Am I a bad person? (Girl related thread, but not YAGT) Updated, pics gone

[Alienwho]

Ok so my roomates and I have been hanging out with a certain group of girls for the past few months. One of my roomates has been starting to kind of hook it up with one of the girls who I really like. I'm always talking to the girl on MSN but we don't talk about the date's they've been on or anything else. We stimulate each other intellectually and have some of the best conversations i've ever had with anyone. I would have made a move by now but that's been my roomates game plan so i've given him plenty of room. I don't even know if they have kissed or anything yet, though my roomates claims they have. But by talking to her it doesn't seem that way.

I got home last night for out at about 1am and went into the family room and my roomate was in there watching a movie with her, semi-cuddling. I walk in and she gets all tense and kind of de-cuddles herself from my roomate, and starts to make chit chat with me while I get a glass of orange juice. She then asks me to stay and watch the movie with them but i'm like naw and i just leave.

Well today I hop on MSN and she starts to talk to me but is suddenly a whole lot flirtier than usual. She tells me she wants to take me out on a date tonight...and all she wants to do is make out with someone, and tells me to call her at 6 o'clock.

Well it's 5:53, and I want to go out with her. And my roomate is supposed to be going home but he's still here and hasn't left yet. What do I do? What's going on?

pics gone, i felt like i was stepping out of my boundaries.

 

[LordMaul]

Call. But wait 'till 6:01...

 

[tm37]

PICK UP THE PHONE AND CALL HER MAN!

 

[olds]

You have to ask?
EDIT
Oh gawd. I read the two posts above mine. Nevermind, I forgot where I was.

 

[Moonbeam]

The girl always chooses. Relax, if it's you, it's you. You may think you have control or can have control, but the girl always chooses. OK.

 

[pillage2001]

You gay??

 

[Rufio]

call her. be a man

 

[Alienwho]

What about my roomate? I seriously feel like a dick.

I can understand why she'd choose me though. I hate to say it but he's not the sharpest tool on the shed, and there is no way in hell he could ever interest her intellectually 1/4 as well as me. He's cool and all, but she is way too smart for him.

It's 5:58

 

[pillage2001]

Originally posted by: Alienwho
What about my roomate? I seriously feel like a dick.

I can understand why she'd choose me though. I hate to say it but he's not the sharpest tool on the shed, and there is no way in hell he could ever interest her intellectually 1/4 as well as me. He's cool and all, but she is way too smart for him.

It's 5:58

fvcking calllll her already!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'll do the calling since she just want to make out with someone and not just you.

 

[Alienwho]

for clarification this has nothing to do if I have the balls or not to do it: It's the classic 'bro's before hoe's'.

 

[Alienwho]

Originally posted by: pillage2001

Originally posted by: Alienwho
What about my roomate? I seriously feel like a dick.

I can understand why she'd choose me though. I hate to say it but he's not the sharpest tool on the shed, and there is no way in hell he could ever interest her intellectually 1/4 as well as me. He's cool and all, but she is way too smart for him.

It's 5:58

fvcking calllll her already!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'll do the calling since she just want to make out with someone and not just you.

Well if all she wanted to do was make out with somebody, she could do it with my roomate.

 

[pillage2001]

Originally posted by: Alienwho
for clarification this has nothing to do if I have the balls or not to do it: It's the classic 'bro's before hoe's'.

This is the classic, may the best man win! She hinted that she wants to be with you and not him. Unless she's being a biatch and wanting both of you guy's attention, I would say go for it.

 

[Zenmervolt]

Originally posted by: Alienwho
Ok so my roomates and I have been hanging out with a certain group of girls for the past few months. One of my roomates has been starting to kind of hook it up with one of the girls who I really like. I'm always talking to the girl on MSN but we don't talk about the date's they've been on or anything else. We stimulate each other intellectually and have some of the best conversations i've ever had with anyone. I would have made a move by now but that's been my roomates game plan so i've given him plenty of room. I don't even know if they have kissed or anything yet, though my roomates claims they have. But by talking to her it doesn't seem that way.

I got home last night for out at about 1am and went into the family room and my roomate was in there watching a movie with her, semi-cuddling. I walk in and she gets all tense and kind of de-cuddles herself from my roomate, and starts to make chit chat with me while I get a glass of orange juice. She then asks me to stay and watch the movie with them but i'm like naw and i just leave.

Well today I hop on MSN and she starts to talk to me but is suddenly a whole lot flirtier than usual. She tells me she wants to take me out on a date tonight...and all she wants to do is make out with someone, and tells me to call her at 6 o'clock.

Well it's 5:53, and I want to go out with her. And my roomate is supposed to be going home but he's still here and hasn't left yet. What do I do? What's going on?

That's the important part, right there. Did she ask you as though she really wanted you to stay, or did she just ask you as a matter of form?

ZV

 

[pillage2001]

Originally posted by: Alienwho

Originally posted by: pillage2001

Originally posted by: Alienwho
What about my roomate? I seriously feel like a dick.

I can understand why she'd choose me though. I hate to say it but he's not the sharpest tool on the shed, and there is no way in hell he could ever interest her intellectually 1/4 as well as me. He's cool and all, but she is way too smart for him.

It's 5:58

fvcking calllll her already!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'll do the calling since she just want to make out with someone and not just you.

Well if all she wanted to do was make out with somebody, she could do it with my roomate.

That's the point. She wants you and you're contemplating on calling her?!?!

 

[white]

well, would you be ok if he weren't your friend because of this? if you're ok with it, then go ahead.

 

[Deleted member 4644]

For gods sake, call her!

 

[BMdoobieW]

Call her

 

[Zenmervolt]

Originally posted by: Moonbeam
The girl always chooses. Relax, if it's you, it's you. You may think you have control or can have control, but the girl always chooses. OK.

I'm agreeing with Moonbeam...something is out of kilter in the universe.

ZV

 

[Spac3d]

This is YAGT.

 

[Koing]

Well how badly do you value your friendship with your mate?

Will he take it badly?

If not then go for it man. No question if he's cool with it.

But why was she *semi cuddling* that dude when watching the movie? Thats something to think about. And why weren't you there!

Well ring her and go for it man. Go have some fun.

Remember no glove no love......

 

[Alienwho]

Yeah i'll call her, don't think there was ever a doubt I would. I just wanted my roomate to leave before. But I don't want to sneak it around all my other roomates (1 being his twin brother). I'll call her in 10 minutes.

 

[BennyD]

yeah, make her sweat for like 10 mins

hell, they do it to us!

 

[her209]

no hos for bros

 

[FuZoR]

Screw your firend... CALL HER!

 

[Kevin]

Originally posted by: Alienwho
for clarification this has nothing to do if I have the balls or not to do it: It's the classic 'bro's before hoe's'.

Ita "hoes before bros". A true bro will understand you are trying to get laid and will help by any means possible...