anyone over 30 and never been on a date?

[cleanerupper]

Hey man don't worry I'm 4'9 and it's easy for me to hook up with girls. Just stuff your crotch.

 

[KrillBee]

What is it about guys who live at home with their parents, not being able to get girls? I've never understood this phenomenon completely. I mean not all parents are against their boy having sex in his room. If there was a problem with having sex at the house, he could just go over to her place instead.

A man can still be making good money and live with his parents. A man can still be independent and live with his parents.

Why is it though that men who live with their parents, don't seem to get laid as much as men who don't?

 

[TanisHalfElven]

Originally posted by: KrillBee
What is it about guys who live at home with their parents, not being able to get girls? I've never understood this phenomenon completely. I mean not all parents are against their boy having sex in his room. If there was a problem with having sex at the house, he could just go over to her place instead.

A man can still be making good money and live with his parents. A man can still be independent and live with his parents.

Why is it though that men who live with their parents, don't seem to get laid as much as men who don't?

its not aobut the parent objecting to sex.
guys who live at their parent even at that age are normally much weaker, less independent and less world wise than pl who have lived alone and have faced the troubles living alone brings.

now if one depends on their parents for every thing (rent, food, clothes) than their not going to be as smart as someone who does althose himself.

ofcourse if your simply suppoting your family(parents) that different.

woimen tend to prefer men who can support them properly without relying on others. its called financial security.

 

[bersl2]

Two-thirds of the way there...

Hooray personality disorders!

 

[Remedy]

First are you meeting girls?

No I am not. If you're asking where I am seeing them. These are all women from my job. I work for ******* Health care systems. Women out number the guys here on ratio of 2:1(1,000+). I'm in IT dept. (Technician)

What do you mean they do not speak? You try to make chit chat and they don't speak? Well it's THEM and not you then. Try a different circle of friends or activities to meet more girls.

No. Simple things. I say "Good morning". And it's like no response. I'm not sure if they frustrated with the pay rate or pay roll or just plain ignorant. But, they don't speak if it at all. I know they speak english. My guess is, if you're not flaunting money or sporting the latest car, they don't speak.

Confidence is a big thing. Confident people are usually upbeat and happy people. Most girls want to be with a positive guy not a guy in self pity.

Most females don't care about confidence. Think about it: Why would a female want to date a guy who's had sex with more than 20+ women? Because he is confident? Did they forget that the 20 previous sex partners were just about not satisfied so they just proclaimed as "previous"?

Or what about the guys with the big SUV's and 24" rims and gas tanks that guzzle $80 a day? They are using the most materialistic items as a gateway to "Confidence".

Going clubbing is not my thing. Never has and never will be. I don't agree with the idea of some female dancing and grinding on another guy and a few minutes later she's hanging around me smelling like the last guy she was just with.

I've been to church sessions. But, not my type of atmosphere. I'm not religious and I'm not with "I've slept with 20+ guys and looking to redeem myself in life" type of women.

You can try dance classes. You WILL meet girls, get some exercise and hopefully start to feel more comfortable around girls

I'm not exactly sure with this idea. I work 8am to 5pm and goto school 6pm to 10pm everyday. Females on campus are just as bad as the ones at work.

In my opinion, domestic women have the worst mannerism I've ever saw.

You might want to Ladder theory, if you haven't already done so.

 

[randomlinh]

Originally posted by: Remedy
Most females don't care about confidence. Think about it: Why would a female want to date a guy who's had sex with more than 20+ women? Because he is confident? Did they forget that the 20 previous sex partners were just about not satisfied so they just proclaimed as "previous"?

since when does confidecne = # of sex partners?

 

[Remedy]

Originally posted by: randomlinh

Originally posted by: Remedy
Most females don't care about confidence. Think about it: Why would a female want to date a guy who's had sex with more than 20+ women? Because he is confident? Did they forget that the 20 previous sex partners were just about not satisfied so they just proclaimed as "previous"?

since when does confidecne = # of sex partners?

Because, if you had enough encounters, then you're either, pretty bold or you have alot of confindence to actually go out and participate in that type of lifestyle.

 

[Kirby]

try a blind chick.

 

[yobarman]

Originally posted by: Remedy

Originally posted by: randomlinh

Originally posted by: Remedy
Most females don't care about confidence. Think about it: Why would a female want to date a guy who's had sex with more than 20+ women? Because he is confident? Did they forget that the 20 previous sex partners were just about not satisfied so they just proclaimed as "previous"?

since when does confidecne = # of sex partners?

