haha, of course and why this admission of yours is the perfect expression of what everyone is saying:
It isn't about you! You see no progress because you generally see nothing outside of yourself and your life experience. You never grew up as a minority in this country. It is literally impossible for you to appreciate that life experience. Same with me, same with the majority that still remains in this country. But a lot of us can empathize with that--this is the primary malfunction in your brain. You absolutely lack this.
You don't see any of this as progress because it doesn't effect you. Plain and fucking simple. You can only see positives if you can find a way to personally benefit. Society, and certainly democratic societies, absolutely do not work that way (some benefit, some do not. The hope is that most will benefit, and the actual progress is only ever towards increasing that pool of "most"). The old adage: When you've lived a life of privilege, equality feels like oppression (or, perhaps, ambivalence? ...reason to complain?).
Notice how you didn't say this feels like regression, and how I am not saying that is what you said, and I am acknowledging this: you don't see yourself moving forward, because you can't/because that isn't what this is about. You define progress as me, not us.
For whatever reason, you choose this moment to complain about "how all those people are behaving" hand wave it away as "amounting to nothing!" but you must complain anyway. You decide nothing will happen, but will never fail to remind people that "I want things to get better, just not this way." It is because you see no personal benefit. None is expected for you. None is expected for me and many others, and that is the fucking point!
It is your libertarianism: the ultimate expression of extreme economic selfishness. Those who succeed deserve it because of their personal struggles...assumes everyone was born and proceeds with the exact same potential from day one. This is profoundly, inescapable false. But you refuse to accept this plain truth about the human condition. You simply will do everything in your power to argue around that plain truth and ignore it. You will obfuscate and shift goalposts, because your central social thesis is founded on a fundamental lie about humanity. It simply doesn't work, and you can never bring yourself to admit it.
Democratic societies shift and move in such ways, and they always will. You and yours have enjoyed unrestrained access to the ultimate privileges that our model as offered for more than 250 years now, more or less. You can't bring yourself to understand how completely absent that is for large swaths of our population. You don't want to believe it. Forward progress is happening. it's always happening. You just remain blind to it in the cases when it has no effect on your station--again, which is fucking fine. It seems you get that this will change nothing for you. ....GREAT! At least it means that you aren't running out trying to protest blackie and keep them down, "lock and load" preparing for the fake race war. That's an entirely different crew, and an entirely different sort of illness that doesn't seem to infect you. So, that's pretty good, really.
The pool of "most" might be increasing. You were already part of that, so obviously you see "no forward progress." Or perhaps, you think that if anything, you should be able to claw your way into that upper tier of the "absolute most" that we have allowed to grift us for generations now? Maybe that's the thing...if there is any progress to be had, for anyone, it should at least allow me to climb even further into the "bunker-building crowd of the elite?" I wonder if that is it....
....I just don't understand this need to complain about how when democracy finds its way at times, when the people get angry enough and effect legitimate change that is needed, it still must be either stopped or slowed or ignored...because "I don't benefit." Why is this?