Dear
Valsalva, I just call it as I see it. Let's review:
If you are not a Christian, please be respectful and courteous and not flame in this thread. If you are not a Christian and would like to have a serious discussion (not a flame war) on the basics of Christianity, then please PM me.
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If you are agnostic this is the place for you. If you are a Christian and would like to have a serious discussion that's okay, but remember you have to be reasonable.
So far so good, both initiators were very polite and considerate.
I decided to start this thread because I realize that there are quite a few born again Christians on this forum. I thought it would be a good idea if we were to start up an accountability/prayer partner program. I would pair up members on the forum, and each member would talk with their partner on a regular basis about their walk with Christ. This way we can remain accountable, as it is easy to stray from our path. We will be able to pray for each other.
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I decided to start this thread because I realize that there are quite a few born again Christians on this forum and many of them like to discuss their religion with non-believers. I thought it would be a good idea if we were to start up an accountability based on nothing divine or God inspired, but on man alone. .
I'd even call this reasonable, were it not for the slightly sarcastic and paranoid overtone. And then
QT's politeness ends and the nastiness begins.
Some topics of accountability may include:
Reading our Bibles
Sexual Purity (this one is a biggie)
Keeping the Commandments/Sinning in general
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Some topics of accountability may include:
Discussing the validity of the Bible
Sexual ImPurity (this one is a biggie)
General Logical Thinking
Do I really need to point out why I found this part cynical and anti-Christian?
Could he be saying that Christian morals are illogical? But doesn't that mean he is refusing to accept Christian morals as a valid alternative? That's not very nice from a supposedly tolerant Agnostic or whatever he claims to be/not be...
It will be a great way for us Christians to share experiences, discuss belief systems, and help one another.
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It will be a great way for us Agnostics to share experiences, discuss nonbelief systems, and help one another.
Whatever...
Maybe I do not have a firm grasp on the English language or I misunderstood the "subtle" nuances of QT's text, but it's hard to miss the sarcasm and animosity towards all things Christian.
I think it's fantastic that you're starting up these groups, QT. It think it's about time the agnostics and athesists of AT have a voice, before Anandtech turns into JesusTech. It's simply unfair that certain religious groups can start their own threads and exclude other groups just because they don't believe in Jesus and the other 2/3 of the Trinity. It's amazing how pervasive the Christians are in our lives. Through their exclusive networks and hand-holding unity, they've joined forces to alter national policy and affect the lives of everyone, even the non-Christians.
What are you talking about? You must be either extremely paranoid or, like I said, extremely biased and full of hatred towards Christians. You make it sound like Christians are an overwhelming majority on AT (that's a funny one) and agnostics/atheists are oppressed and discouraged from voicing their opinions. We all know it's the other way around. As soon as a Christian tries to post something remotely connected to his/her faith, the paranoid anti-Christian kiddies jump in and unleash a barrage of hatred and kill any hope for intelligent discussion by spewing ignorant and intolerant remarks.
Why is it unfair that a group of Christians want to start an accountability group and politely ask people to stay outside if they are not interested? Do you even know what holding each other accountable means for Christians? It means that two individuals share about their daily struggles, their spiritual walk, and encourage, support each other. Why do you, as a person who has no respect for their faith, want any part of that? What exactly do you have to contribute to such a fellowship other than judgment and criticism? Oh, and why exactly were private topics created? The author of the original post clearly stated that the discussion would be continued in a private topic once enough members joined. Noone was trying to convert anyone. In fact, the author tried to keep it low-profile.
This pervasiveness you mention... For every faith-related post there are hundreds of posts about porn, cheating on significant others, and other forms of adultery. While I do wish there was less of the latter, I do want to ban it, and in fact would fight to maintain freedom of speech on this public forum. If anything, the sick, miserable culture of our times is pervasive enough to drown out any voices that try to be different. And yet, you seem to be dissatisfied until everyone who utters the name of God or Jesus is squashed.
I think it is mighty presumptuous of you to call this a hate group...in fact, compared to the CHRISTIAN accountability thread, we're actually opening it up to everyone and encouraging discussion from any faith. Do you hear anyone whining about the Christian people coming in and spoiling things? Absolutely not! Cuz we're not like that!! OTOH, I notice that you've come in and already judged everyone...which somehow is not surprising.
Well, see, I did make a judgment about the motive of the originator and some of the enthusiastic participants, but not your person. Call it what you want, but the first two posts, namely
QT's and yours, sum up your goal quite nicely. Allow me to paraphrase: "Whoa, there are Christians here, and they want to talk to EACH OTHER about faith and stuff, let us summon all the agnostics/atheists, yell that Christians have NO RIGHT to gather, then proceed to yell louder and spew filth so they have no chance of being heard." Major case of paranoia, sir.
However ,the most ironic thing you wrote was "grow up and learn to accept people with different faiths/opinions"...when in reality, it's the Christian faith that teaches its followers NOT to accept people of different faith because they are infidels and are all going to hell..in fact, Christianity teaches its believers to CONVERT people of other faiths, which is the epitome if disrespect for dissimilar beliefs, if you ask me.
I cannot deny, Jesus did say that He was the only way to salvation and eternal life. However, this is what Christians BELIEVE in, they accept this as TRUTH. It is the foundation of their faith. They cannot change that. You are also quite a bit off on one point. While Christ said that He was The Way, He also said He welcomed anyone with open arms, with no strings attached. Yes, Christianity is quite arrogant in some respects, but it is also a faith of unconditional acceptance. The thing is, you cannot say to a believer of any religion/God, "Well, I think your faith stinks, I want you to change it." For one, there is that great American idea called "freedom of religion".
Then there is the fact that Christians have first-hand encounters with their God which is undeniable proof for them of God's existence. For them God's existence is Truth, it is Reality. The God they know personally tells them there is no other God. How could they, then, go on to accept that other religions could be true?
The other important point I need to make is that you ASSUME that agnostics are trying to "change" people (well, that's what you wrote)...no, sorry, we're not. The whole notion of "changing" people is a CHRISTIAN one, and undoubtedly represents your mentality when it comes to religion -- this is why you wrote about this concept, when in fact nobody here has suggested anything abotu changing anyone.
Well, my assumption seems to be correct. YOU are trying to change me. When you try to stop me or my fellow Christians from speaking freely about our faith, you are trying to change us. Not only that, you are also being disrespectful yourself. It is fine to listen then respectfully disagree, but to incite hatred, rally opposition and drown out the voices of a minority, that is disrespectful, tyrannical and, borrowing your words, UNFAIR. We all try to shape and mold people to our likeness, whether it is intentional or subconscious. Some Christians take it too far, I know, and I feel deeply sorry about that. I try not be too much in other people's faces about my faith. What I am doing right now is standing up for my right to voice my opinions, which many of you are trying to take away, whether you admit it or not.
So, I could be wrong in presuming that there is a great deal of animosity towards Christians on this board, and that this thread was created as a gathering spot for the spiteful, but I do fear that I am right...