Yeah they do.Originally posted by: caitlion
im suprised at all the "you made the decision" replies...
yeah, you let her go and shes free to do what she wants.. but best friends DONT do that.
Originally posted by: Ninjja
Originally posted by: MustangSVT
you are upset. but you broke up with her.
move on.
yeah, so what if he broke up with her? he gave his reasons for why, and it wasn't because he didn't love her anymore. He had to put responsibility before himself, which is extremely honorable. Yeah, so they're technically broken up, but friendships are based on emotion and loyalty over technicalities, so while, no, you can't do anything about it, you completely have the right to be upset in my opinion.
EDIT:For all the rest of you, you're lying in my book if you wouldn't be jealous or hurt if your best friend was boning a chick that you had been with, and still loved, even though extenuating circumstances prevented you being together.
Originally posted by: Ninjja
Yeah, you're not wrong.Originally posted by: DOSfanOH DAMN! :disgust: Nevermind. I retract what I posted earlier. Either you did not post it, or I missed that part of the story where you "friend" encouraged you to break up with her. He is scum. He planned this out. Your ex may not be better, but you can at least give her the benifit of the doubt. You are no longer wrong to be pissed at your "friend."Originally posted by: whiteboy81 If I had died and two months later my BEST friend slept with the girl I was with at the time, I couldn't be pissed in a mortal sense, but if there is any kind of afterlife I'm sure I wouldn't be too happy about it. As far as him being upfront about everything that is not true, he was doing it behind my back and I had to confront HER about it after there were many signs, it's not like he came forward and asked. Everyone saying that I broke up with her and she is free to do what she wants, you're right she is. But in my mind my best friend should have a certain loyalty to me, considering how close we are. I mean he was one person who encouraged me to break up with her to begin with, and now he is with her.
Originally posted by: whiteboy81
Well I am back from talking with him...and lets just say things went as bad as they could possibly go. I lost my best friend and he meant so much to me...he basically chose her over me after 10 years. I have been throwing up for the past hour...this may be just about the worst I have ever felt in my life.
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
You dumped her,your right to anything ended then.What did you want,her sitting home alone crying over you?
Jesus Christ, grow a pair and stop being such a Drama Queen!Originally posted by: whiteboy81
Well I am back from talking with him...and lets just say things went as bad as they could possibly go. I lost my best friend and he meant so much to me...he basically chose her over me after 10 years. I have been throwing up for the past hour...this may be just about the worst I have ever felt in my life.
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
You dumped her,your right to anything ended then.What did you want,her sitting home alone crying over you?
Am I wrong for being upset?
Originally posted by: MrDudeMan
what did he actually say whitey? i hate to be like this, but a lot of us are probably dying to know...the story cant just end like this.
btw, im sorry about all of this. what a bastard friend.