- Jul 31, 2001
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Originally posted by: princess ida
I'm female and I have four kids.
To the OP: Hey, mister doctor, childbirth has been happening without medical intervention since - well, since the beginning of humans. Is the pain fun? Heck no. But pain killers are something you have to recover from. In addition to recovering from the birth itself. Painkillers also affect breastfeeding the newborn.
There's nothing heroic about natural childbirth. It's just - well, natural, the way women have been giving birth for thousands of years. All four of mine were natural. I figured I'd wait until it was really awful before asking for painkillers, but I was pushing the baby out when it got that bad. My oldest daughter has two kids and one more due sometime this week. The first two were water births. Relaxing in water is a pretty good painkiller. Due to the insurance stupidity, the only way she can have a water delivery this time is to do it at home without help - and she's not stupid.
I'm really glad that medical science can work wonders on difficult cases. And yes, nothing wrong with painkillers for people who truly want them. As far as I'm concerned, anyone giving birth should get whatever they ask for. I have great admiration for MD's who succeed with difficult cases.
My local hospital has a FORTY PERCENT c-section rate. When a c-section is lifesaving, it's awesome. But forty percent of upscale suburban moms can't possibly need surgery just to get a baby out.
With the home water births, were you ever concerned that something might go wrong and medical support wouldn't be immediately at hand? Just seems like many women are so concerned about the experience of childbirth and how they imagine it should go that they're not putting themselves in the safest situation possible and doing what's best for them and their baby.
Sure women have been having natural child birth since the begnning, but they have also been doing at ridiculous rates because of it.