Am I stupid/foolish/insane to decline????

[TallBill]

Originally posted by: Scipionix

Originally posted by: bob970
u dont want to lose it like that.. unless shes insanely hot.... get a bj tho.. thats harmless

Yeah, and we all know that a bj ain't sex

exactly.. and if yer still worried about disease.. bag it.. get some mint condoms

 

[MichaelD]

Originally posted by: Yo_Ma-Ma
No, I'd say you made the correct call, she sounds a little too desperate, and like GF said possibly infested with some 'buddies', you are better off w/o.

What he/she said.

 

[Scipionix]

Originally posted by: bob970

Originally posted by: Scipionix

Originally posted by: bob970
u dont want to lose it like that.. unless shes insanely hot.... get a bj tho.. thats harmless

Yeah, and we all know that a bj ain't sex

exactly.. and if yer still worried about disease.. bag it.. get some mint condoms

I was being sarcastic Sticking yer !@#$ in there sure sounds like sex to me

 

[TallBill]

ok.. gettin head is a form of sex.. but i wouldnt say hed lost his virginity from that...

 

[Scipionix]

Originally posted by: bob970
ok.. gettin head is a form of sex.. but i wouldnt say hed lost his virginity from that...

Possibly not, but she would. I think it's funny yet pathetic when girls who have had a dozen guys in their mouths still can convince themselves that they are virgins.

 

[TallBill]

Originally posted by: Scipionix

Originally posted by: bob970
ok.. gettin head is a form of sex.. but i wouldnt say hed lost his virginity from that...

Possibly not, but she would. I think it's funny yet pathetic when girls who have had a dozen guys in their mouths still can convince themselves that they are virgins.

Lol, i dont even wanna get into that... im not a big fan of the oral anyways... i dont like kissin that afterwards.. and kissin really gets girls going.. if yer good anyways

 

[Gulzakar]

bootie bootie

*zach claps his hands*

 

[Freejack2]

I don't think you were. If you're going to lose your virginity, the best way is to a woman you love, not some woman you don't really know or love.

 

[Turkey]

If you were uncomfortable, it wouldn't have been good.

 

[johneetrash]

that's fvcking gross dude. you're actually contemplating doing a 41 year old? unless she's super duper trooper freakin hot, i wouldnt even think about it. it'd be no before she finished asking me.

that is unless she gave lots of money and/or a really really good car

 

[flavio]

IS SHE HOT OR NOT? I think that's the main issue here.

...and how old are you? Sounds like it's been years since high school so why are you still a virgin anyway.


Here's a simple formula: 1. ask girls out 2. hit it off with one 3. you'll get laid, maybe even a girlfriend


Geez.

 

[The Stigenator]

Originally posted by: flavio
IS SHE HOT OR NOT? I think that's the main issue here.

...and how old are you? Sounds like it's been years since high school so why are you still a virgin anyway.


Here's a simple formula: 1. ask girls out 2. hit it off with one 3. you'll get laid, maybe even a girlfriend


Geez.

Personally I dont think she was hot..i have seen hotter milf's at that age.
I am 23 yrs old.. and why havent i dont anything in high school.. i dont knoow why. My peers were at it in high school though in descreet nature but they still did it - mind you this was india. Anyway i think it was because i didnt have my sexual awakinging until about late 20 before i turned 21.

Your forumla seems simple, but somehow most women reject me. They think i am "boring", "geek", etc etc. I have asked women who know me well (who took a chance of getting to know me what their first impressions were)... and that was their answer... turns out its much different than what i am in reality. Until i find a girl who is not selfish in nature and is willing to give me a honest try i dont think that strategy will work. Either case i have sorta not even activily dating because i keep getting rejected. Last one was Roxanne, i thoguht things were going good, she even said yes when i asked her out. But it never worked out, she never called and she didnt give me her number.

Oh well.. that's my life..

 

[flavio]

Well I don't know what to tell you. If the woman is attractive than it's worth considering but probably not for your first time. The real issue is why you are in this situation in the first place. If you are getting rejected all the time you are just going to have to get to work on the cause. Try to be outgoing and friendly and work on your "look". Whatever it takes, whether it's working out or nicer clothes or a better haircut or all of it.

Get a friend that's a girl to help you with this if possible.

 

[johneetrash]

when i read your post, it sounded like a little depression/self esteem problem in there. i think the problem in the woman department lies in one or both of those problems. girls can smell a guy's self esteem, so you have to walk with confidence, talk with confidence, and all that jazz. maybe you oughta pick yourself up a bit

girls can also smell money, u could probably get some hot ones if you went that route (except they'd most likely be beyaaaaaaaatches)

anyway, if i didnt help or i misunderstood your post or somethin like that, just ignore it, it's 3:10am and the last thing i watched was the old 70's (right?) batman and carson daly.

