- Aug 10, 2002
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Could use some opinions, here we go: My sister and I are having a debate, about what foods you can and can't eat at work. What spurred this debate was a disagreement I had a while back at work with a guy in the cafeteria. I had an Indian girlfriend at the time and she cooked some fish curry (which was delicious BTW) and then I packaged it up and brought it to work for the next day to reheat in the microwave. Some guy in the cafeteria expressed his disapproval, not in a hostile way but definitely made it known that he didn't think too highly of my food and was indicating that I shouldn't bring it in because of the smell in the cafeteria. Well I barely knew this guy and took slight offense to his casual and unsolicited opinion. I merely replied with something along the line that he can mind his own business unless he wants to buy and cook the food I eat.
Fast forward to today as I am recalling the story to my sister and she also thinks what I did was rude. Funny how the Arabs, Indians and other foreign coworkers didn't mind and some even came over to ask and compliment on how delicious the food smelled. My sister thinks that I have no consideration for my coworkers and I should bring in something "less offensive". I told her that being mad about food odor in the cafeteria is like being mad about a shit smell in the bathroom. Sometimes I want some home cooking and don't want to eat a sandwich, fast food or other outside food. I didn't think the smell was offensive, it was just noticeable when combined with the Indian spices. Furthermore its not like I ate the food back at my desk and smelled up the office space, this was eaten in the cafeteria. Now she refers to me as "THAT guy". So whatsup? Rude or not?
Fast forward to today as I am recalling the story to my sister and she also thinks what I did was rude. Funny how the Arabs, Indians and other foreign coworkers didn't mind and some even came over to ask and compliment on how delicious the food smelled. My sister thinks that I have no consideration for my coworkers and I should bring in something "less offensive". I told her that being mad about food odor in the cafeteria is like being mad about a shit smell in the bathroom. Sometimes I want some home cooking and don't want to eat a sandwich, fast food or other outside food. I didn't think the smell was offensive, it was just noticeable when combined with the Indian spices. Furthermore its not like I ate the food back at my desk and smelled up the office space, this was eaten in the cafeteria. Now she refers to me as "THAT guy". So whatsup? Rude or not?