Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: knyghtbyte
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: oculus
"if the shoe fits ..... "
Do you consider yourself a winner? Or are you simply going to ignore that post?
Yes i do.
And what confirms you as a winner?
obviously your own criteria confirms it correct? because to someone else using their criteria you might be a loser.....i'm not saying i think you are, but so far in my opinion you havnt shown yourself to be a winner.....do you agree its possible for someone to be in the middle ground, the grey area, not a winner or loser? some people say there can only be one winner, so is everyone else in the world a loser? if so what makes you the winner, i think its plain to see there are many people who would be considered winners before you....
Oh, and you like to attack peoples decisions on what makes their world tick, and i think most people agree that someone who attacks with no reason to is the bigger loser
anyway, work over, time to go home...think i'll get in a couple of hours on CS:S, trialling for a new clan as i had a break from playing for a while to get in some Worm time....heh
ta ta, this 'loser' is signing out for now ;-)
this is how I see it you may think this point of view is absurd or even arrogant but it has served me well in the time that i've incorporated it into my life.
I only make the distinction between two types of people that encounter.
We can call them winners and losers for the sake of keeping it consistent.
A winner would be someone I would categorize as wanting in my life in some way shape or form they enrich my life in a positive way to the extent that I would want them to remain in it.
I do not have time to deal with people that don't have anything to offer me. PERIOD. So if you are not helping me move forward in someway in my life....I DONT WANT YOU THERE. This type of person I would categorize as a loser.
Now you mentioned there being a middle ground and yes to a certain extent there is a small middle ground. Generally these are people that I do not know at all and have no basis for previous categorization into the two aforementioned categories of people. This person in the middle ground has something intriguing to me about them so they will remain in this purgatory if you will until they have demonstrated one way or the other where they belong in my system of categorization.
I do tend to generalize people alot because I dont have time to go through a formal character evaluation with everyone in the world I encounter. For example if I see someone alll goth or punked out, I will block them out of my vision entirely as in my experience I have yet to come across anyone fitting those characteristics with anything positive or of value to offer me. Now that is not to say that tommorow by some unforseen chance of events something could happen to radically change my opinion.
I forgot my conclusion: To that end, I consider myself a winner because I very consistently add something positive and of value to the lives of people I know and associate with.
i hope this had made things clearer for you.