Because, if you had enough encounters, then you're either, pretty bold or you have alot of confindence to actually go out and participate in that type of lifestyle.

Uhm, being confident has absolutely no correlation to the amount of sex partners you have. Sure you're if you're confident you can screw a lot of people, but I know plenty of confident people who have anywhere from 1-5 sex partners.

 

[TheCrackedJack]

Originally posted by: yobarman

Originally posted by: Remedy

Originally posted by: randomlinh

Originally posted by: Remedy
Most females don't care about confidence. Think about it: Why would a female want to date a guy who's had sex with more than 20+ women? Because he is confident? Did they forget that the 20 previous sex partners were just about not satisfied so they just proclaimed as "previous"?

since when does confidecne = # of sex partners?

Because, if you had enough encounters, then you're either, pretty bold or you have alot of confindence to actually go out and participate in that type of lifestyle.

Uhm, being confident has absolutely no correlation to the amount of sex partners you have. Sure you're if you're confident you can screw a lot of people, but I know plenty of confident people who have anywhere from 1-5 sex partners.

Well, I've never met anyone whose had a lot of sex partners, who wasn't confident. Of course, just because your confident doesn't mean you have to sleep with lots of people, but I do beleive it has some correlation.

 

[yobarman]

Originally posted by: TheCrackedJack

Originally posted by: yobarman

Originally posted by: Remedy

Originally posted by: randomlinh

Originally posted by: Remedy
Most females don't care about confidence. Think about it: Why would a female want to date a guy who's had sex with more than 20+ women? Because he is confident? Did they forget that the 20 previous sex partners were just about not satisfied so they just proclaimed as "previous"?

since when does confidecne = # of sex partners?

Because, if you had enough encounters, then you're either, pretty bold or you have alot of confindence to actually go out and participate in that type of lifestyle.

Uhm, being confident has absolutely no correlation to the amount of sex partners you have. Sure you're if you're confident you can screw a lot of people, but I know plenty of confident people who have anywhere from 1-5 sex partners.

Well, I've never met anyone whose had a lot of sex partners, who wasn't confident. Of course, just because your confident doesn't mean you have to sleep with lots of people, but I do beleive it has some correlation.

I know, that's pretty much what I am saying.

Unconfident = very few, if any partners
Confident = very few to many partners.

 

[slackerinabox]

take it from the resident ATOT YAGT loser - move out! Get a fat girl drunk, take her back to your place.. Bang her.. With that renewed confidence go for more girls, more toward your "standards" and, yeah,... I don't knwo what else to say..

 

[bobsmith1492]

Originally posted by: Lurknomore
except for those giant dutch and scandinavian girls.

Ha... oh man, this girl who lives down the hall was running back while I was walking out to class. She must have been at least 3-4" taller than me, and I'm about 6'1"!

Then there was this middle-aged lady at church today. I'm sure she must have been even taller than the girl down the hall....

 

[bennylong]

With all the effort needed and the monterary cost, is it really worth it to find love or would I be better of just paying a hooker?

Sounds like it's a like of work involved and self improvement required to get a lady and to keep one. And with the divorce rate so high, is it really worth all the work to find love? Look at Scott Peterson, a good looking guy, with a good looking wife, a son on the way, and he kill his son and wife. The picture of married life doesn't sound that good if husband are killing their beautiful wife.

 

[confused1234]

BUMP!

 

[LanceM]

Stop playing WoW. Stop coming to ATOT during the day, and call it a night by 10pm. Get a gym membership. Go at least every other day. Never stop.

Kinda sad that I got married on the day the original post was made.

 

[Modular]

worst thread ever.

 

[Mikey]

jesus, if anyone is over 30 and has never had a g/f and still lives with parents and plays WoW to immerse himself in something fake, he's got real problems. get a life.

 

[confused1234]

might i add. go watch " the 32 year old virgin" err i mean 40 year old virgin

 

[AdamK47]

Originally posted by: Mikey
jesus, if anyone is over 30 and has never had a g/f and still lives with parents and plays WoW to immerse himself in something fake, he's got real problems. get a life.

I envy the man. I'm not joking either.

 

[Shortcut]

Originally posted by: bennylong
I only wish I was. I'm not a very attractive man. Tried Eharmony.com for over a year and all I"m getting is "Match closed"

I think you may need more of your Tier 3 drops to rake in the foxy ladies.

