- Jan 15, 2004
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ok, disclaimer: im in high school. this is a stupid high school problem. ill probably have forgotten all about it by this time next year. none of this will have any kind of a long-term effect on me. i understand this perfectly. you dont need to point it out to me.
ok. so theres this girl i really, really like (im going to refrain from using the word "love" because im sure a lot of you guys who have actually been in love will notice that i dont know what im talking about with the word). so. im REALLY into her. head over heels. anyways, i was pretty sure she knew, and that she might be a little into me.
so anyways, one of my better friends is, as of this morning, going out with her. he had no idea i was into this girl, and is still in the dark about it. id like for him to stay that way.
ok. so- im pretty broken up about this. when i talk to her (i have a few classes with her, and talk to her a lot anyways), should i try to ignore the fact that she has a boyfriend, and try to avoid the subject? should i openly flirt with her? should i pretend like nothings happened? i dont want to lose her. having her as a friend is better than nothing.
also- kicking the guys ass is out of the question. like i said, hes a good friend of mine, and i dont want to lose him, either. although to be honest, if it came down to a choice between the two, id go with the girl.
thanks for suffering through all of that. yes, i am pathetic. so- advice, please.:brokenheart:
ok. so theres this girl i really, really like (im going to refrain from using the word "love" because im sure a lot of you guys who have actually been in love will notice that i dont know what im talking about with the word). so. im REALLY into her. head over heels. anyways, i was pretty sure she knew, and that she might be a little into me.
so anyways, one of my better friends is, as of this morning, going out with her. he had no idea i was into this girl, and is still in the dark about it. id like for him to stay that way.
ok. so- im pretty broken up about this. when i talk to her (i have a few classes with her, and talk to her a lot anyways), should i try to ignore the fact that she has a boyfriend, and try to avoid the subject? should i openly flirt with her? should i pretend like nothings happened? i dont want to lose her. having her as a friend is better than nothing.
also- kicking the guys ass is out of the question. like i said, hes a good friend of mine, and i dont want to lose him, either. although to be honest, if it came down to a choice between the two, id go with the girl.
thanks for suffering through all of that. yes, i am pathetic. so- advice, please.:brokenheart: