CRXican
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Originally posted by: Skoorb
Addiction is a qualitative difference between deciding to do something and not, where addiction removes any choice from the matter. I know that technically people like to refer to addiction as an uncontrollable compulsion, like urinating if you've just drank three gallons of water...you can't help it;urinating at that point is not a choice. You WILL lose control of your body. It's a total inevitability. People like to refer to something as addictive when really all it is is hard. So-called addictions to smoking have been terminated cold-turkey by people who'd finally had enough. Any of the mainstream "addictions" have been beaten by thousands/millions of people who one day said "Fvck this, I'm done." and that "addiction" was cut off at the knees. It's hardly an addiction in the true sense if somebody can just stop simply because their determination finally has enough weight.
There are few true addictions. I'd say breathing is an addiction, although there are some people probably who could voluntarily pass out without breathing. Going to the bathroom is a true addiction. Gagging could be a true addiction if something is stuck in your throat. Quiting booze, eating, smokes, heroin--these are hard, but they aren't addictions in my book. But then, I read from a different book than the one most people who have no real control over themselves read from.
"I can't stop" is analagous to "I don't want to stop enough"
I'm in late and I'll admit I didn't read the other arguments/flames/etc. Though i'd rather avoid it, I agree with Skoorb.
In my opinion it comes down to self control. The best choice is not to make alcohol a problem in the first place. I turned 21 a few months ago and it was exciting to think about my new ability to purchase as much alcohol as I could afford whenever I felt like it. If I make the choice, I can go out every night and get wasted. This would obviously effect my performance at work and personal relationships if it happened on a daily basis. Since I realize this, I avoid the activity all together.
If you don't want to get addicted don't start. Yet another example, I was at a BBQ with my friends this weekend. I was one of maybe two people out of at least 10 individuals that was not smoking cigarettes. I know it's a bad habit so I don't start, no matter how many friends of mine or people I meet might do it.
CHOICE