anyone over 30 and never been on a date?

[spaceghost21]

Originally posted by: potato28

Originally posted by: Xanis
I hope to God that you're joking.

 

[jdini76]

Originally posted by: rh71
Call MTV: http://www.mtv.com/onair/dyn/made/series.jhtml

sorry...

"If you appear to be between 15 and 21 and you want to be MADE..."

 

[EKKC]

Originally posted by: jdini76

Originally posted by: rh71
Call MTV: http://www.mtv.com/onair/dyn/made/series.jhtml

sorry...

"If you appear to be between 15 and 21 and you want to be MADE..."

the operative words being "appear to be", you can be 50 but you can appear to be 20

 

[inveterate]

Originally posted by: rh71
Call MTV: http://www.mtv.com/onair/dyn/made/series.jhtml

DUDE,, no way,, they're just out to embarrase you... Call Howard Stern. he'll do something..

 

[inveterate]

Originally posted by: BD2003

Originally posted by: inveterate
God,, I hate Half you guys who are only replying because it makes YOUUU feel better, with NO intention of helping the OPer.. THAT makes me sick..

Yo OP,, from my experience, Attraction is more than 70% physical, because ur ultimate goal as a living organism is to reproduce.

You Act the way you look

Get Awsome cloths..

Get Awsome hair cut/doo.

And As long as u have abs Girls will overlook ur face in a sexual situation.

Also, This is quite insulting towards women,, but on a DATE, if u want a confidence booster , think of women as THINGS, Put urself ABOVE the girl, though disrespectful and i'm probably going to be bashed for this,,

IT does however equate to CONFIDENCE/POWER.

So ,, physical for the MONEY
Attitude for the Power
and now u got everything they can want.

The parents thing is no problem..

Make up an elaborate reason. I'm sure if u have the time for WOW, u have enough time to think one up.

Its doubtful that a girl would go and cross-reference a story u made up about urself

And i'm sry bout saying women are things.. i'm just giving the mindset

You have no idea what youre talking about.

That coming from someone with 9328 posts on ANAND.

 

[d94]

Originally posted by: inveterate

Originally posted by: rh71
Call MTV: http://www.mtv.com/onair/dyn/made/series.jhtml

DUDE,, no way,, they're just out to embarrase you... Call Howard Stern. he'll do something..

 

[JM Aggie08]

best of luck to you. i've seen friends go through this, and i know its hard. dont give up.

 

[glen]

Russian Bride - seriously

 

[DaShen]

Originally posted by: potato28

Originally posted by: Xanis
I hope to God that you're joking.

That sucks, man. Do you have a good job or are your just free loading off your parents? Good job and money means security to woman, and if you are a nice guy, even if you are bufugly, some girls will dig you, if you get out there and ask.

If you are just freeloading though, /yourself or leave your folks and try to better yourself.

 

[LeadMagnet]

Dave is that you?

 

[DaShen]

Originally posted by: bennylong
Also, it seems woman don't want to date someone like me, the inexperienced type. They want someone that's more "dating matured and experienced."

It's like getting a first job, how do you get that first date and get that experience if no one is willing to give it to you???

It is called, girls want a guy who is comfortable with himself, someone who is self-dependant, and not always clinging onto them for answers.

 

[DaShen]

Originally posted by: Willoughbyva
The OP is probably kidding, but there are people out there in similar situations. I am 37 and have been on a couple dates, but nothing major. I have tried personals and stuff, but that never seems to work for me. I guess I kind of feel like being alone most of the time anyways. There is just so much crap that goes on in relationships and I don't think I can emotionaly handle it. At least with myself I just have to worry about me and what I am going through. The only thing in that is I do get lonely and want companionship, but I guess that won't happen. I do wonder why I am here on this planet, and what life should be about? But I am going to try not to dwell on it to much.

Perry

One, either you need to get out there and actually talk to girls be confident, or two, you need to lower your standards in one category and raise your standards in another (Shallow Hal). If you only go for shallow hot girls and you don't have anything shallow to offer them, they will reject you without even thinking about it.

 

[DaShen]

Originally posted by: StormRider
I believe you.

I'm in a similar (well actually probably a little worse) situation than you. I'm a little taller and also lived with my parents into my 30's. All my life, I have basically felt invisible to girls.

I'm now 43 and I have never been on a date. I did have a female friend in grad school and we did eat lunch together sometimes but I don't consider that a date because there was no romantic intentions (she had a boyfriend whom she eventually married -- although I did find her very attractive and for awhile I became more attracted to latinas because of her).

Insteading of becoming a bitter old man I try to use humor to laugh at my situation and I'm suspecting you are doing the same. What actually depresses me the most is when no one believes me -- that makes me close up and isolate myself more in real life. My big fear is being so different that I cannot ever belong or be accepted.

