ahhhh, you guys spoiled it for me (and i'm sure i spoiled it for others). I haven't read the books in like 15 years, and was going to again... i didn't even remember that Tanis and Sturm died. Only reason why i remember why XXXXX died was because of XXXXXX reaction to it all. Come to think of it, i don't even remember much of what happens in the book. Definitely going to have to pick up The Annotated Chronicles suggested by AmigaMan.
Kami, start with this:
Dragonlance
Personally, i prefer it over LoTR as well... but i think it may have been because i was also playing AD&D at the time, so i could relate very well to the book.
Anyways, i'm probably going to read LoTR again first, just because the movie is coming out. Dragonlance is awesome though, i just love the friendship and comradeship of everybody. When i read the first 10 pages of the book, i knew it was going to be awesome (after years apart, friends meet for the first time in a field... brilliant).
EDIT: took out spoiler information.