I don't think I need to fly a flag in order to be patriotic. I chose the avatar cause I felt like it, not because I felt obligated. But other than that, I don't have a flag on my car or anything. But so what? I'm still grieving? I still love this country totally and without reservation, and would die to defend it. Waving a flag or not waving a flag doesn't change that one bit. I've still teared up when thinking about all those lives snuffed out so heinously. I don't not wear a flag because I'm unpatriotic, bust because my patriotism lies within me, not within a flag.