When I was younger I went to some adult sites and posted my real size and it seems no one believed me. Instead I saw other guys posting about their worries about having a 5 or 5.5 incher and other people reassuring him that size doesn't matter and stuff. Girls respond that they had an ex that small and that he turned out to be one of their better lovers and then they usually make a comment about how their current boyfriend is 7 inches and they are happy.

And I'm thinking, "5 or 5.5 inches is not small! It's a little less than average but it's not small. I would love to be that big". And then I also think, "Why do all these women that respond have ex's that have so-called small penises? Don't any of them have current boyfriends or husbands with small penises?" Wow, that reassuring. It almost seems like if you have a small one, you can never be a current boyfriend or husband.

From what I have heard, yes, size does matter. No matter what the girl says to the contrary (to not hurt your feelings). But you can always do other things as long as you are honest with yourself and her and willing to work at stuff. But that all happens at marriage.

 

[BD2003]

Originally posted by: inveterate

Originally posted by: BD2003

Originally posted by: inveterate
God,, I hate Half you guys who are only replying because it makes YOUUU feel better, with NO intention of helping the OPer.. THAT makes me sick..

Yo OP,, from my experience, Attraction is more than 70% physical, because ur ultimate goal as a living organism is to reproduce.

You Act the way you look

Get Awsome cloths..

Get Awsome hair cut/doo.

And As long as u have abs Girls will overlook ur face in a sexual situation.

Also, This is quite insulting towards women,, but on a DATE, if u want a confidence booster , think of women as THINGS, Put urself ABOVE the girl, though disrespectful and i'm probably going to be bashed for this,,

IT does however equate to CONFIDENCE/POWER.

So ,, physical for the MONEY
Attitude for the Power
and now u got everything they can want.

The parents thing is no problem..

Make up an elaborate reason. I'm sure if u have the time for WOW, u have enough time to think one up.

Its doubtful that a girl would go and cross-reference a story u made up about urself

And i'm sry bout saying women are things.. i'm just giving the mindset

You have no idea what youre talking about.

That coming from someone with 9328 posts on ANAND.

From the looks of it, my avg rate of posting isnt any higher than yours.

And you still have no idea what you're talking about...what you look like is the last thing 90% of girls care about.

 

[bennylong]

Originally posted by: DaShen

Originally posted by: potato28

Originally posted by: Xanis
I hope to God that you're joking.

That sucks, man. Do you have a good job or are your just free loading off your parents? Good job and money means security to woman, and if you are a nice guy, even if you are bufugly, some girls will dig you, if you get out there and ask.

If you are just freeloading though, /yourself or leave your folks and try to better yourself.

Yes, I work full time and I have an above average income. The problem is I live in CA so money doesn't stretch too far. I would have to live paycheck to paycheck if I moved out.

I think my problem is that I'm too shallow. I need to stop watching porn and think everyone woman should look like a porn star naked.

 

[GasX]

Originally posted by: fritolays
this is a joke and the OP is lying

Thanks, Capt. Obvious

 

[Ricochet]

The expression "get out more" should apply here.

FYI, I'm 32 and very short at 5'4". I been on many dates. None of them really panned out, but that's beside the point. Forget about your personality flaws or how ugly you think you are. Just get out more. Make new friends: guys and gals. Network.

Don't feel embarrassed to go out to bars and nightclubs. Alcohol is your friend. It will help get you laid. The best sex I had was with this 22 y/o knockout who was drunk enough to let her inhibitions to the wind. I was the first guy that grinded her on the dance floor that night and didn't let up. I was at the right place, at the right time. It doesn't happen often, in fact it is a rare occurence. But if you don't get out, nothing can happen. You can be ugly, geeky, short, and etc, but as the saying goes, "every dog has his day".

 

[Koing]

Originally posted by: EKKC
i have a friend who's just turned 30 and never had a gf. i doubt he ever went out on a date too. he too still living with parents, but damn without a SO or a love life, is he a rich mofo, he bought the whole house all by himself. good man.

I'd rather have a mortgage and a SO hands down. £££ would be useless with my friends and a SO to share it with. I hardly spend any £££ on myself as it is as I'm comfortable with the stuff I have. Yes a flashy car would be nice but dam that house needs to be bought...

Koing

 

[Koing]

Originally posted by: inveterate

Originally posted by: BD2003

Originally posted by: inveterate
God,, I hate Half you guys who are only replying because it makes YOUUU feel better, with NO intention of helping the OPer.. THAT makes me sick..

Yo OP,, from my experience, Attraction is more than 70% physical, because ur ultimate goal as a living organism is to reproduce.

You Act the way you look

Get Awsome cloths..

Get Awsome hair cut/doo.

And As long as u have abs Girls will overlook ur face in a sexual situation.

Also, This is quite insulting towards women,, but on a DATE, if u want a confidence booster , think of women as THINGS, Put urself ABOVE the girl, though disrespectful and i'm probably going to be bashed for this,,

IT does however equate to CONFIDENCE/POWER.

