I don't see where I discounted your opinion, simply pointed out that "fuck your feels" is a thing. Murder does tend to make people emotional, sorry if you have a great adoration for the same items that mass murderers tend to choose to accomplish the task. Yea, emotion and fear of killing machines seems reasonable, emotion and fear of restricting access to killing machines doesn't seem quite as reasonable. I'm not for taking everyone's guns away, I would just prefer that as a society we take ownership more seriously.
Most gun owners do take the responsibility of gun ownership very seriously. We have two city ranges in my small town and they are very well run with two rangemasters on duty at all times. Our local sportsman association has several shooting teams including youth rifle and pistol teams where safety and marksmanship are taught. We have frequent training classes on everything from hunter and gun safety to self-defense, including classes for women and first time shooters. Heck, in my state we allow anyone who can legally own a gun to carry it either open or concealed without even requiring a licence AND IT HASN'T LEAD TO WILD WEST STYLE SHOOTOUTS LIKE MANY ANTI-GUNNERS CLAIMED IT WOULD. So please stop telling us we don't take the responsibility of gun ownership seriously.
It's a tiny minority of gun owners who are irresponsible, and those folks are usually irresponsible and dangerous with alcohol, drugs, cars, tools, pointed sticks and lots of other inanimate objects. Those folks are the ones we need to reach out and take guns away from if their conducts rises to the level of criminal behavior. And, of course, we need to find better ways of disarming the criminal/sick/evil population who directly seek to do harm with weapons.
But, instead, anti-gun efforts are often directed at the people who are NOT the problem exactly because we ARE the ones who obey laws (especially that one prohibiting murder.) We are the low hanging fruit who are having our 2A rights restricted because anti-gun folks think disarming us will have some trickle-down affect and magically disarm criminals of the tools of their trade. All while ignoring how dangerous America would become if they did succeed in disarming the lawful while the lawless thumb their noses at the new gun prohibition and keep their guns.
I don't know what the solution is that will end all gun violence, but we will never find it until the lie that guns = bad is stopped. Or maybe there is no absolute solution to ending the hate and willingness to use violence that lives in the hearts of some men.
Guns have many, many safe and legal uses, and the vast majority are used so. Better mental health care and some form of red flag laws are a good start. After all, red flag laws are just a way for us to show our concern for our loved ones and neighbors should they start exhibiting unsafe behavior. Red flag laws only become evil when anti-gunners use them as end-runs around the constitution and due process.
Trust me, my friend, if the life of you or a loved one is ever directly threatened you will pick up the phone, dial 911 and pray men with guns get there in time to save you. If you can't wait that long you will die at the mercy of your attacker, probably wishing the entire terrifying time that you had taken firearm ownership more seriously and acquired one.
And, only then, will you realize how pointless it was to blame and disarm over 100 million lawful gun owners because it did nothing to stop the criminals.
And your last sentence: "I'm not for taking everyone's guns away, I would just prefer that as a society we take ownership more seriously" really means nothing. You want to control which guns are available when there is no practical way to do so without destroying our free society. Hasn't the failed prohibition on alcohol and our lost war on drugs at least taught us that attempting to prohibit something people want is dangerous at best? How can depriving the lawful of the very best means of self-defense, while unable to disarm the criminal/sick/evil among us, accomplish anything good?