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When I was getting married, I wanted to ask a good friend of mine to be one of my groomsmen. But he ignored my calls & voicemails. It's obvious he received it and also knew I was getting married via FB. I called again and again. Even pleaded with him via voice mail that I wanted to him to be part of this event.
We never had any fights or arguments prior- nor during the entire course of the friendship. I haven't heard from him at all- it's many years since. I'm baffled as to why. We used to hang out quite frequently. If I HAD to speculate, maybe because I was getting married while his GF broke up with him? (But why would that be the reason to sever ties?)
I never had that happen to me. He also cut off ties with all of our common friends.
A similar thing happened to my wife. She has a childhood friend whom she shared many common things with- both went to church as kids, college together, hung out throughout 20s, and even similar jobs. She was one of the bridesmaid.
AFTER the wedding & having a kid, she just kind of started to ignore my wife's chats & talk. Also, if she HAD to speculate, that girl always wanted to be married with kids, and didn't want to be in her 30's just with a cat. There were no prior fights/arguments leading up to this.
I don't know. These are the only two. I wonder if anyone else go through same thing.
We never had any fights or arguments prior- nor during the entire course of the friendship. I haven't heard from him at all- it's many years since. I'm baffled as to why. We used to hang out quite frequently. If I HAD to speculate, maybe because I was getting married while his GF broke up with him? (But why would that be the reason to sever ties?)
I never had that happen to me. He also cut off ties with all of our common friends.
A similar thing happened to my wife. She has a childhood friend whom she shared many common things with- both went to church as kids, college together, hung out throughout 20s, and even similar jobs. She was one of the bridesmaid.
AFTER the wedding & having a kid, she just kind of started to ignore my wife's chats & talk. Also, if she HAD to speculate, that girl always wanted to be married with kids, and didn't want to be in her 30's just with a cat. There were no prior fights/arguments leading up to this.
I don't know. These are the only two. I wonder if anyone else go through same thing.