Originally posted by: veggiefrog
Originally posted by: FFMCobalt
Regardless of ANYTHING, she was not ethically, morally, or legally bound to whiteboy81. By shacking up with WB81's best friend, she made the same free will decision that she made when she originally hooked up with WB81. Regardless of ANYTHING ELSE, WB81 has no right whatsoever to anything about the relationship between two other people -no matter how they're related to him. Yeah, it hurts, I know. Trust me, I know. But that hurt is something that needs to be taken care of ASAP. It's not healthy and it is very VERY poorly justified.
Good luck, WB81.
but it's not about her and her ho-ness... it's about how the friend should have said, u know what he's my best friend of 10 yrs and his friendship means a lot to me i'm not gonna be w his ex-chick (whom he's not over) w/o talkin to him first. it's what a friend is
supposed to do. the friend should have had enuf respect and consideration to at least make sure the OP was kewl w/ it.
if the story had been about his ex who was sleepin w some random guy and how he was upset about it, then yeah 'waah waah stfu'. but it wasnt.
(maybe it's just me, but i would NEVER date a friend's ex w/o talkin to her first bc i love my friends and dont want to hurt them, i
care about my friendships. )