Ok, I broke up with my g/f about a year ago. She says we are drifting apart and we are better off if we just start seeing other people. Although we broke up, I at first thought that we should remain friends because I wasn't too surprise and not hurt too much about the break up . She insists that we shouldn't and our relationship should just end there. That pisses me off at first, but I lived with it and got over it. Now, let's fast forward to last week. I got a call from her, dunno how she got my new number.. anyhow. She asked me to do her a favor (nothing sexual, if that's what you dirty minded people are thinking). I said no. Now she's totally pissed at me and been telling everyone how much of an a$$ I am. We still have neutral friends and some of them think I am a jerk for saying no but some think I did the right thing. What do you guys think? I mean, we are practically stranger now since she is the one who said we shouldn't remain friends at all. This really bothers me because it seems like I am suddenly the bad guy now. I've moved on since we broke up although I am not in a relationship but I've been dating steadily with this girl. I have no grudge against my ex, but I heard she got together with another guy shortly after we broke up that ended in 6 months. It hurts me, but that's nothing I can do about since she's no longer my gf. So, am I wrong to refuse to help her out? In case you guys want to know what the favor is, I don't want to go into details. But it involves me getting a favor from someone else. Basically, she's trying to use my connection.
Ok, since so many people can't go any further without me telling what the favor was. She's trying to get an interview at this company that I have some personal contacts at. And I did tell my mutual friends the situation. But they think that I refused cuz I still have a grudge against her. Which I really don't. The mutual friends are a mix of guys and girls. Out of them, those who agreed with me are mostly guys but there are girls who are on my side too.
Ok, since so many people can't go any further without me telling what the favor was. She's trying to get an interview at this company that I have some personal contacts at. And I did tell my mutual friends the situation. But they think that I refused cuz I still have a grudge against her. Which I really don't. The mutual friends are a mix of guys and girls. Out of them, those who agreed with me are mostly guys but there are girls who are on my side too.