 

[The Stigenator]

I personally dont think i have a self esteem problem.. while it does get a bit disheartening to get rejected a 103 times in 1999... (well i will blame it on those nerdy glasses) but still.. a thing that needs to be rectified.

I know how to dress its not like I dress like a slob, I am quite neat in what i wear. While I dont wear my "best" clothes to school, i do wear casual stuff to school, things I am comfrtable with. I am in no mood to wear something fashionable just to prove a point with the women.. while most guys at my school do that.. i dont know what their sucess ratio is (plus it doesnt help cause i am in a school with a majority of armenians - they only date armenians, hispanic girls will date white or hispanic... most white girls at school will date only white.. so I am stuck in between a rock and a hard place.

As for money, while i may not have much, i have enough. I have enough to buy myself nice stuff when needed. I ride a motorcycle to school ( i got it partly for the commute to school and partly cause i wanted an image change at school - a geek/nerd who is a bad boy look) and I drive a car (a not cool 1994 toyota tercel). I also drive my brothers BMW sometimes...and its keys are on my keybunch so people who have seen my keybunch do go "hey you have a bmw.. nice".. but that never gets me there.. its not like i am out there telling i have a BMW.. while i do drive it often, its not my daily commuter car.

My girlfriends have helped me a lot in trying to get me girls.. somehow they arent biting.. when i got my last pair of glasses, i had a girls input into it.. while it was remarkably close to the previous pair in frame shape it was a better frame. I dont wear contact often ( i have had a cataract when i was young so need to have some sort of vision correction lens in front - contacts mean i have to carry a reading glass - bifocal contacts are still too expensive but i might try some later this year). I do have an infection that started by using contacts, so my doctor said i should stop, so i did.. but i personally prefer glasses. Anyway my friends have helped me get fashionable.. I dont necessarily wear branded clothes with corporate logo's on the shirt (unless its adidas, nike, reebok) and I am quite the kind who gets nice stuff. My girlfriend chante and I recently went shopping for clothes for me.. and we got so me really cool clothes that fit me and make me look really good. But that still doesnt help..

Deep down i am viewed in a different way by most women my age. Older women seem to appreciate things about me, and they have said that once a girl realises the gold mine in me will get attached so fast that I wont be able to get her off. SOmehow I have to agree on it, women my age arent exactly mature enough on my level atleast. Very few that i have seen on my level that are worth looking into. So in the mean time i have decided to layoff for a while and if something comes by take it. I also put some criteria on the kind of women i want only because if women can have a list of things they want in a man, so can us men. so far most people who fit the criteria are either married, are involved with someone else or too old for me.

TGG

 

[Red Dawn]

I think the one with the Self Esteem Problem is the 41 year old women wanting to do the Be Bop Deluxe with Teenage Nerds. Come in, it can't be because she wants some young hot lovin as guys like our PNGer TGG would be a minute man at the longest with her (or he'd fall in) Anyway, with your Geek/Nerd/Bad Boy look you should eventually get some..in about 20 years.

 

[Cattlegod]

frigging A dude, plow her.

you are 23 years old, I have a 24 year old friend who has never had any play because he doesn't have any game. he gets all weird around girls and doesn't know how to act, it is worse because he is so old now. before you know it, you are going to be 30 years old

this is your chance to get some experience and confidence under your belt.

 

[jjones]

TGG, I'm sorry bud but you're 23 years old and sound as if you want to get laid. I'd say it's high time to wax the cat.

 

[RossMAN]

Originally posted by: Destined4nothin
You've kept the snake in its cage this long, don't set it free on a forty some year old woman who's coochie is oozing herpes and small rodents.

That still makes me ROTFLMAO

 

[Shagger]

Nobody has asked?!?!?!?














PICS?

 

[Shagger]

Fast forward to this afternoon, looks like she is still looking for some sex and she wants it both ways

What the hell is both ways? You two guys and her? No holes barred? WTF?

 

[Stark]

she is still looking for some sex and she wants it both ways

Please do not elaborate.

You made the_good_choice.

 

[Mucman]

TGG - Sounds like you are in the same boat as me . I don't really have any advice but to hang in there... It sounds to me like you are a little too worried about your image though. Don't be someone you are not, life sucks when you try that. I may be women less, and socially inept... but I am ok with it because I am not a poser. That is who I am, and I am not going to fight myself. Good luck and I hope the guys in the colo in Vancouver aren't giving you too much grief

 

[Electric Amish]

hehe...

She would have eaten you alive. You would have been lucky to escape with your life!


.......and you would have been beggin for more.

amish

 

[flavio]

plus it doesnt help cause i am in a school with a majority of armenians - they only date armenians,

How the hell did you end up in this situation? Sound like you really need to get yourself surrounded by available women somehow. Go out to clubs/bars or get in some other social situations that are attended by available women. The motorcycle is a good try, I used to have one for a couple years and I gave many girls a ride on it.