Well... I just got off the phone with Jenn... it's approximately 1:00am here in upstate NY. First off... let me ask you a question... do you normally call people at 12:30am? Unless you have plans with them or something? She was in a horrible mood, she was on the verge of crying the majority of the time that I was on the phone with her. Apparantly what I've built up to be a real jerk of a boyfriend, has only proven himself to be just that based on the conversation that I just had with her.
Apparantly she got home from work around 10:00pm, she then proceeded to shower up and go over to where her boyfriend was, I guess he was at a friend's house and he was getting smashed with them. So being the nice girlfriend that she is, she went to get him and bring him to their apartment. They arrived at their apartment around 12:00am, just as they drive in the driveway, another group of his friends had happened to drive by and wanted to know if he wanted to go with them out to a few clubs. He turned to her and asked if she wanted to go and she replied "no, I want to spend some time with you, you've been away at work all week". He replied "well... that's PERFECT!, I'm going". So he took off and went with them, and she walked inside and slammed the door. Aparantly she then proceeded to call me in a fit.
Now... everyday that I go to work and I go on break with her (something he never does), there is a new story as to why she thinks her boyfriend is a jerk. This is just another example of why. So I listened to her rant and I tried to cheer her up a little. After a little bit, I asked her what she was going to do, she said that she was going to start dating other people, she said that she wasn't going to dump him, but she was going to make it severely evident that she wasn't going to put up with this crap anymore, she's tired of being walked on and she's tired of her boyfriend not caring about how she feels. Well... that seems to be exactly what I'm giving her... I pay attention to her, I listen to her and she calls me and talks to me about her boyfriend. I just tell her that if she doesn't like it, then something has to change, I don't know what it is, it's compeletely up to her. I didn't want to say dump the dumbass... but that's what I was thinking.
Tommorrow I'm going to go visit her at work on my day off, again... something he never does, I'm going to go there and give her a hug at least, but she was in a really bad mood when she called me and I don't really understand why me. I can't get into a relationship with her... at least not until she dumps this dork... it would require a whole lifestyle change for her to date another guy... but yet she's upset because she's with this jerk.... what advice to I give and where do I go from here?