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Yongsta

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Originally posted by: aigomorla
i dont want to sound raciest, and you'll see this mostly in the upper class asian families.

Expecially koreans.

But usually a marriage outside of race means being disowned or embarrassed.

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Koreans are still stuck in traditions.
Something im not happy about, yet have to live by.

I'm Korean (not upper class but I guess upper middle class) and my parents were the opposite. They didn't hammer me on education neither and said we will support you no matter what you choose to do in life.
 

aigomorla

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Originally posted by: Marlin1975
Originally posted by: aigomorla
i dont want to sound raciest, and you'll see this mostly in the upper class asian families.

Expecially koreans.

But usually a marriage outside of race means being disowned or embarrassed.

:\


Koreans are still stuck in traditions.
Something im not happy about, yet have to live by.

My father in law woudl grab the phone out of his daughters hands if he heard them talking in english when they first came to the US.

My wife and her dad argue all the time. That and being she was in her late 20's when we got together I guess her family was just happy she found soemoen that could handle her.

My Wife

im a 1.5 generation.

Meaning i was born in korea, but raised here. I personally dont have any racial actions against any race. I grew up in a very diversified enviorment.

Yet the moment my parents see me hanging out with a non korean girl, there first comment is, "play right?"
 

imported_Imp

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Originally posted by: Geocentricity
Not to be a douchebag, but I've consistently seen white guys with asian girls that aren't good looking (no, its not just me - my friends and I have seen this at least 95% of the time).

So I say MORE POWER TO YOU WHITE GUYS who can't tell the difference

lol

Glad I'm not the only one who's noticed this. I'd say the 'best' looking ones I'ev seen are usually with the asian gangsta types.
 

rh71

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Originally posted by: Marlin1975
Originally posted by: rh71
Originally posted by: Marlin1975

Like I posted before, but you seemed to edit out, where are your pics? I looked in your link but I guess your wife is so ugly that you had to fill it up with pictures of other women. :laugh:

I have tons of pics of us, on facebook where our actual friends can see them. And you are too creative with your responses, let me tell you. You think it actually proves my point if I post a pic of a hot me and my hot wife - we're both asian - that will prove nothing. You're not even trying to argue anything except be ridiculously defensive by saying "what about you huh?" Creative. Never seen that before.

Your next response: "I thought so, you guys are ugly."

:laugh:

Thanks you proved my point, but yea keep pointing at others and saying how they are the ugly ones.

Well you missed the point because you're too busy being defensive. If there are so many social-ladder climbing asian chicks, the least the guys can do is find the good looking ones. I'm not the only one to say it in this thread.

And I can do this too --> :laugh:

EDIT>> Actually my wife is in 1 of the bbzzdd pics. Ooops. It gets to stay I guess.
 

krunchykrome

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Originally posted by: aigomorla
i dont want to sound raciest, and you'll see this mostly in the upper class asian families.

Expecially koreans.

But usually a marriage outside of race means being disowned or embarrassed.

:\


Koreans are still stuck in traditions.
Something im not happy about, yet have to live by.

I partially agree with this statement. Koreans tend to be very conservative; my fiancee's parents wouldn't even agree to meet me until we had been dating for a little less than a year. I think they were unhappy that I wasn't korean.
 

aigomorla

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Originally posted by: Imp
Originally posted by: Geocentricity
Not to be a douchebag, but I've consistently seen white guys with asian girls that aren't good looking (no, its not just me - my friends and I have seen this at least 95% of the time).

So I say MORE POWER TO YOU WHITE GUYS who can't tell the difference

lol

Glad I'm not the only one who's noticed this. I'd say the 'best' looking ones I'ev seen are usually with the asian gangsta types.

Kim Hee sun:
http://www.wallpaperbase.com/w...esun/kim_hee_sun_1.jpg

not gangster.

Lee Seung Yun:
http://www.koreanwiz.org/Lee_Seung_Yeon.jpg


I think the prettier ones have more class then gangster.

Oh i was fortunate to meet both of them in person, and other korean stars. :T

and how can we forget this hottie:
http://www.dtman.com/covert/images/kellyhu12.jpg

Kelly is chinese, not korean.

And we cant forget sung hi lee. She's korean, and yes ive met her.
 

Gibson486

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Originally posted by: krunchykrome
Originally posted by: aigomorla
i dont want to sound raciest, and you'll see this mostly in the upper class asian families.

Expecially koreans.

But usually a marriage outside of race means being disowned or embarrassed.

:\


Koreans are still stuck in traditions.
Something im not happy about, yet have to live by.

I partially agree with this statement. Koreans tend to be very conservative; my fiancee's parents wouldn't even agree to meet me until we had been dating for a little less than a year. I think they were unhappy that I wasn't korean.

I am asian....my gf is Colombian(looks kind of white though). imagine the grief we went through on both sides of the family when news broke out we were dating.
 

