All of these generational issues have a single source. We all feel but do not know we feel and do not want to know we don't want to know we feel like the worst person in the world, but once that feeling has been deeply implanted and repressed, the result that no matter who you are, you will seek to blame somebody else. If the subject is race, some other race will be the worst in the world and if it is politics, some other party, and if age, any other age than ones own will be the one that is lucky and never had to struggle.
But if you want to find a real gem of a piece of shit, look for somebody who holds up a mirror.
You are going to have to stop pointing fingers at others if you want to stop blaming yourself. We hate ourselves but the truth of that is a lie. We were simply put down and believed it and we can glimps it in our reactions to being disrespected.