[WombatWoman]

Women who date a lot of guys are called &quot;fast.&quot; They are also called &quot;loose.&quot; Here's a hint for you fellas: such women should be easily detected by a telltale rattling sound as they go by.

 

[Double Trouble]

You can't make generalizations about what 'good looking women' are like, simply because how somone looks has no correlation with their personality, nor does it have any correlation with brain chemistry.

At most, you could make some sort of assumption that a good looking woman has somehow had more opportunity to be with men she was attracted to, and therefore is more 'loose', but even that would be a stretch.

Interesting show to watch on TLC if you want to learn more about the human sexes, it's called -- imagine this -- &quot;The Human Sexes&quot;. It's basically a scientific look at the human sexes. It's usually pretty intersting and explains a lot of things Overall, just remember that Compuwiz is right - you can't judge a book by it's cover, and you'll be surprised at what books make the best reading Sometimes the books with the best covers make the best reading, but sometimes other books do. Now, head for the nearest library and 'check out' some 'books'

 

[Ornery]

Sally Fields is more my speed. I like gals that are demure. A small waist is a big plus and being well endowed doesn't hurt. Curves rule, but a nice smile can tip the scale.

And like thirdkind said, &quot;...Never forget horny...&quot;

 

[snut]

hm..I usually fall for the pretty girls at out school..but in the end i end up going out with a girl that Ive never really thought of ever asking out...strange...

 

[0beron]

What really floats my boat is a girl that doesn't feel she needs make up to look pretty. They tend not to go to the bathroom as often so I don't have to stand in the 'guy-zone' in front of the girls bathroom for half-an-hour. :|

 

[Prodigy^]

Ok instead of &quot;generally&quot; I should have put it this way:

many good-looking women are more &quot;loose&quot; than not so good-looking ones. you can't argue with that....they just get more offers

 

[Ulfwald]

Usualll, the best looking women have the worst attitudes. It's what I call the &quot;I'M PRETTY AND I KNOW IT&quot; syndrome. Usually the best girls I have found are the ones who are comfortable with themselves, and are not the perfect 10, but somewhere between a 5 and an 8. they have a pretty smile, good personality, are realistic about the world and about me, and also appreciate a lot of the things I do.

 

[Charles]

I personally like natural, simple and casual woman.

But sometimes, I don't mind looking at 'perfectly sculpted women' with 'watermelons' on their chest.

 

[Viper GTS]

I get the exact same thing from some friends of mine. Not all of them, mind you, but some of them. My tastes are fairly simple: I like women. As long as they're feminine without being girly, soft &amp; have curves without being obese, &amp; sweet...I'm going to find them attractive. I don't demand perfection; I'm far from it myself. Yet I happen to know that at least one person finds me attractive, &amp; that's all that matters to me. 'Cause that one person's my best friend. And no matter what anyone may say about her, she's beautiful to me.

Viper GTS