MaxDepth

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I dated and fell in love with a girl from Hong Kong. I even learned to speak Cantonese and read (guess) the written language.

She dumped me because she lived with her brother at the time and he didn't like white guys. Plus she felt I was too handsome for her. She thought I would look for someone better looking than her. She must have been blind.

But I heard from one of her co-workers that she did marry a white guy a couple of years after we dated. She said he looked like a short version of the Michellin Man.
 

krunchykrome

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Originally posted by: Gibson486
Originally posted by: krunchykrome
Originally posted by: aigomorla
i dont want to sound raciest, and you'll see this mostly in the upper class asian families.

Expecially koreans.

But usually a marriage outside of race means being disowned or embarrassed.

:\


Koreans are still stuck in traditions.
Something im not happy about, yet have to live by.

I partially agree with this statement. Koreans tend to be very conservative; my fiancee's parents wouldn't even agree to meet me until we had been dating for a little less than a year. I think they were unhappy that I wasn't korean.

I am asian....my gf is Colombian(looks kind of white though). imagine the grief we went through on both sides of the family when news broke out we were dating.

I'm half persian/half spanish

her parents didnt know what I was; they must have been terrified
 

aigomorla

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Originally posted by: MaxDepth

But I heard from one of her co-workers that she did marry a white guy a couple of years after we dated. She said he looked like a short version of the Michellin Man.

ahahhahahahhahhaha

i dont think if this is true.

but i heard it from one of my hong kongese friends. They actually promote cross marriages over there, because they think white people are just "rich" compared to the others. :


As i said it heard it from a friend.


When i go out with my friends, you'll hear me cuzzing koreans out, and you'll hear my friend cussing chinese people out.

Its funny because our friends asks us, if your not happy as what you are, then what do you want to become. My answer to them is .net
 

rh71

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Originally posted by: aigomorla
but i heard it from one of my hong kongese friends. They actually promote cross marriages over there, because they think white people are just "rich" compared to the others.

It's not all that hard to believe. Even if you watch a few minutes of travel / food shows, you can see some of their conditions. Why wouldn't they want the best for their kids / themselves... being from America, you're automatically better off for a lot of them.
 

Zee

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white guys generally go out with the butterfaces of the asian race.

asian guys much less often go out with white girls, but those that do range much more evenly from kind of ugly to almost drop dead hot.

 

Yongsta

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Originally posted by: rh71
Originally posted by: aigomorla
but i heard it from one of my hong kongese friends. They actually promote cross marriages over there, because they think white people are just "rich" compared to the others.

It's not all that hard to believe. Even if you watch a few minutes of travel / food shows, you can see some of their conditions. Why wouldn't they want the best for their kids / themselves... being from America, you're automatically better off for a lot of them.

Isn't Hong Kong pretty rich though? I think the GDP there is $30,000. On the list of Highest IQ Nations, Hong Kong was #1 and South Korea was #2... but it's a weird list because Hong Kong isn't a nation.
 

evident

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we have several interracial relationships in our family, but it's a good mix of both. i dont think the older people in our family cared that much. my brother is dating a vietnamese girl and im dating a white girl. i have 3 male cousins w/ white wives and a female cousin w/ a white husband i would consider us middle class but alot of my cousins are doctors engineers and lawyers
 

imported_Imp

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Originally posted by: aigomorla
Originally posted by: Imp
Originally posted by: Geocentricity
Not to be a douchebag, but I've consistently seen white guys with asian girls that aren't good looking (no, its not just me - my friends and I have seen this at least 95% of the time).

So I say MORE POWER TO YOU WHITE GUYS who can't tell the difference

lol

Glad I'm not the only one who's noticed this. I'd say the 'best' looking ones I'ev seen are usually with the asian gangsta types.

Kim Hee sun:
http://www.wallpaperbase.com/w...esun/kim_hee_sun_1.jpg

not gangster.

Lee Seung Yun:
http://www.koreanwiz.org/Lee_Seung_Yeon.jpg


I think the prettier ones have more class then gangster.

Oh i was fortunate to meet both of them in person, and other korean stars. :T

and how can we forget this hottie:
http://www.dtman.com/covert/images/kellyhu12.jpg

Kelly is chinese, not korean.

And we cant forget sung hi lee. She's korean, and yes ive met her.

I actually meant "best" in terms of the trashy, trampy, mini-skirt, revealing-yet-not-well-endowed types. Or I guess you could say, the types that get my attention. If I bothered to look and remember, most regular couples probably aren't gangsta.
 

RallyMaster

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Originally posted by: Geocentricity
Not to be a douchebag, but I've consistently seen white guys with asian girls that aren't good looking (no, its not just me - my friends and I have seen this at least 95% of the time).

So I say MORE POWER TO YOU WHITE GUYS who can't tell the difference

Sadly, there is truth to this statement.
 

