If your wife has her way, you better start clenching your anus every night. He's going to show you some prison lovin for the kindness you are showing him.
well now you're fucked. if you don't do it, he'll conspire to murder you. and if you do it, he'll get so sick of your farts or something that he'll conspire to murder you.Conspiracy to murder
Stick to your convictions.
I've been married for a year now. My wife has terrible ideas (nothing like this but still...) at times. Her most recent was to take in a child from her school that is having trouble with her parents. The kid's father can't actually be with her for "reasons" and her mom has mental issues. I just said no. We might have an open room and no kids, but the girl has drug issues, mental issues of her own, and is extremely untrustworthy.
Another time my wife decided she wanted to drive 10 hours to a friend's wedding and 10 hours back in the same day (she wanted to be back for pick-up soccer). I said this was a terrible idea and we should get a hotel or something. She put her foot down and said she would just go on her own. So after giving it some thought I went with her, did most of the driving, and made sure that we made it there and back okay. "Let's never do that again" was what she said after the trip. But we actually had a good time and joke about how silly it was to do that trip.
I didn't want a puppy, she did, so we have a puppy now. But the one she wanted was a 3 hour drive away. She decided that she wanted to pick it up on a Wednesday evening and take off work Thursday and Friday to acclimate the pup. That sounded fine to me until it decided to freezing rain Wednesday evening. I suggested that she just go the next day to pick up the puppy. She said "I'm going tonight, with or without you." So I went, and I drove... The drive there wasn't bad, but the trip back took an extra hour and a half and there were times where I was going 20 mph in a 70 mph zone...
My wife has a fairly aggressive personality and I'm generally quite reserved. So I get pushed around on some things. But when it comes to money or safety I really try to make the correct decision and take responsibility. In some cases that means saying no, in others it apparently involves driving her places...
I would definitely say no if I were you. There's no need for you to put your family at risk, and that's exactly what you should say to your wife.
For anyone who is still around and recalls this thread, here's a nice update.
I put my foot down and the BIL never moved in with us. He refused to talk to my wife and acknowledge our kids during holiday gatherings. We felt like outcast since he mingled with everyone else but us. I could care less but I felt really bad for my wife.
He was doing well, working FT and then switched to PT because he was attending HVAC training. He had plans of looking for a job with an HVAC company because he didn't want to come between his friend (friend is also his boss) and his friend's business partner.
Things were going well for him until today. Cops stormed the parents' house and turned it upside down. Bags of weed and a gun. He hasn't spoken to anyone in his family but he reached out to his friend. Looks like they're trying to get him on gun trafficking.
I actually broke down in front of the wife because I thought back to when we argued and I said to her that I wanted to protect my kids and wife. I wanted to avoid drama such as what unfolded today. I'm so glad I didn't give in.
Where does she keep your testicles. Does she ever let you see them or use them?Stick to your convictions.
I've been married for a year now. My wife has terrible ideas (nothing like this but still...) at times. Her most recent was to take in a child from her school that is having trouble with her parents. The kid's father can't actually be with her for "reasons" and her mom has mental issues. I just said no. We might have an open room and no kids, but the girl has drug issues, mental issues of her own, and is extremely untrustworthy.
Another time my wife decided she wanted to drive 10 hours to a friend's wedding and 10 hours back in the same day (she wanted to be back for pick-up soccer). I said this was a terrible idea and we should get a hotel or something. She put her foot down and said she would just go on her own. So after giving it some thought I went with her, did most of the driving, and made sure that we made it there and back okay. "Let's never do that again" was what she said after the trip. But we actually had a good time and joke about how silly it was to do that trip.
I didn't want a puppy, she did, so we have a puppy now. But the one she wanted was a 3 hour drive away. She decided that she wanted to pick it up on a Wednesday evening and take off work Thursday and Friday to acclimate the pup. That sounded fine to me until it decided to freezing rain Wednesday evening. I suggested that she just go the next day to pick up the puppy. She said "I'm going tonight, with or without you." So I went, and I drove... The drive there wasn't bad, but the trip back took an extra hour and a half and there were times where I was going 20 mph in a 70 mph zone...
My wife has a fairly aggressive personality and I'm generally quite reserved. So I get pushed around on some things. But when it comes to money or safety I really try to make the correct decision and take responsibility. In some cases that means saying no, in others it apparently involves driving her places...
I would definitely say no if I were you. There's no need for you to put your family at risk, and that's exactly what you should say to your wife.
For anyone who is still around and recalls this thread, here's a nice update.
I put my foot down and the BIL never moved in with us. He refused to talk to my wife and acknowledge our kids during holiday gatherings. We felt like outcast since he mingled with everyone else but us. I could care less but I felt really bad for my wife.
He was doing well, working FT and then switched to PT because he was attending HVAC training. He had plans of looking for a job with an HVAC company because he didn't want to come between his friend (friend is also his boss) and his friend's business partner.
Things were going well for him until today. Cops stormed the parents' house and turned it upside down. Bags of weed and a gun. He hasn't spoken to anyone in his family but he reached out to his friend. Looks like they're trying to get him on gun trafficking.
I actually broke down in front of the wife because I thought back to when we argued and I said to her that I wanted to protect my kids and wife. I wanted to avoid drama such as what unfolded today. I'm so glad I didn't give in.
Too be fair to him, this is America, who doesn't have bags of weed and a gun in their house? My mom had been renting her house out for a year and then moved into it for a couple months and found a gun that was left by the previous owner at the top of her closet. She contacted the previous owners and they had completely forgotten they even owned the gun.
Bu there is no way I I'm letting someone move into my 1400 Sq ft house if I had kids, I don't care if it's grandma, Bernie Sanders or a deadbeat uncle, that's enough people in a small house already.
For anyone who is still around and recalls this thread, here's a nice update
I mean...I have 3 guns + 2 pellet guns + BB gun and maybe only 1/4 oz weed at the momentation that I understand
Do you hear helicopters yet?
Or are a Weaver-ite.dude, I hear helicopters and weird, irregular aero-traveling machine noises all the time. I think you just get used to it when you live and work under part of the dedicated, rotating, Andrews AFB air space.
That's cold.Anyone still around and remember this thread? BIL ended up dying from COVID. Douche ended up in the hospital a week after he had pneumonia and refused to seek help. While on his death bed he never asked to see his sister (my wife). Good riddance we can finally close this chapter in our life.
Wow, you dodged so many bullets saying no. Good on you man!Anyone still around and remember this thread? BIL ended up dying from COVID. Douche ended up in the hospital a week after he had pneumonia and refused to seek help. While on his death bed he never asked to see his sister (my wife). Good riddance we can finally close this chapter in our life.
Epic wrap up.Anyone still around and remember this thread? BIL ended up dying from COVID. Douche ended up in the hospital a week after he had pneumonia and refused to seek help. While on his death bed he never asked to see his sister (my wife). Good riddance we can finally close this chapter in our life.