- Mar 15, 2003
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You hit the nail on the head about "true diversity and all its sores" because true diversity will never work and recent studies prove that:
http://msutoday.msu.edu/news/2013/study-asks-is-a-better-world-possible/
Diversity naturally increases fear and lowers social cohesion, I can link 10 studies in the past 4 years that show this. I don't know about you, but I'd rather have social cohesion with my peers than fear. Like you, I grew up in a majority white school so was picked on a bit/teased with racial slurs from some whites and even more blacks (due to interaction with them in sports). But most of that ended when I did great at varsity sports. After awhile, I even had my own groupies (g/f and her friends) who would go to games just to watch me play. lol
I actually believe in true diversity, and believe the world will be a better place in 100 years when every kids as mixed as mine. My problem is that black/hispanic "hip hop" culture is a very segregate one that's insular, and I don't even blame them for that. The cities and schools were set up in a way to keep poverty in projects away from the white people (and their cultural influence) and I empathize. People there are also culturally segregated, meaning they often listen to exclusively black music and watch shit like tyler perry. The liberal part of me believes that's white people's fault and a remnant of the civil rights movement and separate bathrooms/drinking faucets, so I don't have an iota of hate towards marginalized groups. But I don't want my kids in that environment. But please don't read this as me hating black culture - In fact, I think a black kids who are eclectic are simply the coolest people on the planet (seriously, black nerds are awesome people).
So your theory is probably right that a school that is majority white (like catholic school) will probably listen to the biggest variety of music and not just rap. I applaud you for recognizing this, and FWIW my wife (catholic) and I are probably going to send our kids to catholic school as well. It's a tougher decision for us though since the public schools in our area are blue ribbon (usually 10/10 or 9/10).
Yes, I think music/cultural influences is a huge thing, a lifechanging thing. Before catholic school I had no idea what Nirvana was and I had no idea that white girls were cute and feminine unlike the mustached indian girls around me... Being exposed to differences was eye opening and completely changed my personality, and I believe it's as important as test scores and safety metrics. My kids rock out to the beastie boys and tribe almost daily so I have genuine affection for hip hop, but their mixes have a lot of 90s alt and bjork too, they're cooler that way.
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