 

[confused1234]

ROFL makiing fun of this guy is helping me get over my depression. hahahaha noob all you have to do is stick it in her

 

[BD2003]

Originally posted by: Remedy

No. Simple things. I say "Good morning". And it's like no response. I'm not sure if they frustrated with the pay rate or pay roll or just plain ignorant. But, they don't speak if it at all. I know they speak english. My guess is, if you're not flaunting money or sporting the latest car, they don't speak.

Then you must be creepy. Your guess is dead wrong, though.

Most females don't care about confidence. Think about it: Why would a female want to date a guy who's had sex with more than 20+ women? Because he is confident? Did they forget that the 20 previous sex partners were just about not satisfied so they just proclaimed as "previous"?

Dead wrong, again. They are attracted to the confidence above all. They find out how many girls you've boned LONG after theyre initally attracted to you. This is self-justification at it's very worst.

Or what about the guys with the big SUV's and 24" rims and gas tanks that guzzle $80 a day? They are using the most materialistic items as a gateway to "Confidence".

None of that makes them confident - makes them appear rich, which attracts gold diggers. But gold diggers vet out the poseurs within minutes. You don't need fancy sh*t to be confident.

Going clubbing is not my thing. Never has and never will be. I don't agree with the idea of some female dancing and grinding on another guy and a few minutes later she's hanging around me smelling like the last guy she was just with.

Not one for clubbing myself, but its not exactly the place anyone goes to meet a wifey.

I'm not exactly sure with this idea. I work 8am to 5pm and goto school 6pm to 10pm everyday. Females on campus are just as bad as the ones at work.

You're just making them out to be bad, when it's your lack of confidence that's the problem.

In my opinion, domestic women have the worst mannerism I've ever saw.

You might want to Ladder theory, if you haven't already done so.

If you mean to tell me you can't find a decent girl out of the 300 million or so in this country, I dont think youre looking at all.

Ladder theory has a few valid points, but don't treat it as gospel. Its just a well-articulated and thought out way of saying confidence = king.

 

[bennylong]

I just applied for my passport. 2 more months, and I'm off to China and I'll be married. The matchmaker in China will find me a woman

 

[Koing]

Originally posted by: Remedy

First are you meeting girls?

No I am not. If you're asking where I am seeing them. These are all women from my job. I work for ******* Health care systems. Women out number the guys here on ratio of 2:1(1,000+). I'm in IT dept. (Technician)

What do you mean they do not speak? You try to make chit chat and they don't speak? Well it's THEM and not you then. Try a different circle of friends or activities to meet more girls.

No. Simple things. I say "Good morning". And it's like no response. I'm not sure if they frustrated with the pay rate or pay roll or just plain ignorant. But, they don't speak if it at all. I know they speak english. My guess is, if you're not flaunting money or sporting the latest car, they don't speak.

Confidence is a big thing. Confident people are usually upbeat and happy people. Most girls want to be with a positive guy not a guy in self pity.

Most females don't care about confidence. Think about it: Why would a female want to date a guy who's had sex with more than 20+ women? Because he is confident? Did they forget that the 20 previous sex partners were just about not satisfied so they just proclaimed as "previous"?

Or what about the guys with the big SUV's and 24" rims and gas tanks that guzzle $80 a day? They are using the most materialistic items as a gateway to "Confidence".

Going clubbing is not my thing. Never has and never will be. I don't agree with the idea of some female dancing and grinding on another guy and a few minutes later she's hanging around me smelling like the last guy she was just with.

I've been to church sessions. But, not my type of atmosphere. I'm not religious and I'm not with "I've slept with 20+ guys and looking to redeem myself in life" type of women.

You can try dance classes. You WILL meet girls, get some exercise and hopefully start to feel more comfortable around girls

I'm not exactly sure with this idea. I work 8am to 5pm and goto school 6pm to 10pm everyday. Females on campus are just as bad as the ones at work.

In my opinion, domestic women have the worst mannerism I've ever saw.

You might want to Ladder theory, if you haven't already done so.

Dude you sound so down on things...that has got to be giving off a bad vibe of sorts.

If the women aren't saying much then f0ck that. That clearly isn't you! Most women I meet are talkative and upbeat. They love to chit chat and talk about things.

Well if your busy 8am to 10pm then that doesn't leave a lot of time. Somethings got to give and for you your studies are com ing first (not a bad thing at all). Just be positive and not so down on things.

The confidence thing we are mixing up. People like to have sex and it doesn't mean anything. People just have different opinions on it. People funny enough like to have no commitment and hook up every so often.

Seriously give the dance thing a chance. You have a spare Sunday or Saturday right? If your busy with work or studies then fair enough. If your not your not bothering to try...

Koing