Originally posted by: irishScott
Originally posted by: ibex333
Originally posted by: onlyCOpunk
Just wondering what everyone's little pet peeves are of other people at the gym.
There's one thing I can't stad, people jabbering away on their cell phones.
And one thing that just bugs me, "tough guys" who try to lift as much as they can as fast as they can and scream while doing it.
lol. I feel ya. Back when I used to go to the gym I had the same thoughts.
Things I hated:
1) When I would struggle through 10 reps of some heavy lifting, and as soon as I'd get up, some dude next to me would stumble in my place, pick up the weight and easily power through 30 reps of twice the weight I pulled. Then he'd walk away with a face expression like he is trying to say: "And that's how you do it son...".
2) When people would sweat like pigs and drip sweat all over the exercise equipment. Then they'd walk away and not even bother to wipe off their filth.
3)When people would scream like morans with every rep and then drop the weight on the floor with a loud bang, then walk away gloating stuff like "What b*itch? WHAAAT?"
4)When girls would use the treadmill for hours on end listening to their ipod or using the exercise bike while reading the book. Why is the hell would you be using the treadmill for this long? Are you trying to burn all the fat in the world? How about some diversity in your exercise routine? There must be other ways to get fit aside from using a treadmill... (It's probably not my business to judge these girls but it just looks weird to me when I see someone running/cycling for 2 hours)
5)When my friends would make me feel like crap, and put me down for not being able to lift as much as them. People say not to pay any mind to this stuff and do your own thing,
but how is it possible when people are insulting your dignity and your manhood?! How is it possible when your rep is on the line? How is it possible when slutty girls are looking at you?
I lifted as much as my friends even though I couldn't and off course I got very sick and had to stop going to the gym.
6) And finally the cell phones... don't even get me started on that one. I cant stand it in the gym, I cant stand it on the bus, and I cant stand it in college. It's things like that that make me wish there was no cell phones.. lol
If your personal "rep" or "manhood" depends on how much you can lift, get new friends. IF they're actually your friends, they're probably not serious. People can be assholes unintentionally. You sound a little oversensitive/too serious.
As for your manhood: do you like girls? Yes or no. There's your manhood. Who cares what other people think? It's what the girls think that really matters here.
In either case, witty comebacks are the best solution to both of the above.
As for slutty girls... WTF man. I'd enjoy the attention as much as any guy, but why is this such a major factor? Who cares what they think? They're slutty for a reason. If you go to the gym to impress girls and friends, you're going for the wrong reasons. Go for yourself. In terms of the opposite sex, I'd rather reel in quality girls. Being physically fit helps in this regard. Not to mention the health benefits.
Also, every girl in the gym may notice you, and may feel some physical attraction. I assure you that they do not care about you in the slightest at the end of the day.
Ex: When I go to the beach, I'll naturally notice hot chicks. If I can work up the balls to do so, I might approach one or two, but unless the one or two works out , at the end of the day I probably won't see or care about them again.
My advice: Go to the gym
alone. If you don't enjoy going with friends, then what's the point in going with them? (And what's the point in having them as friends?)