You mean up to 10 fps? First of all, as you increase the resolution the performance graphs "compress" along with that increase in resolution. So in fact, yes, it is a commanding lead; many titles are 5-10 fps lead in favor of the 780ti compared to an aftermarket 290X (see the legitreviews link I posted earlier. They tested the Powercolor PCS triple slot card, which so far seems to be one of the fastest/best custom 290X cards).
So performance graphs get "compressed" as the resolution goes up. As an example, let's say you do benchmarks at 1080p. On average, maybe the 780ti has a 20-25 fps lead over the competition at 1080p. When you increase the resolution, the performance graphs compress a tad. At 2560x1600, the 20-25 1080p performance lead becomes 15 fps or so. At 4k? The lead becomes 5-10 fps. Yes, at 4k that is a commanding performance lead. And yes, while I don't think there's quiet mode on the Powercolor PCS custom 290X, I know it did not throttle or anything like that before you want to theorize such. It's an aftermarket custom card. View the benchmarks at 4k for yourself at legitreviews. Their powercolor PCS review is on the front page. No, it didn't throttle. No, it didn't use a clockspeed gimped quiet mode - to answer all of the questions brought up earlier.
That's not to say that the 290X is a slouch, it's clearly a very fast GPU and is cheaper. The 290X is a fast GPU in its own right and has more of the value and bang for the buck angle which AMD is generally known for. You likely won't be disappointed with either GPU at 4k resolution. My main point was the MST driver bug with NV has been resolved and has given Nv a significant 4k resolution performance bump. Obviously, a GPU being gimped at 70% GPU utilization will cause it to lose benchmarks - that was the old NV driver bug with MST, which has been fixed.
In any case, this is somewhat of a tangent meant to answer some of the questions in this thread. So with those questions answered, i'll leave that off topic alone, done talking about it. Anyway, about 20nm. If I may, the state of 4k resolution performance clearly indicates that 20nm may be the answer for that. So i'm pretty excited and optimistic for 20nm GPUs and Maxwell - they should be that much better for 4k resolution performance, perhaps at 20nm we can use a single GPU without having to compromise settings to get 60 fps in most titles. Of course you can do that now if you fiddle with settings a bit, but there are some out there who like doing ultra settings across the board. Maybe 20nm can bring us that. At 4k resolution. Without crossfire or SLI. One can hope. In any case, it will be interesting to see what happens with 20nm and next gen GPUs later this year.