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Lifer
- Apr 17, 2003
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I agree that there are some things they just don't need to know, like details of your sex life.
Do you mind sharing the vague specifics about things you won't be telling your parents and things that they just don't need to know?
For example... One of my friends lost her job and knew that telling her parents would worry them sick. She decided not to tell them, and eight months later when she finally got a job (an awesome one that she loves and is amazing at!), she just told them that she was offered a better position elsewhere and decided to leave her job to take it.
I suppose there's nothing her parents could've done to help the situation and telling them would have worried them sick every day for eight months. She feels like she did the right thing and I agree, although if I'm ever a parent I like to think that I'd want to know everything about my child and what they were going through so I could support them through it instead of having them go through it alone.
I struggle with this because I'm generally extremely honest, direct, and transparent with myself and with my friends. Funny that with parents, things become much more limited and censored.
That's a perfect example of something I wouldn't tell my parents...they really could not offer anything of value in that situation and would only work themselves up over a pretty common situation.