So ,, physical for the MONEY
Attitude for the Power
and now u got everything they can want.

The parents thing is no problem..

Make up an elaborate reason. I'm sure if u have the time for WOW, u have enough time to think one up.

Its doubtful that a girl would go and cross-reference a story u made up about urself

And i'm sry bout saying women are things.. i'm just giving the mindset

You have no idea what youre talking about.

That coming from someone with 9328 posts on ANAND.

Post count means f0ck all. My PPD isn't that high and I'm good with girls.

You just have to be confident and charming. Don't be scared to talk to them and just make chit chat. Yes if you dress sharper and have a nice 'look' about you (hair cut, clothes, glasses) it can help but ultimately if you can't talk to them your f0cked. If your funny that is a huge bonus as every girls loves laugh.

Apprently in a study you have 15seconds to make your impression. Most girls make a decision to date you within 15seconds of meeting you.

Koing

 

[daniel49]

Was married by 22.
Send me $65.95 for my dating tips.

 

[EKKC]

Originally posted by: daniel49
Was married by 22.
Send me $65.95 for my dating tips.

i would think you would have more marriage tips than dating tips???!!!

 

[Muadib]

Originally posted by: EKKC

Originally posted by: daniel49
Was married by 22.
Send me $65.95 for my dating tips.

i would think you would have more marriage tips than dating tips???!!!

Good point. I'd bet he married the first girl who gave him a taste.

 

[BD2003]

Originally posted by: Koing

Originally posted by: inveterate

Originally posted by: BD2003

Originally posted by: inveterate
God,, I hate Half you guys who are only replying because it makes YOUUU feel better, with NO intention of helping the OPer.. THAT makes me sick..

Yo OP,, from my experience, Attraction is more than 70% physical, because ur ultimate goal as a living organism is to reproduce.

You Act the way you look

Get Awsome cloths..

Get Awsome hair cut/doo.

And As long as u have abs Girls will overlook ur face in a sexual situation.

Also, This is quite insulting towards women,, but on a DATE, if u want a confidence booster , think of women as THINGS, Put urself ABOVE the girl, though disrespectful and i'm probably going to be bashed for this,,

IT does however equate to CONFIDENCE/POWER.

So ,, physical for the MONEY
Attitude for the Power
and now u got everything they can want.

The parents thing is no problem..

Make up an elaborate reason. I'm sure if u have the time for WOW, u have enough time to think one up.

Its doubtful that a girl would go and cross-reference a story u made up about urself

And i'm sry bout saying women are things.. i'm just giving the mindset

You have no idea what youre talking about.

That coming from someone with 9328 posts on ANAND.

Post count means f0ck all. My PPD isn't that high and I'm good with girls.

You just have to be confident and charming. Don't be scared to talk to them and just make chit chat. Yes if you dress sharper and have a nice 'look' about you (hair cut, clothes, glasses) it can help but ultimately if you can't talk to them your f0cked. If your funny that is a huge bonus as every girls loves laugh.

Apprently in a study you have 15seconds to make your impression. Most girls make a decision to date you within 15seconds of meeting you.

Koing

Eh, I dunno about 15 seconds. But all it takes is confidence, from which all other desirable traits stem, such as charm, honesty, humor, etc.

If you think you need abs and nice clothes to get girls, you sorely lack the one thing you need.

Having a shred of personality and humanity would be a good start. Being able to spell and using the absolute bare minimum of proper grammar and syntax certainly doesn't hurt either.

If you just want to nail ditzy girls that would fall for a douche like inveterate, prostitutes are probably cheaper.

And I'd certainly help the OP, if I actually believed him, and if I actually thought it'd go somewhere....god knows I've tried and succeeded doing such in the past, only to have it fall flat on his face because he screwed it up soon thereafter.

 

[TanisHalfElven]

Originally posted by: bennylong

Originally posted by: DaShen

Originally posted by: potato28

Originally posted by: Xanis
I hope to God that you're joking.

That sucks, man. Do you have a good job or are your just free loading off your parents? Good job and money means security to woman, and if you are a nice guy, even if you are bufugly, some girls will dig you, if you get out there and ask.

If you are just freeloading though, /yourself or leave your folks and try to better yourself.

Yes, I work full time and I have an above average income. The problem is I live in CA so money doesn't stretch too far. I would have to live paycheck to paycheck if I moved out.

I think my problem is that I'm too shallow. I need to stop watching porn and think everyone woman should look like a porn star naked.

there's your problem right there!
btw if your short that doesn't matter. go to the gym instead of WOW. beef up. no body like fat ppl. most ppl will think your hot if you have confindence, and lots of muscle.

 

[Dritnul]

Originally posted by: bennylong
I 'm 32 years old and still live with my parents and have never been on a date.

Anyone else like me? Thank god for WoW or I would really feel like a social outcast

ask again when im 30(5/12/17) i hope not but with my current level of motivation it could take a while