Am I insecure or is this a normal male thought process?

[Atheus]

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
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- M4H

A book about big balls written by a woman?... I can just picture her...

 

[IceBergSLiM]

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212

Originally posted by: Encryptic

Originally posted by: Atheus
I dunno - you could have taken the girl to dinner or something with just the two of you before the party, just to make it clear you're interested. Then she presumably would have ignored the attentions of any other guys.

Jesus....the lack of manliness in this thread is staggering.....but then again, we're on ATOT, so anything's possible.

Just ask the girl if she wants to bump uglies with you. Case closed.

Dude, with one girl i only have one chance and, since I lost my job and gained some weight, i don't want to blow that one shot so I haven't made a move yet. I will, once i have a job. So she's on standby because, hell, i'd reject myself for being unemployed.. Do you see where i'm coming from? the other girl, I've hooked up with (not sex but close) already but she's a big flirt and i don't want to babysit.

get your life in order quit worrying about girls so much.

EDIT: get a good job and stop being a fatty....the girls should come easy after that.

 

[Fern]

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
So my buddy invited me to his birthday party and I was about to invite one of the 2 girls i have crushes on to be my date. Then I realized that, since i haven't made a move on them that I'd get depressed/pissed if they get hit on by his friends (they're a flirty bunch) and instead invited a girl who's just a friend who i wouldn't care either way about.

Is this behavior normal or am i more insecure than I thought? i admit that it's insecure, but is it something you would do?

Sounds like good planning/strategy to me.

Next, make your plans about how/when you're gonna make you move on at least one of them. Then get to it.

Fern

 

[Kadarin]

Whether or not your thought processes are normal, you are still insecure. Very much so.

 

[slackerinabox]

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212

Originally posted by: Encryptic

Originally posted by: Atheus
I dunno - you could have taken the girl to dinner or something with just the two of you before the party, just to make it clear you're interested. Then she presumably would have ignored the attentions of any other guys.

Jesus....the lack of manliness in this thread is staggering.....but then again, we're on ATOT, so anything's possible.

Just ask the girl if she wants to bump uglies with you. Case closed.

Dude, with one girl i only have one chance and, since I lost my job and gained some weight, i don't want to blow that one shot so I haven't made a move yet. I will, once i have a job. So she's on standby because, hell, i'd reject myself for being unemployed.. Do you see where i'm coming from? the other girl, I've hooked up with (not sex but close) already but she's a big flirt and i don't want to babysit.

get your life in order quit worrying about girls so much.

EDIT: get a good job and stop being a fatty....the girls should come easy after that.

You're absolutely right.. 1,000% .. That's why i post here, sometimes there are people like you who actually give out good advice..

 

[dainthomas]

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
EDIT: get a good job and stop being a fatty....the girls should come easy after that.

/thread

 

[Aharami]

Originally posted by: MagnusTheBrewer
No, insecure is wondering if you read the signals right for a good-night kiss. What you got is LAME. I'm pretty sure you're going to die from it.

zing

 

[BrownTown]

If your brain is the part of your body making these descisions then something is wrong.

 

[mugs]

Isn't it kind of not cool to hit on a girl that came to a party with another guy?

 

[Atheus]

Originally posted by: mugs
Isn't it kind of not cool to hit on a girl that came to a party with another guy?

It's cool... if you want a smak in the face.

 

[randay]

maybe you have zackery syndrome?