any straight people out there dislike to hear gay people discuss their homosexuality?

[Demon-Xanth]

A little awkward. But much less awkward that when girls talk about feminine hygene products.

 

[shuan24]

homophobe much?

 

[EatSpam]

Originally posted by: Smackem
Like say your with a gay guy, and he sees a guy he thinks is hot. And he says something like 'I'd bring the lube'. Would that make you uneasy? Would it be wrong to say something like that is a bit offensive?

If so, Is it more offensive than when a straight guy says, 'I'd nail her!'.

Sometimes, in mixed company, its best to keep your mouth shut. Mixed company of all kinds, that is. When I'm out with my wife and another couple, I'm not pointing out the hot waitress, but if I was out with just my brothers, I would.

Likewise, if I was hanging out with a gay guy, I'd keep my appreciation of attractive women to myself, and I'd expect the gay guy to keep his appreciations to himself.

Politeness is always important, unless you have a relationship that's not polite, then what the above says doesn't apply.

 

[Zysoclaplem]

I think they should have seperate schools for gays and straights. I mean, come on. You let them mix and the sh!t is going to hit the fan.

 

[JulesMaximus]

It wouldn't bother me. I don't really hang out with any gay people though so I haven't had this come up before.

 

[Brutuskend]

Creeps me out

 

[halik]

Originally posted by: Smackem
Like say your with a gay guy, and he sees a guy he thinks is hot. And he says something like 'I'd bring the lube'. Would that make you uneasy? Would it be wrong to say something like that is a bit offensive?

If so, Is it more offensive than when a straight guy says, 'I'd nail her!'.

Um i'm straight and i make gay innuendos all the time...

 

[Pocahontas]

Our mutual friend, Jason "came out " a few months ago, hes completly blunt and honest with me regarding his relationships, hot football players, etc. Now when my fiance is around it comes up super casually and then Jason clams up. So we've now etched him because hes being all super wierd when Neal's around and now considers me, his words now "his hot i love you hag".

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: Pocahontas
Our mutual friend, Jason "came out " a few months ago, hes completly blunt and honest with me regarding his relationships, hot football players, etc. Now when my fiance is around it comes up super casually and then Jason clams up. So we've now etched him because hes being all super wierd when Neal's around and now considers me, his words now "his hot i love you hag".

Perhaps he is uncomfortable speaking about it in front of straight guys? Perhaps from fear or embarrassment.

 

[Pocahontas]

Now heres the funny thing, he told a bunch of guys at work including Neal first, I call myself a mutual friend but he was Neals friend longgg before we got together. Neal has made it way cool for him to talk, its Jasons issue. I still see him here and there, but I invited him for dinner last week during football and it didn't go great. I give.

 

[Bryophyte]

It wouldn't bother me in the least.

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: Pocahontas
Now heres the funny thing, he told a bunch of guys at work including Neal first, I call myself a mutual friend but he was Neals friend longgg before we got together. Neal has made it way cool for him to talk, its Jasons issue. I still see him here and there, but I invited him for dinner last week during football and it didn't go great. I give.

That's strange. Perhaps he is going through some problems in other areas of his life?
Or perhaps he might like Neal?
I'd call him up and ask him if things are okay.

 

[themroc27]

Originally posted by: Pocahontas
Our mutual friend, Jason "came out " a few months ago, hes completly blunt and honest with me regarding his relationships, hot football players, etc. Now when my fiance is around it comes up super casually and then Jason clams up. So we've now etched him because hes being all super wierd when Neal's around and now considers me, his words now "his hot i love you hag".

etched?