Crusty
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- Sep 30, 2001
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Originally posted by: Ender
Originally posted by: MCrusty
Originally posted by: Ender
My vanity would prevent me from siring a mentally challenged child. I'd like my child to achieve goals in life and be proud of him or her. Having a child that merely passes through life with nothing accomplished upsets me profoundly.
Goals are relative, if my child had a severe mental handicap I would be extremely proud if they graduated high school and attended College.
Again, my very vanity prevents me from sharing in your idea that such a thing demands respect. I compare accomplishments relative to my peers (i.e. society as a whole). I would like others to respect my child just as much as I would. People may respect a mentally handicapped child for graduating high school, but it's only because they're sympathetic to the child's mental handicap.
Whether or not they are sympathetic doesn't change the fact that they still respect the person. When you respect someone, it is fairly obvious to them how you feel. When you are sympathetic to someone that person may or not realize that, and given the mental state of said person I highly doubt they realize the only reason someone respects them is because they feel sorry for them.