Alyx

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Originally posted by: Aberforth
I don't think good looks should ever matter, when you reach 50- beauty doesn't matter anymore, all you need is a good person who cares.

Agreed.
 

JulesMaximus

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I dated a Korean girl for about a month or so. I never met her parents and she never met mine.
 

Juno

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Originally posted by: aigomorla
i dont want to sound raciest, and you'll see this mostly in the upper class asian families.

Expecially koreans.

But usually a marriage outside of race means being disowned or embarrassed.

:\


Koreans are still stuck in traditions.
Something im not happy about, yet have to live by.

korean parents are hardcore.

i'm korean and i have NEVER dated any asian girls. every time i dated a white girl, parents shook heads in disbelief.

we argued for days until they finally accepted my wish. damn.
 

Vette73

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Originally posted by: RallyMaster
Originally posted by: Geocentricity
Not to be a douchebag, but I've consistently seen white guys with asian girls that aren't good looking (no, its not just me - my friends and I have seen this at least 95% of the time).

So I say MORE POWER TO YOU WHITE GUYS who can't tell the difference

Sadly, there is truth to this statement.

And most of what I see is the hot Asian women go for the white guys while the left overs are forced to marry the asian geek guy. :laugh:
 

Vette73

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Originally posted by: Juno
Originally posted by: aigomorla
i dont want to sound raciest, and you'll see this mostly in the upper class asian families.

Expecially koreans.

But usually a marriage outside of race means being disowned or embarrassed.

:\


Koreans are still stuck in traditions.
Something im not happy about, yet have to live by.

korean parents are hardcore.

i'm korean and i have NEVER dated any asian girls. every time i dated a white girl, parents shook heads in disbelief.

we argued for days until they finally accepted my wish. damn.


They will get over it when you bring grandkids home. My parents were the "standard type republicans" so my wife was a little hard/weird for them to take. But now they just keep asking for grandkids.

 

SlowSpyder

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My wife is 50% Filipino. My family really never mentioned anything about it, her family never really mentioned anything about me being white. Really a non issue.
 

Taejin

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Originally posted by: rh71
Originally posted by: Marlin1975
Originally posted by: rh71
Originally posted by: Marlin1975

Like I posted before, but you seemed to edit out, where are your pics? I looked in your link but I guess your wife is so ugly that you had to fill it up with pictures of other women. :laugh:

I have tons of pics of us, on facebook where our actual friends can see them. And you are too creative with your responses, let me tell you. You think it actually proves my point if I post a pic of a hot me and my hot wife - we're both asian - that will prove nothing. You're not even trying to argue anything except be ridiculously defensive by saying "what about you huh?" Creative. Never seen that before.

Your next response: "I thought so, you guys are ugly."

:laugh:

Thanks you proved my point, but yea keep pointing at others and saying how they are the ugly ones.

Well you missed the point because you're too busy being defensive. If there are so many social-ladder climbing asian chicks, the least the guys can do is find the good looking ones. I'm not the only one to say it in this thread.

And I can do this too --> :laugh:

EDIT>> Actually my wife is in 1 of the bbzzdd pics. Ooops. It gets to stay I guess.

yeah definitely noticed that too. I feel like for some reason non-asian guys view asian girls differently, and have slightly differing standards in terms of beauty. Not necessarily different, but overlapping, I guess.
 

Taejin

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Originally posted by: krunchykrome
Originally posted by: aigomorla
i dont want to sound raciest, and you'll see this mostly in the upper class asian families.

Expecially koreans.

But usually a marriage outside of race means being disowned or embarrassed.

:\


Koreans are still stuck in traditions.
Something im not happy about, yet have to live by.

I partially agree with this statement. Koreans tend to be very conservative; my fiancee's parents wouldn't even agree to meet me until we had been dating for a little less than a year. I think they were unhappy that I wasn't korean.

If her parents are old (read:50-70) then they were definitely unhappy. Magnanimous for them to accept you, but they will probably have a small twinge of regret for the rest of their lives that their daughter's husband wasn't korean. Of course, that small twinge of regret should be small in the face of their daughter's happiness, if they are not so close-minded.
 

MaxDepth

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Interesting conversation. My mom's side of the family thought dating asian women was the same thing as joing the navy, going overseas and getting a filipino girl pregnant. My dad's side was more interested in the connections one made with the other family. If they came from the same or better economic rung as they are, then go ahead and marry them. However, this did not apply to black girls unfortunately.

Mom's family, mostly Texans. Dad's family, mostly tidewater Virginians.

I think this also applied to my sister too. Her first marriage was not well liked on my dad's side because he was a white enlisted Navy man. (Enlisted and not officer = :shocked: ) Dad ended up using some of his old military connections to get his (former) son-in-law into the enlisted OCS (officer candidate school).

Funny...as I am just typing this, I realized something. After my sister got divorced her ex joined a Pacific task group and got a Japanese girl pregnant on the first week of shore leave.
 
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