Ok guys, I have been running many sessions without any problems now, so I can finally draw the conclusion that the problem is solved! Actually I did have a "dream scenario", with so many similar machines to test on. I should have seen the connection between TS and gaming sooner, but since that was never a problem on my old setup...
Luckily, I don't have to get rid of TS completely, just change the driver to use "wave" instead of "directsound".
What I've learned from this mess:
* The audio drivers for the built in soundcard is buggy
* The Seasonic 400w, Antec Truepower 380 PSU is fine for this mobo (atleast in a non SLI setup)
* No need to change from the 1004 bios yet
* Disabling PEG and setting PCI Express bus to 101MHz when overclocking is probably a good idea. (although they didn't cause any apparent problems in this case)
* No problems with the nVidia LAN, atleast for me (with the latest drivers)
I really appreciate all the help/tips I've got in these forums and especially this thread. It really shows the power of the community!
I want to take the opportunity to thank everyone, especially these members who put quite some time in trying to help me solve the problem:
steamnputer, BikeDude, FastEddie, sep, housecat, GuitarDaddy, Big, Bunny, Xed, rockstar
-I really appreciate your efforts!
The system seems very stable and fast now, and overclocking nicely as well. (3200+ @ 2.53Ghz).
Also I want to appologize for the quite provocative topic, but I felt rather frustrated at the time.
Seeyou all in the forums...